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My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Brimstone77: 8:00pm On Jan 16
Hi guys,I have been dating this girl for about 5months now.

Two weeks ago,she travelled out of the country,2days before she travelled we had a protected sex,and that day happens to be the last day she's seeing her period, too..

Today she chatted me telling that the company she went to work for did a pregnancy test and it came out positive..

N:B she did a pregnancy test before she travelled and it came out negative..

We had sex (with condoms)on second January this year,and she travelled on 4 January this year,she said the test was done on over there on the 14th..

Right now I don't know what to do,what are the possibilities that she can get pregnant on the last day of her menstrual period and also a protected sex too..

I need your advice please!

Admins please do the needful!

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Sonnobax15(m): 8:02pm On Jan 16
lipsrsealed
Your banny went to play an away match and she conceded an own goal, claiming you are the goal scorer cheesy

Omoh,fear who no fear Nigerian bannies, whether home or away cheesy. They are all bunches of scallywags angry

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Namaster: 8:05pm On Jan 16
First of all, how far along is she?

Secondly, if she did a pregnancy test BEFORE she travelled and you've ONLY had protected sex since she did that test and your condom was NOT compromised; tell her to take the pregnancy to the REAL owner.

Finally, which country, which company and what job is involved that they MANDATED a pregnancy test administered by them?

Also whatever you do, DON'T send her money to get an abortion.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Silentgroper(m): 8:06pm On Jan 16
Tell her to go a for ultrasound scan for further confirmation bif you have doubts

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Auxtan(m): 8:07pm On Jan 16
If she had a pregnancy test before she travelled and after you guys had sex then it wasn't a well protected sex as you're making us to believe. Therefore the possibility of you being responsible for the pregnancy is showing. So man up to the task if at all you're responsible.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Bahamas95(m): 8:12pm On Jan 16
Wahala! Wahala!! Wahala!!!




Should we tell him? cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Brimstone77: 8:23pm On Jan 16
Auxtan:
If she had a pregnancy test before she travelled and after you guys had sex then it wasn't a well protected sex as you're making us to believe. Therefore the possibility of you being responsible for the pregnancy is showing. So man up to the task if at all you're responsible.
we used condom,and there was no complications during the sex about the condom.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by osazsky(m): 8:23pm On Jan 16
Do a DNA on the pregnancy to assertain if u are d father..call me for pregnancy DNA test..na eye I go take look inside

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by osazsky(m): 8:26pm On Jan 16
Brimstone77:
we used condom,and there was no complications during the sex about the condom.
then it's not yours .tell her to stop calling u

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by popo1494: 8:27pm On Jan 16
Namaster:
First of all, how far along is she?

Secondly, if she did a pregnancy test BEFORE she travelled and you've ONLY had protected sex since she did that test and your condom was NOT compromised; tell her to take the pregnancy to the REAL owner.

Finally, which country, which company and what job is involved that they MANDATED a pregnancy test administered by them?


Nowadays, most of the western world companies do run pregnancy test before hiring females and the reason is best to their knowledge.

Even if you tender your results you’ve done here to them they’ll still conduct their own genuity

Another funny phenomenon is most of them even prefer running hepatitis state test rather than hiv test ….all to their reasonings

Different countries different companies different ethics

Also whatever you do, DON'T send her money to get an abortion.
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by MondayOmoAdugbo(m): 8:33pm On Jan 16
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Your banny went to play an away match and she conceded an own goal, claiming you are the goal scorer cheesy

Omoh,fear who no fear Nigerian bannies, whether home or away cheesy. They are all bunches of scallywags angry

😂 lipsrsealed

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by youngsahito(m): 8:34pm On Jan 16
Shea u no trust your gf or wetin u want make we do for you?

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by duduade: 9:13pm On Jan 16
Why are you disturbing yourself....


Just send her a Whatsapp message that you have no problem with her keeping the pregnancy..... But she should know that once the baby is born, a DNA test will and must be be conducted... That will determine if you will be taking up the responsibilities of the baby in which you have no problem with


Then let the drama begin

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by cathodekazim: 9:20pm On Jan 16
Auxtan:
If she had a pregnancy test before she travelled and after you guys had sex then it wasn't a well protected sex as you're making us to believe. Therefore the possibility of you being responsible for the pregnancy is showing. So man up to the task if at all you're responsible.

Exactly my thought

If you'd a protected sex, the ideas of even going for a pregnancy test wouldn't even come to your mind. The implication of this is that you're aware that it was likely you spilled or cum into her. Explain what happened during the sex romp in full and detailed gist

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by cathodekazim: 9:21pm On Jan 16
duduade:
Why are you disturbing yourself....


Just send her a Whatsapp message that you have no problem with her keeping the pregnancy..... But she should know that once the baby is born, a DNA test will and must be be conducted... That will determine if you will be taking up the responsibilities of the baby in which you have no problem with



Then let the drama begin


This DNA stuff no dey fear babz again. They believe it's not that affordable and won't be easy to do

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Starz825(m): 9:26pm On Jan 16
Brimstone77:
Hi guys,I have been dating this girl for about 5months now.

Two weeks ago,she travelled out of the country,2days before she travelled we had a protected sex,and that day happens to be the last day she's seeing her period, too..

Today she chatted me telling that the company she went to work for did a pregnancy test and it came out positive..

N:B she did a pregnancy test before she travelled and it came out negative..

We had sex (with condoms)on second January this year,and she travelled on 4 January this year,she said the test was done on over there on the 14th..

Right now I don't know what to do,what are the possibilities that she can get pregnant on the last day of her menstrual period and also a protected sex too..

I need your advice please!

Admins please do the needful!


The pregnancy is not yours

Simple...

..she bleeped someone else over there...trust women at your own loss...

My reasons:

1. You made use of condom..I want to believe you used CD cos of her remnants discharge that still shows when she's rounding up her period session

2. Sex immediately after period is less likely to result in pregnancy. Let alone the last day of period

The best time to have sex without condom are 1-3 days before her period...and 1-3 days after her period but beware of ladies with 23 days cycle....they can menstruate twice in a month sef... meaning they often ovulates...

There is 23, 27, 30, 31 Day cycle ..if stressed..some can be 32 sef...this one might not even see it in a whole month sef..and then see it immediately the next month comes in on 1st...

Ovulation period counts 10-16 days to menstruation

Your wife's ovulation period will be 1st -7th of the month.....if her menstruation will come up between 11th -17th of same month


There is a lot to understand about women.... guy.... women can not do without us...tbh...

Women who you see hate men...are women who

1 have had bad experience with men
2. Who has been educated badly abt men
3. Or who's just literally confused and may be too proud to submit.


Na Men complete woMEN....if not she for be WO..... grin

Starz825:


Don't bother yourself bro


The pregnancy is not for OP...

She did a pregnancy test before her trip...

Which means 1 thing - she was never pregnant before and after their protected sex that took place on 2nd January 2025...

That pregnancy test before her trip would have revealed her status if she was pregnant for OP...

It is good she did that test before trip....if she didn't...then this your question will be valid...

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Brimstone77: 9:29pm On Jan 16
cathodekazim:


Exactly my thought

If you'd a protected sex, the ideas of even going for a pregnancy test wouldn't even come to your mind. The implication of this is that you're aware that it was likely you spilled or cum into her. Explain what happened during the sex romp in full and detailed gist
the pregnancy test was part of the requirements for her visa procession.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by duduade: 9:32pm On Jan 16
cathodekazim:



This DNA stuff no dey fear babz again. They believe it's not that affordable and won't be easy to do

Ahhh OP will say he will run it o...

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by flokii: 9:58pm On Jan 16
Maybe part of it spilled inside that you didn't notice
Baba ibeji ku orire cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by 1Sharon(f): 10:03pm On Jan 16
Some tests can give a false positive. Some pregnancy tests are more accurate than others

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by flokii: 10:05pm On Jan 16
youngsahito:
Shea u no trust your gf or wetin u want make we do for you?

I think he is just surprised that condom sex can result into pregnancy..
What if the girlfriend has other guy(s) she is sleeping with but used her own discretion to pin the belle on OP?. No VAR to consult now, serious problem.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Nicepoker(m): 10:36pm On Jan 16
Tell her you have always wanted her to become a single mother.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by meobizy(f): 11:20pm On Jan 16
You children enjoy the headaches small girls give you. I’ve noticed the pattern. Peace is not exciting.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by rickleye: 12:19am On Jan 17
Brimstone77:
Hi guys,I have been dating this girl for about 5months now.

Two weeks ago,she travelled out of the country,2days before she travelled we had a protected sex,and that day happens to be the last day she's seeing her period, too..

Today she chatted me telling that the company she went to work for did a pregnancy test and it came out positive..

N:B she did a pregnancy test before she travelled and it came out negative..

We had sex (with condoms)on second January this year,and she travelled on 4 January this year,she said the test was done on over there on the 14th..

Right now I don't know what to do,what are the possibilities that she can get pregnant on the last day of her menstrual period and also a protected sex too..

I need your advice please!

Admins please do the needful!

You need a do a DNA test period.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Rexymania(m): 2:13am On Jan 17
Scam. She will call you that she doesn't want to keep it.... She will then tell you abortion pill is 20k....na old trick na

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Delimadaddy: 4:52am On Jan 17
I thought u said she's still seeing her period when una 2 had sex and it's the last day of her period which means she can't get pregnant while seeing it .... Maybe she de whine you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by koladata(m): 5:12am On Jan 17
sometimes they use pregnancy as a way to test your loyalty. Stay positive and don’t deny responsibility, make it clear that you’re against abortion. Then watch her reaction within 2weeks, they will later admit they weren’t pregnant. (but don't let the game last for more than two weeks before you start denying it o )

In some cases, it could also be a game to get money for a fake abortion

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Brimstone77: 6:40am On Jan 17
Delimadaddy:
I thought u said she's still seeing her period when una 2 had sex and it's the last day of her period which means she can't get pregnant while seeing it .... Maybe she de whine you.
yeah it was the last day of her period, and we even used protection.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by Brimstone77: 6:40am On Jan 17
koladata:
sometimes they use pregnancy as a way to test your loyalty. Stay positive and don’t deny responsibility, make it clear that you’re against abortion. Then watch her reaction within 2weeks, they will later admit they weren’t pregnant. (but don't let the game last for more than two weeks before you start denying it o )

In some cases, it could also be a game to get money for a fake abortion
I pray it's a joke..

Infact it better be a joke.

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by koladata(m): 7:01am On Jan 17
Omo its not a joke o, its been a long time though.
Brimstone77:
I pray it's a joke..

Infact it better be a joke.
Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by floss(m): 7:16am On Jan 17
OP you’re very funny… but truth remains that you’re responsible for the pregnancy.

Normally a girl in her last phase of menstruation will likely get pregnant if her vj comes in contact with a sperm. That thing that pushed you to run pregnancy test on her before she traveled indicates that the condom got compromised and you tried to lie to yourself. But the truth will soon be out. You fvck a girl and ran a pregnancy test on her few days later or even the next day and you think it will show ?


Your girlfriend didn’t cheat on you, you’re responsible for the pregnancy… if you know as a man you’re scared of taking responsibility or at least being prepared in case pregnancy occurs stop engaging in sexx, rather go to brothels and ease yourself if you can’t practice self discipline.

Is only kids still under their parents roof ask this kind of question, if you have nothing doing as a man stay away from sexx with your girlfriend if you’re still finding your feet. This is the first red flag every lady sees in some men that makes them treat them like trash after they’ve taken care of the pregnancy.

Stop Fvcking a lady if you don’t have financial confidence for your own sanity

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Re: My Girlfriend Said She Is Pregnant. by marlow1962(m): 7:24am On Jan 17
All this kind 419 still dy In existence Op if you succumb to this cheap scam, that means you go over believe say Nicki Minaj na from Nigeria.

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