brain54:


Who go lose as how...?

if she pack out I am saying she should just observe n see who will lose between me n her

All these naija babes that can't take care of themselves let alone taking care of baby

Oya now

Factcheck0001:
if she pack out I am saying she should just observe n see who will lose between me n her

All these naija babes that can't take care of themselves let alone taking care of baby

Oya now

Apologies...

But this your reasoning sounds rather myopic.

So you as a man you stand nothing to lose right? You are happy the burden of finance would be relieved from you... But you forgot other areas of lose like raising your child as a father in a broken home. Etc.

You see leaving the responsibility and burden of taking care of the child as punishment to her.

Not all women are dependent on their man by the way.

The lose you will face is not quantifyable and just because you don’t see it doesn't mean it's not there.

Everybody loses in the end... Including the unborn child!

EmperorCaesar:


I understand where is coming from and sincerely, wheres the point of the whole union if theres not trust and confidence in your partner?

If i were a lady, I would sure leave too but as per say I be man, I dont have time for this chicken reasoning and yes, I would stand by the husband and its definitely her loss


A man's world, they say

If women can snoop around their man's phones, what is DNA if you have nothing to hide?

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

A child can only hate a lowlife of a father based on hearsay and without trying to hear from him. If the child grows up to find out that the father is a multi billionaire, a governor or an international figure, the child will hate the mother for depriving her or him of fatherly love. Bottom line is, anybody that thinks of weaponising a child based on their emotions per time should consider what's best for the child.

If I have a child as I presently am and the mother denies me access, it's her loss. Child support or payment of school fees sef I no go do

Samantha125:
I don't watch Nollywood Movies... I'm talking based on some life experiences some men have found themselves in due to the foolish decisions they made when they were younger.

And you still haven't answered my question, how is it her loss?

She'll cater for the child alone and if I paid her bride price, then, the child is mine if the DNA is positive. A man like me will get my child after six years. Except I don't want.

The gentleman didn't just went for DNA if there is no corner corner movement, so keep your movement straight

Being a billionaire wouldn't change anything because money alone won't make people love you.

The child will only hate you even more for not fighting to be in his or her life since you'd have had the money and resources to do so.

Nigerianization:


A child can only hate a lowlife of a father based on hearsay and without trying to hear from him. If the child grows up to find out that the father is a multi billionaire, a governor or an international figure, the child will hate the mother for depriving her or him of fatherly love. Bottom line is, anybody that thinks of weaponising a child based on their emotions per time should consider what's best for the child.

If I have a child as I presently am and the mother denies me access, it's her loss. Child support or payment of school fees sef I no go do

Ok, go ahead and divorce.

If you take the child after 6 years, will you look after him or her yourself? Or you'll only toss him or her amongst your family members?

Nigerianization:


She'll cater for the child alone and if I paid her bride price, then, the child is mine if the DNA is positive. A man like me will get my child after six years. Except I don't want.

Yaiba:
SHE WILL DIE AS THE ROTTEN WORTHLESS BASTARD IDIOT PIECE OF SH.IT EATING PATHETIC PUTRID FVCKING DAMNED STUPID DEMONIC BASTARD IDIOT BASTARD ANIMAL FOOL BASTARD ANIMAL SHE HAS ALWAYS BEING

FVCKING STUPID IDIOT BASTARD DEVIL FOOL

last phase of a psycho journey.

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

Lose which child

Customarily, Fathers are the real custodian of the children here in Nigeria

Can you guys look after your own children yourselves without tossing them amongst your family members?

Starz825:


Lose which child

Customarily, Fathers are the owner of the children here in Nigeria

Samantha125:
Can you guys look after your own children yourselves without tossing them amongst your family members?

That's a topic for another day

I just say make I clear you...

You see? You can't... So don't start what you can't finish, because the child will be the one to suffer in the end.

Starz825:


That's a topic for another day

I just say make I clear you...

Breadwinner don de make mouth,we know u married a simp who may tolerate and refuse to work be the head of family

Linus

For your husband to think of going for DNA test he must have been seeing some strange actions from you

Praise the Lord.

Why do they shitt inside nylon



That dirty tribe


Spit on Awolowo grave

GistMedia0:
Nigerian businesswoman Oluwatofarati has stirred up conversations online with her strong opinion on DNA tests after childbirth. In a recent statement, she made it clear that if she found out her husband had secretly conducted a DNA test on their newborn, she would not hesitate to take drastic action.

“If I find out my husband had a DNA test done after I just pushed a baby out, immediately I leave the hospital, I’m leaving with my child and serving divorce papers,” Oluwatofarati boldly stated. Her remarks highlight the deep sense of betrayal and lack of trust she would feel in such a situation.

The businesswoman's comments have sparked a heated debate online, with many supporting her view that trust should be paramount in marriage, while others question whether DNA tests are justified in today’s world.

Ah Haunty why na?

Please don’t divorce us na? Please Ma.

OK OYA NO VEX MA…

You know if you divorce us you will go away with our joysticks and we will not be able to use it again. And you know… you know… that if you go away all restaurants will close, and everything you do for us no one else or no other business service can ever do it. .

LET US COME TO A FAIR AND JUST COMPROMISE.

Please naaaa…..


Ok what of 2 weeks after you pushed out the Baby? Will you Manage that one ? ……

No? Ok…Oya just pick any date from the day the baby was born to after you leave the hospital? “Pwettyyyyyy pweaaaaase”?


Please naaaaa….don’t be angry na? Oya sorry let us do it one month after delivery and leaving the hospital. Just one month.

Oya no vex naaaa.

😀😀😀😀😀🤣😂😅😆😁😄😃


Wahala Dey o.

If you divorce me in such circumstances, I will go and ENSURE I DO PROPER THANKSGIVING IN CHURCH AND DONATE A LOT OF MONEY TO THE POOR AND NEEDY IN GRATITUDE TO GOD FOR SAVING ME FROM SUCH A NARROW MINDED DIABOLICAL WOMAN.

ONLY A VERY FOOLISH MAN WILL TRUST A WOMAN WITH CLOSING HER LEGS. When your legs are the easiest thing to open nowadays.

E be like say na DNA matter we go battle in 2025.

EmperorCaesar:


I understand where is coming from and sincerely, wheres the point of the whole union if theres not trust and confidence in your partner?

If i were a lady, I would sure leave too but as per say I be man, I dont have time for this chicken reasoning and yes, I would stand by the husband and its definitely her loss


A man's world, they say

I like ur mindset. I don't wish you a cheating spouse.. but I want to u experience it so u go comot that Cesar from ur name

Ask her what she does for a living and how she can afgord being a single mum without a job.... nde Ara!

GistMedia0:
Nigerian businesswoman Oluwatofarati has stirred up conversations online with her strong opinion on DNA tests after childbirth. In a recent statement, she made it clear that if she found out her husband had secretly conducted a DNA test on their newborn, she would not hesitate to take drastic action.

“If I find out my husband had a DNA test done after I just pushed a baby out, immediately I leave the hospital, I’m leaving with my child and serving divorce papers,” Oluwatofarati boldly stated. Her remarks highlight the deep sense of betrayal and lack of trust she would feel in such a situation.

The businesswoman's comments have sparked a heated debate online, with many supporting her view that trust should be paramount in marriage, while others question whether DNA tests are justified in today’s world.

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Hehehe! The wicked fleeth when no one pursueth

Warning: Sanctimonious Rant Ahead



I’ve been here for a minute, but I’ve already noticed how the most viral threads on Nairaland are always the dramatic ones. "Man Served Cheating Wife Divorce Papers For Christmas After DNA Test (Photos)"—6 pages "I Would Divorce My Husband If He Conducts DNA Test – Lady Rants"—5 pages. If you’ve spent any time in the "Romance" or "Family" sections, you know exactly what I mean.

And the comment sections? Absolute war zones! Such threads turn into a battleground between the Redpill Brigade and the Feminist Warriors. Although ever at each other's throats, both groups are preaching the same message: trust nobody!

I’m not saying it’s all rosy in Loveland and Marriageville, or that we’re all innocent angels with the best intentions, but when was the last time we saw a thread titled "My parents are celebrating 40 years of peaceful marriage"? On FP and it had up to 2 pages of comments? Why is there no balance in the narrative?

People are now scared of commitment before they’ve even started getting into anything serious. Someone who’s never been heartbroken already believes "all men are users" because of what she reads on FP. Meanwhile, another guy is convinced he needs to make millions first because "women only want rich men"—an idea he picked up from the comments in the "Romance" section.

It’s like selling Gala in Lagos traffic—if everyone keeps claiming Gala in traffic is poisoned, even vendors selling perfectly good ones will struggle to find buyers. Many Nairalanders are shaping their views on relationships based solely on these extreme, toxic gender battles. Secondhand trust issues everywhere.

Why don’t we see more threads celebrating positive stories? Like couples who met in the "Business" section and now run successful a company together. What about families raising decent, well-adjusted kids, no paternity fraud? Do these not exist? Must every relationship end up as a cautionary tale in the "Family" section?

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Who cares?

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

She can confidently tell anyone who the father is without the fear of being call fraud.

Samantha125:
I don't watch Nollywood Movies... I'm talking based on some life experiences some men have found themselves in due to the foolish decisions they made when they were younger.

And you still haven't answered my question, how is it her loss?

They whine urself. So na only her fit born pikin. It's her loss, if she comot he no fit born another pikin in 9 months time. Na she lose her home, maybe her husband self get money, lose dat privilege.
I go do am 200% time. She will not even know cus if it positive dere is no reason taken the paper out, destroy it and go enjoy but if negative just drop am for her bed and go home. No stress

Samantha125:
How is it her loss when you'll also be losing your child? Because chances are she'll never allow you to see that child ever again.

When the child reaches a certain age and start asking questions, she might tell him or her how you rejected him or her and went to the extent of conducting a DNA... The child will then hate you.

Sense of a little girl