A wife that can divorce you anytime whereas your mum always got your back anytime anyday


Most wives are golddiggers, when your job is no more or your business facing some obstacles that's when you know them

IgboGoat:
In reflecting on the hypothetical question of choosing between my mother and my wife, I have come to the conclusion that, in such an unlikely scenario, I would prioritize my mother. This decision stems from a few key observations:

1. Unwavering Support: Mothers consistently give to their children, regardless of their age or circumstances. For example, when I recently embarked on a challenging journey to pursue my master’s degree, my mother contributed significantly, providing financial support of approximately 2 million NGN and foodstuffs for my travel. In contrast, my wife did not contribute to this endeavor but instead focused on financial demands and obligations I needed to fulfill before leaving.


2. Differing Priorities: I have observed that my wife tends to prioritize her family of origin over our household. Her financial contributions often lean toward supporting her parents rather than addressing our shared responsibilities at home.


3. Constructive Support vs. Criticism: A mother’s nurturing nature often involves understanding her child’s weaknesses and helping them grow. Conversely, my wife has been more critical of my shortcomings and has, at times, shared these with her family members, which can feel undermining.


4. Unconditional Love: A mother’s love is deeply rooted and unconditional, while affection in marriage often seems conditional, influenced by circumstances or expectations.



These reflections highlight the enduring sacrifices and selflessness of a mother, making her irreplaceable in my life. While this is a personal perspective, it underscores the unique and invaluable bond between a mother and her child.

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This is a no-brainer...any man who doesn't choose his mother over a wife does not deserve to be born

Mother priority is of importance,even your Wife have a mother she would shower much Love and affection over the husband..
Mother's love can not be over emphasized...

Ask me such question and lose one of your teeth

kroger:
Where is A.Y and his wife today. Wife will come and go but your mum is irreplaceable.

I STRONGLY BELIEVED THAT WAS, HOW YOUR OWN MOTHER CAME AND LEFT IN YOUR PAPA HOUSE.

I guess AY's mother has completely moved in, to stay with her darling son till rest of her life.

Meanwhile, you are going to marriage, expecting wife to come and go, was that how your mother came and left? Infact, you guys needs deliverance and your way of thinking is something else.

The moment she voice that out tell her you choose your mother...

Samantha125:
Your mother is supposed to be your father's responsibility and not yours, she nurtured you because it was her duty as a mother.

Or do you now want to be her husband?

L i k e s e r i o u s l y. I p r a y y o u h a v e y o u r o w n s o n s o o n.

Y o u w o u l d u n d e r s t a n d t h e p a i n.

Samantha125:
Then get married to her.

You too go tey for una papa house 😏
With what good mothers pass through to raise kids , you should know that any lady that say such actually lack home training and seriously, she go tey for her papa house.

Samantha125:
Your mother is supposed to be your father's responsibility and not yours, she nurtured you because it was her duty as a mother.

Or do you now want to be her husband?

My mum any time any day

Let me book this space

Samantha125:
Go check the comment of the person I was responding to first.

Wotoporiously speaking

I still don't see how your questions relates with the subject matter, if you keep going it's only gonna derail the path in which the question was suppose to go, hence the answers will be confuse the question itself.

She would be lucky if a slap didn't come,.. A stern warning.Next time she tries that a 3months break to her family side To re-examine the Union if to continue or not...

Letting her know I will choose my mother before myself it's called sacrifice and its mutual a family tradition..

Draw her ear close and say marriage in my family is between families not only individuals , I don't want a stupid and indiscret wife ..
If she can't tolerate her or work with me to get lasting alternative solution , she should get her things packed and ready in one week... A separation is on with immediate effect

If a woman ever asks you this question, it means you're not doing your job well as a man and need to sit up. A woman will only ask this when she feels her position in your life is threatened.

They made their choice to become mothers and the children shouldn't be held responsible for it.

77up:
You too go tey for una papa house 😏
With what good mothers pass through to raise kids , you should know that any lady that say such actually lack home training and seriously, she go tey for her papa house.

Which pain?

NwaliE01:


L i k e s e r i o u s l y. I p r a y y o u h a v e y o u r o w n s o n s o o n.

Y o u w o u l d u n d e r s t a n d t h e p a i n.

Samantha125:
Your mother is supposed to be your father's responsibility and not yours, she nurtured you because it was her duty as a mother.

Or do you now want to be her husband?

Would this be your response if this question was directed to your own son and he asked for your input?

Any woman saying such a crab should know that Genesis is too far from Revelation.

Mother is Genesis from the beginning of Man,but wife comes as revelation.

Thanks.
Let a wife ask me to choice between her and my mother or my daughter,oti loh

For the fact that u already made up your mind to pick someone's daughter as a wife is already a risk on its own which ofcourse requires utmost priority and concern ....A family...

But again; A wise and reasonable wife shouldn't ask such a question as most men won't tolerate it....

Samantha125:
Your mother is supposed to be your father's responsibility and not yours, she nurtured you because it was her duty as a mother.

Or do you now want to be her husband?

Stupid talk.
How would you feel, if a woman tell your son same thing

As a man, I sometimes wonder why this kind of question consistently keep coming... Your mother is your father's wife. She can never take the place of your wife. Maybe, you will call your mother to take care of you when you're old

You'll live more with your wife than you'll ever stay with your mother. And the constant use of my mother supports me here and there doesn't make sense. Marriage, especially for the young is a growth process. Even your wife at a certain stage will start recognizing the duty of her immediate family and then start prioritizing her. Your mother wasn't this caring when she was newly married. She grew into the responsibility you're seeing.

How will you compare your mother to your wife when the age gap is generational?

Men should learn to accept their wives and give them opportunities to make mistakes, learn and grow. Marriage comes in stages

I frown against comparison between mother and wife, father and husband. It's a sign of weakness and ignorance

I will gladly chose my mom .....

Well, my mother has always been against the idea of mothers being entitled over their grown children and she's also advised me against it.

Nonexisting1:
Would this be your response if this question was directed to your own son and he asked for your input?

doctor306:
My wife actually comes before my mum, but for whatever reason she spills that question from her mouth she automatically relegates herself to a third priority

You don't ask such questions if you see us as one, the only reason she dares to ask such a question is if she sees you as a mumu man who needs his control botton put in Someone Else's hands

And I will give her the bold response “I choose my mum “ and on the night of same day while she is crying ill ask for a divorce

You actually think it's that easy?

Mother's love is for ever

Samantha125:
They made their choice to become mothers and the children shouldn't be held responsible for it.

Good wife will always know her boundary and never cross others by asking such stupid question of choosing from her or mum.

Only f00lish Jezebel or those mumu feminist can. I hope you are not one🤔

Bahamas95:
No woman would try that rubbish with me.

Was she there when mumsy was nurturing me?

Most of them will be claiming ownership overnight, what should be a long process

Samantha125:
Go check the comment of the person I was responding to first.

It doesn't still relate

The day any woman ask .e such question, that day she's leaving

IgboGoat:
In reflecting on the hypothetical question of choosing between my mother and my wife, I have come to the conclusion that, in such an unlikely scenario, I would prioritize my mother. This decision stems from a few key observations:

1. Unwavering Support: Mothers consistently give to their children, regardless of their age or circumstances. For example, when I recently embarked on a challenging journey to pursue my master’s degree, my mother contributed significantly, providing financial support of approximately 2 million NGN and foodstuffs for my travel. In contrast, my wife did not contribute to this endeavor but instead focused on financial demands and obligations I needed to fulfill before leaving.


2. Differing Priorities: I have observed that my wife tends to prioritize her family of origin over our household. Her financial contributions often lean toward supporting her parents rather than addressing our shared responsibilities at home.


3. Constructive Support vs. Criticism: A mother’s nurturing nature often involves understanding her child’s weaknesses and helping them grow. Conversely, my wife has been more critical of my shortcomings and has, at times, shared these with her family members, which can feel undermining.


4. Unconditional Love: A mother’s love is deeply rooted and unconditional, while affection in marriage often seems conditional, influenced by circumstances or expectations.



These reflections highlight the enduring sacrifices and selflessness of a mother, making her irreplaceable in my life. While this is a personal perspective, it underscores the unique and invaluable bond between a mother and her child.

Share your views

Please tell such woman that you will choose your mum

NewDea4:


This is a no-brainer...any man who doesn't choose his mother over a wife does not deserve to be born

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Genesis 2:24

They'll pick their mothers.

By the way, what sort of silly question is this? Why must a wife ask for someone to be chosen? They are to be loved in different ways. I would be offended if a mom asked this too.