https://www.nairaland.com/8320916/why-much-hatred-single-mothers

Sequel to this thread by sappheire..


Has someone cared to ask why single mothers avoid single fathers and only go for single guys that doesn't have any kid?

Single mothers should go for their fellow single fathers and stop chasing innocent single men..

Why do men avoid single men?
It is because;
Once debe is always debe...

Once a member is always a member.

Okafor's Law

Everyone is looking for where to butter their bread.

Because single men are dumbbb and inexperienced.. Woman go show you pepper

Women love to aim higher. They don't like settling for less, unlike men who might see a less privileged woman as a project to build up.

It is ingrained in their DNA, from the days of Eve, when she saw a fruit that would make her wise and be like God.

Because they know that that most single men’s eyes have not yet opened.

I realize more than 60 percent of ladies get pregnant out of wedlock.
What distinguishes them from baby mamas, single mothers and married women is based solely on the decision of the men that impregnate them. Implying that you become a single mother when the man that impregnate you either refuse to accept responsibility or accepted responsibility but refused to marry you.

They didn't date u, they didn't fvck ur father, allow them to date whoever they want

Good question. Let me answer it.

It's because women see relationships and marriages as transactional or business. They are always calculating what they are gaining in every relationship and marriage to be in it.

They don't want to lose in the business for no reason, even when they are one with bigger liabilities in the business.

It same reason a broke woman will reject a broke man, a short woman will reject a short man, an ugly woman will reject an ugly man, a married woman whose husband pays her bills for years will leave or disrespect/ dislike her husband if he has financial struggles etc.

Because women date up! Women have abundant mindset. This is exactly why you'll see a broke girl broke shaming a guy while dreaming that she'll date and end up with a rich man even when she herself is swimming in brokenness and poverty. They believed they can get any man they want and so is single mother.

A sensible man must avoid single mothers like plague. She wouldn't date you if she was still at her prime and probably still single. She suddenly remembered you now she's a single mother. Avoid her like plague and discard her like tissue

Another day ,another misogynistic post.

This is what passes for content on Nairaland

Most single women are damaged goods and it's very easy to know them, when u see a single woman refusing the father or relations of the father to have access to a child or children maybe because of divorce especially and other factors then be rest assured that woman (most of them single mothers) is a damaged goods.
Mentally,physically and spiritually such single women have a mind set of dealing with the next husband.
Be warned and have peace as the red flag is always there

How many single mothers have you interviewed to come to this conclusion?

Hahahahahahahaha.

the type of answers bursting out from this your question 😂

Single mothers often face challenges when it comes to forming relationships with single fathers. Here are a few reasons why:

1. **Influence and Control**: Some single mothers may seek partners they can influence or manipulate emotionally. They might use tears or emotional appeals to navigate conflicts or to get their needs met.

2. **Disciplinary Differences**: Many single mothers prefer partners who are more lenient when it comes to discipline. They may prioritize a nurturing approach, believing in correcting behavior with love, rather than traditional discipline techniques. This can create tension if a father figures wants to enforce stricter boundaries.

3. **Maternal Priorities**: Single mothers often want their children to be prioritized within the family structure. They may be apprehensive about sharing that attention or resources with a partner’s children, as they aim to ensure that their own child has a secure and prominent position in the family dynamic.

DenreleDave:
https://www.nairaland.com/8320916/why-much-hatred-single-mothers

Sequel to this thread by sappheire..


Has someone cared to ask why single mothers avoid single fathers and only go for single guys that doesn't have any kid?

Single mothers should go for their fellow single fathers and stop chasing innocent single men..

Why do men avoid single men?
It is because;
Once debe is always debe...

Once a member is always a member.

Okafor's Law

The Same Reason Men Will prefer a Virgin over non Virgin

I love reading comments

Hmmmmm

The simple answer is that single fathers are no simps. Their simping phase passed immediately they became single fathers. To be a single father, not widower, the man must have seen shege in the hands of the gender that betrayed the oldest man, Adam and the strongest man, Samson and any man that survives their betrayal hardly remains a simp. Most single fathers are now what you can describe as heartless men. They no dey send again and women are smart to know they can't manipulate them anymore so they will rather keep off and look for fresher victims.