Merry100:

Sorry, dear. It's just that sometimes the truth can seem bitter and irritating.

Not truth. But lies that is quite illogical and actually makes no sense.
I've dealt with hard truths, so I know how it is. I've seen lies that make sense but I had to decipher through to recognize it's poison, but this right here is just plain garbage.

GreatAchiever1:

When I tell you say you never open bible before, you dey yarn dust. Now I'm convinced by this. Please if you want to dance to the tune of modern ideologies in marriage, feel free but don't bring this to the Christian beliefs because that is where you will face many oppositions and rebukes from those who actually knows and upholds to what the Bible teach concerning Marriage.

You are merely repeating modern ideologies, modern ideologies. Provide evidence for the outdated ideologies from the Bible.

Traditional philosophy was created by humans; if it is not convenient, it can be changed or altered.

AutoChick4U:
U talking about submission. Bible no talk make woman support in providing

Go read your Bible wella...

Merry100:

You are merely repeating modern ideologies. Provide evidence for the outdated ideologies from the Bible.

Traditional philosophy was created by humans; if it is convenient, it can be changed or altered.

If you're referring to classic human philosophy such as the ancient Greek, medieval philosophy, enlightenment philosophy, communism etc, then it can be changed. But when we talk about the commands of God in the bible, then No; it ought not to be interpreted from the lens of some cultural philosophy, but rather from the plain reading of the text first, because really it's not hard to understand, but due to defiance and rebellion, we tend to hold onto what our carnal nature wants and ignore the plain teaching of the Bible, take for example, this nonsense post you just created because correct me if I'm wrong but you are the commenter quinmerry in that post.

Samantha125:
The same way getting married to an obedient boring wife doesn't guarantee a blissful marriage... Some of you men would still find out later in life that those children whom you thought were yours, aren't.

You don't want women who are to equate themselves with men, yet you also want women who can help pay the bills, right?😅😅😅

Not all women that are obedient are boring and not all boring women are obedient.
Nature has made men to be greater than women, that is why you are created as a help mate. Women paying small small bills should not be an issue when men bear the majority of the bills.

I don't think you are married yet, I guess you are trying to get tips, it does work at times but the pattern at which issues may arise in marriage may be different from this theory

GreatAchiever1:


If you're referring to classic human philosophy such as the ancient Greek, medieval philosophy, enlightenment philosophy, communism etc, then it can be changed. But when we talk about the commands of God in the bible, then No; it ought not to be interpreted from the lens of some cultural philosophy, but rather from the plain reading of the text first, because really it's not hard to understand, but due to defiance and rebellion, we tend to hold onto what our carnal nature wants and ignore the plain teaching of the Bible, take for example, this nonsense post you just created because correct me if I'm wrong but you are the commenter quinmerry in that post.

You can share your message with gullible Christians who haven't read or fully grasped the Bible.

Instead of addressing the initial question, you've veered off into irrelevant points. The truth is heavy, and your heart is too fragile for it; by the time I'm done sharing, your heart might be in pieces. For the sake of your mental well-being, let's end this conversation here. Case closed!

AutoChick4U:
Providing is a must too. Any man who can't sufficiently provide should not marry.

Such ladies will grow old in their parents' house. As a matter of fact, gone are the days guys chase ladies for relationship or marriage, reverse is even now the case. Ladies are now learning skills so as to become useful to their husbands.

Merry100:

You can share this kind of message with gullible Christians who haven't read or fully gasped the Bible.

Instead of addressing the initial question, you've veered off into irrelevant points. The truth is heavy, your heart is too fragile for the truth, and by the time I'm done sharing it, your heart might be in pieces. For the sake of your mental well-being, let's end this conversation here. Case closed!

Please let it close because, your argument proposition is quite dumb even after I replied your point you still can't comprehend the answers given. Make I no lie for you, feminism no fit you at all. Atleast the once I argue with gives a challenging propositions but yours... Nah. And please don't attach this nonsense ideology with the bible again if you yourself haven't read it very well.

You're just a typical Nigerian man... Arguing with you is useless...😩😩😩

Gboom:

Not all women that are obedient are boring and not all boring women are obedient.
Nature has made men to be greater than women, that is why you are created as a help mate. Women paying small small bills should not be an issue when men bear the majority of the bills.

I don't think you are married yet, I guess you are trying to get tips, it does work at times but the pattern at which issues may arise in marriage may be different from this theory

Marriage isn't a must

If you can't submit, no need marry

Samantha125:
I'm sure your brothers would beg to differ.

Probably because they don't know what they wants

Like I said it's a reverse psychology , people may find it strange to understand what rocks their spouse's boat, and it is just like that

A man once said he needs a woman that teases him always

And you, see such a person wouldn't go well with a humble woman

Truvelisback:
Such ladies will grow old in their parents' house. As a matter of fact, gone are the days guys chase ladies for relationship or marriage, reverse is even now the case. Ladies are now learning skills so as to become useful to their husbands.

dey whine yourself

Tallesty1:
Women don't inherently have issues with submission; some just struggle with submitting to their husbands. They submit to their boss, pastor, cameraman, best friend, etc, anyone except the man they're married to.

Don't men submit to these people also?

Re: Pastor: if husbands can treat their wives how some pastors treat their congregation, they will not be wailing about submission.

NOETHNICITY:
They married you while you have already since been disvirgined by ‘only God knows whom’. And you still want all the love in the world. Nonsense

I don't get.

You mean a woman who wasn't a virgin when she got married ( the man's choice) does not deserve love?

But he expects submission?

Anyways, you will always find foolish, desperate women will to put up with any thrash from men.

Omoawoke:


Then all you whey no deserve should remain single and leave the game for those who deserve

But the interesting fact is that, a man can stay without a spouse for as long as he wants…
So let’s play if you wanna play

The plenty men remarrying upon widowerhood and divorce strongly disagree with you

udeh3:
Marriage isn't biblical. Marriage is traditional.

Don't marry any man you can't respect

@ bold:

Is that so?

bukatyne:


The plenty men remarrying upon widowerhood and divorce strongly disagree with you

Keep comparing yourself to a man…

I dey laugh

immortalcrown:
Hype someone else.

Even now I could still feel your hatred for the word "boss".
In the streets men can randomly use that word for themselves and they don't know each other..

A man can buy another beer and walk away even though they've never met before.. they refer to themselves as boss until the drinks are exhausted,

A man can give a man a lift and walk away without exchanging numbers..they use same word to address each other until they go their separate ways

But I agree a man cannot give what he does not have!

If you could not afford to spare 1k why not simply say "guy e no Dey now"....why publicly sharing packets of what you have inside of you= hate.

Or could it be that you are an old lady so when the guy called u boss, the thing now touched you somehow?

Look, mo Kan Bere Ni oh

nosa2ekundayo:
Even now I could still feel your hatred for the word "boss".
In the streets men can randomly use that word for themselves and they don't know each other..

A man can buy another beer and walk away even though they've never met before.. they refer to themselves as boss until the drinks are exhausted,

A man can give a man a lift and walk away without exchanging numbers..they use same word to address each other until they go their separate ways

But I agree a man cannot give what he does not have!

If you could not afford to spare 1k why not simply say "guy e no Dey now"....why publicly sharing packets of what you have inside of you= hate.

Or could it be that you are an old lady so when the guy called u boss, the thing now touched you somehow?

Look, mo Kan Bere Ni oh

Make a difference by accepting the hype for yourself and giving him the 1k.

I'm glad you could not prove that I hate anybody. You only claim that I hate the word, "boss", and you are partially right. You are not totally right because I only hate it for myself, not for those who like it. I have no problem with you or any other person accepting it for yourselves. I address my superiors at workplace as boss because I see that they like it. But I tell those under me to either address me by my name or call me, "brother", I don't even like to be addressed with, "sir".

Is it a crime if I don't like being addressed by the word, "boss"? Answer this question. If you think it is a crime, explain why you think so.

Samantha125:
I once tried to be a good submissive woman to my man and he said I'm boring... I'd even kneel down when giving him something to eat.

lmao.. This weyrey.. Hahaha

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bukatyne:


I don't get.

You mean a woman who wasn't a virgin when she got married ( the man's choice) does not deserve love?

But he expects submission?

Anyways, you will always find foolish, desperate women will to put up with any thrash from men.

No, it’s the other way round

Any girl who marries already disvirgined, not as a widow nor a divorced woman, she has no right to demand anything.

Why doesn’t she go and demand all the love from the street guys who disvirgined her?

When a woman gifts her virginity to a man, she is entitled to her rights 100% only from that man.

EmperorCaesar:

I used to think Les dont concern themselves with Men or that they are totally indifferent about us, but obviously, Men hate pushed you into becoming a Les

🤣🤣Omg, look at you being all loud and ignorant. Lesbian me? Lmao! If you think men can push a woman to be lesbian it means many NL men are gays pretending to be straight.

Jman06:
Should men rather submit to women

Yes.

BoldBrainz:


Does your father know that you reason like this?

🤣🤣 Omg, this is funny! Well, yes he does.

Why are y'all crying? You actually DON'T deserve it.

Dogalmighty17:


Ofcourse why won't you reason this way. You drink sperm for a living obviously. Madam 69.

🤣🤣 Lmao! You're guys stop being emotional na.

sparko1:


I would have agreed with you except you have at some point being under a man while grinded and this statement is a REFLECTION OF WHO HE WAS, rather than ALL MEN.

You're trying so hard to be logical, it's cute. 🤣🤣

sonofsteven:


Then why marry if you can't do that?

If he doesn't love you, why marry him

Who said I'm married? 🤣🤣Egbami. Ha, men are so emotional o.

AfDapone:


Then never accept the marriage proposal.

🤣🤣Omg, you sound like marriage is a billion dollars! That nonsense thing that doesn't benefit women? Lmao! Tell another joke please.

Anny69:
Who said I'm married? 🤣🤣Egbami. Ha, men are so emotional o.

Good o
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