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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Stolen: 5:03pm On Nov 23

MARRIAGE ARE NOT FOR POOR MEN THAT ARE STRUGGLING TO FEED.

U WILL HAVE TO FEED YOUR WIFE AND KIDS, WE DONT WANT TO SEE THEM BEGGING ON THE STREET OR TRAFFIC HOLD UP.

GO AND HUSTLE, THAT MONEY NO REACH MONEY PEOPLE SPRAY ON OTHER PEOPLE AT WEDDING.

POOR MAN

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Taich(m): 5:03pm On Nov 23

Hmm, the person lives in the UK, if he can’t pay a marriage list of <£2k, he should please live the girl alone. People forget what the culture about bride price is really all about. It is a litmus test, it will test how deep your pocket is, and your negotiation skills. It will test if you are matured enough to handle challenges that consigns your potential wife and family. Apparently if the lady has a problem or a need of £2k , the husband may send her back to her family for help. I like what happened, if the man thinks he is being extorted , let him live the lady alone. Is better to discontinue at this stage than later, we will all be ok.

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by AlphaStyles(m): 5:03pm On Nov 23

Dem forget to add VAT grin

Very soon FG go dey put VAT for marriage list

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by correctyourself(m): 5:04pm On Nov 23

Liar!

Family Head
Family chairman
Village chairman.

Are they politics party members?

You would have just included family and village secretary to make complete lies!

Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by jospepper(m): 5:04pm On Nov 23

Toh.

Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by werisetogether(m): 5:05pm On Nov 23

At least they were considerate enough to add "Negotiable"...

(Thanks for sharing @ExAngel007)

Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by udemzyudex(m): 5:05pm On Nov 23

This man is not serious.

Oga you can negotiate this, tell your people to negotiate the list.
The price will be reduced.

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Kinzo0917(m): 5:05pm On Nov 23

APOPTOSIS:
Akwa Ibom marriage list na Scroll naa
....na dem be the highest for Naija

Na Igbos be worst o

That why many of their women are unmarried

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by BoldBrainz(m): 5:06pm On Nov 23

TheBillyonaire:
That amount is very considerate. There is no labor charge there, which exist in some climes.

He got a good offer to be honest, I see no reason to complain. The expense is less than 2 month's of average rent in London.

Some of you are mentally unstable but you're not aware because you're considering it to be a flex.

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Stolen: 5:07pm On Nov 23

AlphaStyles:
Dem forget to add VAT
Very soon FG go dey put VAT for marriage list

NOTICE, IT IS USUALLY LAZY YORUBA MAN DISTURBING ABOUT BRIDE PRICE.

U WILL NEVER SEE IGBO, IJAW, FULANI, HAUSA, IBIBIO, EFIK, URHOBO, BINI COMPLAIN ABOUT BRIDE PRICE.

IT IS PART OF BEING RESPONSIBLE.

LET THESE YORUBA MEN STICK WITH THEIR FREE YORUBA WOMEN, WAHT IS PURSUING THEM.

U WANT TO INTERTRIBAL MARRIAGE AND U DONT WANT TO RESPECT OTHERS PEOPLE MARRIAGE RITES.

MAD!

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by ndukwejoe(m): 5:07pm On Nov 23

APOPTOSIS:
Akwa Ibom marriage list na Scroll naa
....na dem be the highest for Naija

Kalahari marriage de laugh you

Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Toluwanise247(m): 5:08pm On Nov 23

Person way no ready to marry wey you dey force her…. My man leave for her parent house joor

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Kinzo0917(m): 5:08pm On Nov 23

TheBillyonaire:

Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?

You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free?

When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.

You reason like a kid

Slave mentality

Ogede

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by BoldBrainz(m): 5:08pm On Nov 23

udemzyudex:
This man is not serious.

Oga you can negotiate this, tell your people to negotiate the list.
The price will be reduced.

You're the clown here!

How do you start negotiating a 3.5m naira brideprice list? What do you think is going to be the eventual outcome? You're yet to even consider the cost of putting the traditional marriage ceremony together and you're here talking garbage.

If na your brother, advise am make e go negotiate that kind list.

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by TheBillyonaire: 5:09pm On Nov 23

BoldBrainz:

Some of you are mentally unstable but you're not aware because you're considering it to be a flex.

I do not blame you. Someone could not afford a condom that night.

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Stolen: 5:09pm On Nov 23

MY ADVICE TO YORUBA WOMEN IS TO PLACE A BRIDE PRICE ON YORUBA MEN HEAD, THEY HAVE BECOME VERY LAZY BECAUSE YOU DO EVERYTHING FOR THEM AND THEY SEE MARRYING YOU AS A FAVOUR.

NOT THAT THEY EVEN APPRECIATE IT.

WHEN THEY ARE FACED WITH BEING RESPONSIBLE THEY START TO COMPLAIN, LOOKING FOR HOW TO CHANGE OTHER PEOPLE CULTURAL MARRIAGE RITES THAT EVERYBODY PASS THROUGH.

THEY SHOULD CHANGE IT FOR YOU BECAUSE THEY BECAME TOLERANT ENOUGH TO ALLOW YOU MARRY THEIR WOMEN.

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by BodePolScience: 5:09pm On Nov 23

Well, if the supposed lady is a virgin and the man can stomach the bill then no problem... But paying such money for a long distance relationship is risky and not worth the stress...

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Nonexisting1: 5:09pm On Nov 23

A man who lives abroad, who fell in love with a Nigerian girl, who had plans to marry her, who planned to take her abroad and train her in school cannot just wake to cancel his wedding because of 3.5m marriage list. God's hand is on this one and I praise HIM for saving the simp. Otito diri Chineke.

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by babztee(m): 5:10pm On Nov 23

Is she a virgin?if yes,you can pay.Otherwise,make them getat 🤡

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by gudugudumeje: 5:10pm On Nov 23

But did he tender his complaint, and express his dissatisfaction formally, and informally? That is before withdrawing..... Otherwise, he is not right to so withdraw....

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by VaginaAcademic: 5:11pm On Nov 23

Na God save am grin

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by BoldBrainz(m): 5:11pm On Nov 23

TheBillyonaire:
I do not blame you. Someone could not afford a condom that night.

Of course you would know because you're a product of that very unfortunate circumstance.

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by TheBillyonaire: 5:11pm On Nov 23

Kinzo0917:

You reason like a kid

Slave mentality

Ogede

Lost soul. fucck off. Poverty of mind is in your bloodline.

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by fawaz050(m): 5:11pm On Nov 23

TheBillyonaire:

Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?

You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free?

When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.

So the value of a woman is N3.5m. pele o Valuation Specialist

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by AlphaStyles(m): 5:11pm On Nov 23

Stolen:

NOTICE, IT IS USUALLY LAZY YORUBA MAN DISTURBING ABOUT BRIDE PRICE.

U WILL NEVER SEE IGBO, IJAW, FULANI, HAUSA, IBIBIO, EFIK, URHOBO, BINI COMPLAIN ABOUT BRIDE PRICE.

IT IS PART OF BEING RESPONSIBLE.

Person go see you for road now think say u dey among normal people not knowing that your thinking alone is the same with those inside psychiatric hospitals.

Watin bring Yoruba come this matter now?

LET THESE YORUBA MEN STICK WITH THEIR FREE YORUBA WOMEN, WAHT IS PURSUING THEM.

U WANT TO INTERTRIBAL MARRIAGE AND U DONT WANT TO RESPECT OTHERS PEOPLE MARRIAGE RITES.

MAD!

Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by VULCAN(m): 5:12pm On Nov 23

When I buy a used car, I can do whatever I like with it.

When I buy a wife, I can do whatever I like with her.

The wise will understand the message I am passing here

It's unlikely TheBillyonaire will, though.

TheBillyonaire:

Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?

You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free?

When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by APOPTOSIS: 5:12pm On Nov 23

I will spend more than that if the Lady deserves it.
If the Lady exudes peace & produces Gold on whatever she touches, I will pay 15M

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by lapintoz: 5:13pm On Nov 23

That is the tradition. The father in law don follow other people chop bride price....now its the turn of others to chop.

If the guy no fit afford the amount asked, he should move on. Another Odogwu will ask for the lady's hand in marriage.

TheBillyonaire:
That amount is very considerate. There is no labor charge there, which exist in some climes.

He got a good offer to be honest, I see no reason to complain. The expense is less than 2 month's of average rent in London.

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by AntiChristian: 5:14pm On Nov 23

That's too much o!

That's why I no fit move close to that side as regards marriage!

Dowry is for my wife only not for all the ancestors and predecessors!

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by GiZcorp: 5:14pm On Nov 23

TheBillyonaire:

Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?

You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free?

When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.

And who told you marriage is for the highest bidder... No wonder most of you are punching bags in your odogwu husbands house.

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Re: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by armyofone(m): 5:14pm On Nov 23

GboyegaD:
It states it is negotiable, why not negotiate?
That said, the current day inflation added to the cost nonetheless, what is it with other people asides the parents on the list? Shouldn't it be one family?

Everyone must come get their share oh when they heard he is outside Nigeria.
He could have taken the list and strike or reduce everything/expenses that he feels were exaggerated.

If he truly canceled the marriage, then maybe he wasn't really in love in the first place.

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