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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by severee(m): 11:55pm On Dec 21
grin my advise is to do yahoo
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Callosobruchus(m): 11:57pm On Dec 21
I had this girl, the only who borrowed me money without pressure. She's cool and all of that, my family was waiting for me to confirm her as my wife; even reach sister in-laws too O!But truth be told I couldn't fall in love with her cause she was not my type in a way. I respected her though, still do.Beautiful and decent like die!But my brother,there are so many brothers out there who should've been perfect husbands to their wives but unfortunately they're nothing but cheating mvrdefuckers, not because they want to be, but because they married wrong wives out of societal pressures.Be you, just "push" until you realize yourself, your priorities; the right partner who you wouldn't cheat on would come when you get your head straight.

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by PlanetZero: 2:20am
Ouchbabe:

Is not that easy oo.
My friend travelled to Canada this January and I know the whooping millions she spent.
No be everybody get that kain moni

It is well my dear

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Osanoghodua1: 3:02am
Give your life to Jesus, learn a skill, learn Crypto currency, start with Airdrop and bounties, get married through the leading of the Holy Spirit, don't Marry a well endowed woman but be led by the Spirit of God, there is no much time to correct many errors.

Go deep into Crypto investment especially Airdrop and bounties, look for a community and join and be faithful. You will surely make it, see recent crypto Airdrops: Penguin (I got over 31,000 Penguin spanning over 9 wallets, I got Deepbooks worth over $5k+ at the current price for staking just about 5 SUi which was worth over $3 as at when staked. You shouldn't leave your life to chance, Jesus is waiting to help you.

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Osanoghodua1: 3:07am
ednut1:
There is nothing like marriage brings grace. Most brings more poverty and the men end up running away. Dey play
Before I got married, I had nothing, paid no bills, the Holy spirit directed me to my wife a private school teacher, I got married to her largely funded by family friends and church. 3yrs into the marriage, God immensely blessed both of us, the hand of God came heavily upon our lives and changed everything.. I don't regulate my life outside God. I am a highly religious person cos of this, I don't keep much friends and don't associate Much with people I don't like a perversed relationship although I am a very social person but I needed to please Jesus.

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Charly68: 3:08am
The glory of the sun is different from that of the moon and they both have their time. Don't compare yourself with any man if you don't want to enter hot soup. Let God leads you alright and you will blow at your own time in Jesus name. Work hard and be focused. Let God breath on you and things will definitely change for the better

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by spiceadole: 3:14am
Nigerian men are funny.

The same marriage that they benefit nothing from?

This op must be a child.

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Dwightventures(m): 3:47am
All these people wey no understand anything. People are in their 50s, 60s, still struggling. Many die of old age having spent their whole lives struggling without reprieve. With wife and children o, to meet your vacuous standards, while creating a next generation that will likely continue that struggling because they were not given a solid platform to begin life with.

I see no need to waste my time explaining further. The aggregate of accumulated knowledge and worldview that the Nigerian has is sufficient reason for the people to continue to suffer (aka struggle)
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Kobojunkie: 3:58am
Osanoghodua1:
➜ Before I got married, I had nothing, paid no bills, the Holy spirit directed me to my wife a private school teacher, I got married to her largely funded by family friends and church. 3yrs into the marriage, God immensely blessed both of us, the hand of God came heavily upon our lives and changed everything.. I don't regulate my life outside God. I am a highly religious person cos of this, I don't keep much friends and don't associate Much with people I don't like a perversed relationship although I am a very social person but I needed to please Jesus.
Stop telling these fantastical lies to deceive others. πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

Right there in your churches over 50% of these who your magical holy spirit directed to their wife/husband but have been stuck for many years in poverty situation even with their children without hope of a better life in this life. The vast majority of the religious population in Nigeria live under serious poverty conditions and many of them are married individuals. πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Gerrard59(m): 4:10am
Sirchiboy has come again.

You people never learn. Well, we will see a similar post next year and so on until you learn.

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sharingiscaring: 4:10am
Kobojunkie:
Your response does not make sense of any kind.
Reading your comments here, I can tell that you're one of these people who think they are too wise but are actually empty. Why do you think everyone but you is stupid and you don't care about how they'd feel in telling them?

Meanwhile, there's no wisdom in reducing the font of your quotes because that makes them difficult to read. Doing that only makes you feel like a wannabe tech expert which you are not - though you want us to believe you are.

Try to be more emotionally intelligent.

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Kobojunkie: 4:15am
Sharingiscaring:
➜Reading your comments here, I can tell that you're one of these people who think they are too wise but are actually empty. Why do you think everyone but you is stupid and you don't care about how they'd feel in telling them? Meanwhile, there's no wisdom in reducing the font of your quotes because that makes them difficult to read. Doing that only makes you feel like a wannabe tech expert which you are not - though you want us to believe you are. Try to be more emotionally intelligent.
Again, you are not making any sense!
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by BrotherJapa: 4:28am
Osanoghodua1:
Before I got married, I had nothing, paid no bills, the Holy spirit directed me to my wife a private school teacher, I got married to her largely funded by family friends and church. 3yrs into the marriage, God immensely blessed both of us, the hand of God came heavily upon our lives and changed everything.. I don't regulate my life outside God. I am a highly religious person cos of this, I don't keep much friends and don't associate Much with people I don't like a perversed relationship although I am a very social person but I needed to please Jesus.

Did you marry a spirit wife or a real human? Just asking for a friend

A tale from the book of Lamba 10:5
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Checkwell: 5:10am
Sirchiboy:

Need a wife

For you to type this, you are immature at 40. You are coming on Narialand to say you need a wife? Was that how other men got a wife?

I think you are a lazy man with "social media brain." Now I understand the topic of your post even better.

Please go away.

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by ppogba: 5:49am
The Interior decor guy must have done the interior decoration for half the houses in PH including the government house.

Why not get Siminalaye' number from him as a start.?

Or in the alternative go a a forum for people in their 50s who are still struggling.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by ppogba: 5:52am
Checkwell:


For you to type this, you are immature at 40. You are coming on Narialand to say you need a wife? Was that how other men got a wife?

I think you are a lazy man with "social media brain." Now I understand the topic of your post even better.

Please go away.

My guy.

Why you dey para for this early momo?

When the day brakes, look for a Catholic reverend father and confess your sin of anger. Thereafter, take holy communion made with Agege bread and drink better aboki tea on top.

Shalom!
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Orch1981: 5:58am
Sirchiboy:
Well I think if you are in this shoes.
I will tell you a story of a guy that blew up in just two years after getting married.
This guy had been struggling in ph.
He worked in Mr sweet as a cook.
Worked in differen places for years but nothing.
All of us used to play betting in rumuola.
But as soon as he got married this guy blew up..
Now this guy control millions.
Bought house in different places and cars.
The business he is doing is just interior decorations and furniture.
The worst part is that this guy was my guy back then but as soon as he made money.
He shun all of us.
Me next year I don go marry ooo.
I know believe that some women carry grace and anointing that really open doors for men ooo .
You are a fool
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Jerchance: 6:13am
Osanoghodua1:
Give your life to Jesus, learn a skill, learn Crypto currency, start with Airdrop and bounties, get married through the leading of the Holy Spirit, don't Marry a well endowed woman but be led by the Spirit of God, there is no much time to correct many errors.

Go deep into Crypto investment especially Airdrop and bounties, look for a community and join and be faithful. You will surely make it, see recent crypto Airdrops: Penguin (I got over 31,000 Penguin spanning over 9 wallets, I got Deepbooks worth over $5k+ at the current price for staking just about 5 SUi which was worth over $3 as at when staked. You shouldn't leave your life to chance, Jesus is waiting to help you.

Can you help me with skills and training. I would like to learn
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Ouchbabe(f): 6:16am
PlanetZero:


It is well my dear
Amen!
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by alllffy(m): 6:18am
If you want to obtain FAVOUR go marry, but a godly heritage woman. Na my Bible tell me so; I am a living testimony to the goodness of God after my marriage. No doubt about the testimony of your friend, it is real.

Don't listen to GenZ's advising preparation, just conceptualize your future and pattern your life towards it & with hard work and prayers you will realize that Nigeria πŸ‡³πŸ‡¬ is full of honey 🐝 and bread 🍞

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Pk01(m): 6:19am
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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by travelzcruix: 6:42am
This same marriage conversation. Marry wetin u can afford.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by ecomalchemistt(m): 7:05am
Find something sell…

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by skywalker240(m): 7:11am
dauntless15:
If you're forty and single and yet struggling and this didn't motivate you to make it adding someone else's daughter to your miserable life won't motivate you to make it either, this explains why you're forty and struggling because you're dumb to some extent, someone who should be at a drawing board figuring out what went wrong or how he spent his youth chasing nonsense which led him to be a fool at forty is here concocting stupid superstitious stories of suddenly becoming successful just because you got married, marry naw, you go chop sand tire a bottle will become your best friend that is if you can even afford a drink after that wife of yours who's supposed to be your lucky charm sleeps around with multiple men to make ends meet simply because you couldn't.
That op is clearly not even up to 40

He is really funny and confused
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Officialmrt: 7:12am
Iweakbro:
End it, bro. It's not worth it. You've tried. It's time to go home. Greet my grandma for me.

grin grin you no well at all
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Ynix(m): 7:14am
Sirchiboy:
Well I think if you are in this shoes.
I will tell you a story of a guy that blew up in just two years after getting married.
This guy had been struggling in ph.
He worked in Mr sweet as a cook.
Worked in differen places for years but nothing.
All of us used to play betting in rumuola.
But as soon as he got married this guy blew up..
Now this guy control millions.
Bought house in different places and cars.
The business he is doing is just interior decorations and furniture.
The worst part is that this guy was my guy back then but as soon as he made money.
He shun all of us.
Me next year I don go marry ooo.
I know believe that some women carry grace and anointing that really open doors for men ooo .

No be just marriage oh, marry a fortunate, peaceful and progressive lady

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by skywalker240(m): 7:18am
Callosobruchus:
I had this girl, the only who borrowed me money without pressure. She's cool and all of that, my family was waiting for me to confirm her as my wife; even reach sister in-laws too O!But truth be told I couldn't fall in love with her cause she was not my type in a way. I respected her though, still do.Beautiful and decent like die!But my brother,there are so many brothers out there who should've been perfect husbands to their wives but unfortunately they're nothing but cheating mvrdefuckers, not because they want to be, but because they married wrong wives out of societal pressures.Be you, just "push" until you realize yourself, your priorities; the right partner who you wouldn't cheat on would come when you get your head straight.

But you de knack the aunty shall oo

Tok Truth grin grin
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sirchiboy: 7:23am
Orch1981:

You are a fool
Thank you sir

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sk5050: 7:24am
Best advice for him
ibechris:
It is not marriage that helped ur guy.

He dated a woman who showed him way...not those urgent 2k with 2million naira phone yet not brain and no future.

Marriage can kill u before ur time...I am a married man with 9yrs experience.

Don't rush ooh...u will rush out the way Russians ran way when Putin was trying to conscript them into the army.

Marriage,hmm...if u no get money pls, don't go closer I beg u in the name of God.

Except u are lucky to marry from a well to do family.

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Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sirchiboy: 7:25am
omooba969:


Something is definitely wrong with you, you need a psychiatric evaluation ASAPU!
I am aware of my mental health issues, sir, but I lack the funds for an evaluation.
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by skywalker240(m): 7:31am
HisXLNC1:
By age 40, one should be a critical thinker. At this age, one would have had enough experiences in life that can make one wise. If you have existed for 40 years and still have not lived, and don't have a viable means of livelihood, I suggest you 'stoop'. Let go of pride. Acquire a skill (whether you are a graduate or not). Ignore what people will say (idlers will always find something to talk about). What goes on in the head of other people should not affect your resolve, your focus and determination. Soon enough, you too will become a celebrated employer.
πŸ™
Re: What Advise Do You Have For 40 Plus who Is Still Struggling In Nigeria by Sk5050: 7:31am
Be careful what you seek you better look for money first cos women aren't destiny changers however getting the right woman a supportive one is important but they're one in a million. The story of your friend could be luck or God finally answered his calls. Make money before marriage hence you will rush out, women don't stay with broke man they will abandon you when the ships are down

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