Interesting.

Oh 😳 I can remember well I was just about 5, I watched her die, and I wasn't smiling afterwards,... My moms family still tell me till today, that I was hard to console, for days , i be egbere , bush baby,😞😭💔

I couldn't stop crying, nobody could stop my crying


She's all I got fr God's sake,.. I was born and she left me down here just like that...💔


That night was my first memory really, I carry it everywhere I go, .. I can still remember every action, every words,.. last words... Jesus!💔

Kids have nothing to worry about until when they become adult

guobe:
Kids are really differently built humans by God.
They just lost a parent and they are still smiling,laughing and playing computer games on phone.
While the adults are wailing and rolling on the floor,you see the kids keeping their self busy by playing.
It's a different world most kids live in.

By evening they will Start asking about their parents

Ramski:
Kids have nothing to worry about until when they become adult

Lol really!? Not me...

Nairaland; anything makes front page.

guobe:

That means they are built differently from adults

It is not in the build but in the experience.

They don't really know the reality and how profound what is happening.

EmperorCaesar:

Relatable!


They really dont understand the concept of death yet and do not really see the reason to be moody because a parent is no more

Depending on the age, if they are below 5, they wont really miss the parent as they'd never really remember having them around in the first place, but if na 8yo and above, dem go cry enter their 20s hoping for a miracle


Sha, live will take care of them and they will be alright

so if I died today my 2years old son will forget me in a week or two.

Kokaine:


By evening they will Start asking about their parents

When you watched your own mum die at 5yrs old? It's different...


Trauma is a lower word I swear 😔

Kokaine:
so if I died today my 2years old son will forget me in a week or two.

NO. Please don't die.

TheOldGods:
Oga kids are born by humans not created out of thing air. And there is no god anywhere.

The people who make the things you use and you regard them very highly and specially as scientists, have started turning to God, while you a villager who couldn't even pass integrated science in just talkless of chemistry and biology, you're telling us about something that's greater than science. Hmmm....

guobe:
Kids are really differently built humans by God.
They just lost a parent and they are still smiling,laughing and playing computer games on phone.
While the adults are wailing and rolling on the floor,you see the kids keeping their self busy by playing.
It's a different world most kids live in.

If the mother is alive and is the one mourning and crying, the kids would become emotional too and most likely start crying at a point.
But if it is the father mourning, most men don't cry openly, hence the kids may not feel or understand the emotional loss and may not cry.

Reason you should know that your own don baje, if someone tells you that you behave like kid

guobe:
Kids are really differently built humans by God.
They just lost a parent and they are still smiling,laughing and playing computer games on phone.
While the adults are wailing and rolling on the floor,you see the kids keeping their self busy by playing.
It's a different world most kids live in.

This is why Jesus Christ advised everyone that wants to enter the kingdom of God to be like kids.

Thugnificent:
That's because they are still kids and reality hasn't hit them yet. But with time, it will.

It's that simple

This is exactly the way God wants us to be

Worry less abt life in general and keep believing

Adulthood na the foundation of life issues

Sadly, We can't avoid it...

guobe:
Kids are really differently built humans by God.
They just lost a parent and they are still smiling,laughing and playing computer games on phone.
While the adults are wailing and rolling on the floor,you see the kids keeping their self busy by playing.
It's a different world most kids live in.

at a point they will still wonder where their mother is and they will miss her..
na papa Dem no send
we men dey suffer oooo
and na we dey hustle for ther school fees, feeding and every...

cyrusmillz:
This made me remember early last year , the news broke that we'd lost a church member and we were all tearing up. This man was a very active , gentle and loving father to his kids and always spoke highly of his wife anytime he's giving a testimony.
We got to their home and met the two youngest kids eating and smiling 😃. when the other members of the family wanted to see us off after the visit, to shut the gate, the last born followed him and told us not to worry that his daddy had gone to heaven.

😂

guobe:

That means they are built differently from adults

Nope , it means they aren't fully aware of everything around them , in years to come they will become aware

TheOldGods:
Oga kids are born by humans not created out of thing air. And there is no god anywhere.

Hell is real. Start going close to nakked fire in readiness for it.

They are just being kids. Wait till they are done with these things and starts asking after the said parent.

It's obvious cuz they are kids and their brain isn't fully mature to understand what's going on around them

They don't have that sense yet.

guobe:

That means they are built differently from adults

how are they built differently from adults?

guobe:
Kids are really differently built humans by God.
They just lost a parent and they are still smiling,laughing and playing computer games on phone.
While the adults are wailing and rolling on the floor,you see the kids keeping their self busy by playing.
It's a different world most kids live in.

zna when them don grow into adults e go dawn on them, lol

guobe:
Kids are really differently built humans by God.
They just lost a parent and they are still smiling,laughing and playing computer games on phone.
While the adults are wailing and rolling on the floor,you see the kids keeping their self busy by playing.
It's a different world most kids live in.

They would soon ask for their Parents and would keep asking.
Most of them still feel their presence.

My younger sister lost her husband few days ago but her little Boy of A year and 6months showed some signs two days before the dad died cos I was the one with him all through... He will be sleeping at night and shiver as if he's scared of something and start crying... He also did something that surprised me too, the position his father always lay at the sitting room, one of my cosusin who came visiting occupied same position while sleeping, this little Boy went straight there, climbed the soafer and was staring at my cousin to check if the person there was his Dad but after some minutes he discovered that wasn't his Dad... He left... I know his feeling it but can't express it as a child

guobe:

That means they are built differently from adults

No, they’re kids that the part you’re missing

chypotenti:
My younger sister lost her husband few days ago but her little Boy of A year and 6months showed some signs two days before the dad died cos I was the one with him all through... He will be sleeping at night and shiver as if he's scared of something and start crying... He also did something that surprised me too, the position his father always lay at the sitting room, one of my cosusin who came visiting occupied same position while sleeping, this little Boy went straight there, climbed the soafer and was staring at my cousin to check if the person there was his Dad but after some minutes he discovered that wasn't his Dad... He left... I know his feeling it but can't express it as a child

So sorry for your loss.
Quite a sad situation.

Unclebayo:
E go soon clear

Nothing will be clear. They may not even remember their parents after a year, although that depends on their ages and how much time spent with the lost parent. Some parents die before making an impression on their kids.

guobe:
Kids are really differently built humans by God.
They just lost a parent and they are still smiling,laughing and playing computer games on phone.
While the adults are wailing and rolling on the floor,you see the kids keeping their self busy by playing.
It's a different world most kids live in.

Don't worry
They will cry later

guobe:

So sorry for your loss.
Quite a sad situation.

Thanks bro