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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by hopexter(m): 11:38am On Feb 21
Nehyooh:
Baba, forgive her but never have anything to do with her again.

Exactly my thought but before then, she’ll send me back my money then I’ll block her.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by chidiokay: 11:44am On Feb 21
dauntless15:
Right, what does revenge mean in your dictionary? And did you read what he wrote upside down that you didn't get any clue of him trying to get even for some imagined slight, for one he used another unknown number to chat her up pretending he's the company offering her a job which is one proof of criminal intent, he also gave her a non existent address where he'll ambush her when she shows up which is dangerously close to conniving and potential kidnapping, third, you sent money you can afford to loose to some girl for tfare and she decides she doesn't want to travel anymore you're coming online to wail, did she force you to send the money at gunpoint, go school you no gree, see now, your illiteracy is riveting.


To me Revenge means balance, tryna balance an account cheesy as long as its not life threatening

Bro you are thinking to far, lets even assume he made up a company address other than to get her attention, his "intent" does not bear an attempt to defraud or harm the lady @least according to what he wrote cheesy

using alternate number to get someone attention can not be termed "criminal intent" ... "demand" is what validate criminal intent

Op just wana get the gurl to waste time n money, so that she can learn some lessons, that might even change her
i support Op cos these means exercise for the gurl, naija gurlz dont exercise enough cheesy
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i go just ignore the kidnapping ... tew much facebook news dey worry you 🤣🤣

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by BABANGBALI: 11:44am On Feb 21
Hit her back heavily
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Zionmdde: 11:46am On Feb 21
dauntless15:
Very petty, assuming she shows up at whatever address you gave her are you going to lash her in the streets, and what if something happens to her during the course of this silly game you're playing untop small tfare hope you have the balls to shoulder responsibilities cuz this Nigeria is not safe, if anything happens to her there's a lot of evidence to implicate you and all the other devils up there encouraging you to deal with her won't follow you to kirikiri to chop watery beans, be wise and flee from problem, small mistake fit cost you your freedom, if you like no hear, untop tfare wey no reach 20k sef, just lock up and don't even reply her chats, watch giult eat her up, that's what I'd do, petty children everywhere.
You took these words right from my mouth

Some people don't know how easy it is to loose freedom
Sometimes foolishness and letting go are prices to pay to ensure ur freedom is intact
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by dauntless15(m): 11:50am On Feb 21
Zionmdde:

You took these words right from my mouth

Some people don't know how easy it is to loose freedom
Sometimes foolishness and letting go are prices to pay to ensure ur freedom is intact
When pussy is all they think about other senses just stop functioning.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by dauntless15(m): 11:50am On Feb 21
chidiokay:



To me Revenge means balance, tryna balance an account cheesy as long as its not life threatening

Bro you are thinking to far, lets even assume he made up a company address other than to get her attention, his "intent" does not bear an attempt to defraud or harm the lady @least according to what he wrote cheesy

using alternate number to get someone attention can not be termed "criminal intent" ... "demand" is what validate criminal intent

Op just wana get the gurl to waste time n money, so that she can learn some lessons, that might even change her
i support Op cos these means exercise for the gurl, naija gurlz dont exercise enough cheesy
.
i go just ignore the kidnapping ... tew much facebook news dey worry you 🤣🤣
Cool.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Johnsown1(m): 12:02pm On Feb 21
Forgive her but don't send transportation for her next. Tell her to borrow from a friend with the hope of paying her back.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Bouncing2(m): 12:05pm On Feb 21
Ejeh lash all her holes…she’s fcking mad
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Fiscus105(m): 12:11pm On Feb 21
wayray:
I met a girl during a short visit to Ibadan at my uncle's place. We exchanged numbers and we got talking online. She happens to be a fresh graduate serving.

During one of our usual gist, she said since I'm based in Lagos, I should assist her to look for job by sharing her cv which I obliged. We fixed a date to lash ourselves as Omo ogbon that I am. But my stay got cut short due to urgent stuff at my workplace. ( I forgot to add that I was on leave during this visit) So I left but we still continued gisting and had the date rescheduled for Lagos at my place. When the date for the meeting came, this babe demanded for transport fare which I gave without thinking twice. But surprisingly this babe blocked me immediately after receiving the fund. As a sharp guy, I switched to plan B after waiting for a week without success. I used my other line WhatsApp to chat her and claimed to be chatting her from the company from which I dropped her cv. My people immediately, this babe unblocked me and started apologizing. I said no whala, I pretended to follow up with the company so that they can pick her.

Now I have dropped a particular address not too far from my home for her in Lagos as the location of the company? SHOULD I ALLOW HER TO EMBARK ON THE JOURNEY OR I SHOULD FORGIVE HER?

Pls. I need your advice before Monday. I apologize about the long write up typo.



Collect your money back from her, if possible in double fold, but don't let her embark on her journey, God forbid if anything happens to her, ur conscience will be guilty till rest of ur life.


NB. Women are like that, the best thing is to acknowledge their weak/wicked behaviour and keep them at distance.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by bigl: 12:17pm On Feb 21
grin grin grin grin una no kee person with laughter oo!!

Ki11YurSev:
Lol.. FORGIVENESS na LIE.

Finish the mission my G!


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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Ganbite: 12:18pm On Feb 21
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wayray:
I met a girl during a short visit to Ibadan at my uncle's place. We exchanged numbers and we got talking online. She happens to be a fresh graduate serving.

During one of our usual gist, she said since I'm based in Lagos, I should assist her to look for job by sharing her cv which I obliged. We fixed a date to lash ourselves as Omo ogbon that I am. But my stay got cut short due to urgent stuff at my workplace. ( I forgot to add that I was on leave during this visit) So I left but we still continued gisting and had the date rescheduled for Lagos at my place. When the date for the meeting came, this babe demanded for transport fare which I gave without thinking twice. But surprisingly this babe blocked me immediately after receiving the fund. As a sharp guy, I switched to plan B after waiting for a week without success. I used my other line WhatsApp to chat her and claimed to be chatting her from the company from which I dropped her cv. My people immediately, this babe unblocked me and started apologizing. I said no whala, I pretended to follow up with the company so that they can pick her.

Now I have dropped a particular address not too far from my home for her in Lagos as the location of the company? SHOULD I ALLOW HER TO EMBARK ON THE JOURNEY OR I SHOULD FORGIVE HER?

Pls. I need your advice before Monday. I apologize about the long write up typo.
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as she don claim over wise now you have started the sharp shoot already so finish the mission and give her a complicated address make she first embark on and I'm sure she will want to leave Ibadan a day before the interview so as to avoid lateness, which she will want to stay with u or an Hotel before that day.. so no need after knacking compose another message before her arrival once knacked send her message that her interview has been postponed due to some urgent visit of the CEO .. that her interview has been re-scheduled to hold in the next 5days .. keep knacking till she know she played with the wrong guy intelligent

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by okine4real: 12:22pm On Feb 21
OP IF YOU KNOW CHOP THAT GIRL LIKE 5 TIMES, MAKE MOTTO JAM YOU.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Afolue(m): 12:48pm On Feb 21
wayray:
I met a girl during a short visit to Ibadan at my uncle's place. We exchanged numbers and we got talking online. She happens to be a fresh graduate serving.

During one of our usual gist, she said since I'm based in Lagos, I should assist her to look for job by sharing her cv which I obliged. We fixed a date to lash ourselves as Omo ogbon that I am. But my stay got cut short due to urgent stuff at my workplace. ( I forgot to add that I was on leave during this visit) So I left but we still continued gisting and had the date rescheduled for Lagos at my place. When the date for the meeting came, this babe demanded for transport fare which I gave without thinking twice. But surprisingly this babe blocked me immediately after receiving the fund. As a sharp guy, I switched to plan B after waiting for a week without success. I used my other line WhatsApp to chat her and claimed to be chatting her from the company from which I dropped her cv. My people immediately, this babe unblocked me and started apologizing. I said no whala, I pretended to follow up with the company so that they can pick her.

Now I have dropped a particular address not too far from my home for her in Lagos as the location of the company? SHOULD I ALLOW HER TO EMBARK ON THE JOURNEY OR I SHOULD FORGIVE HER?

Pls. I need your advice before Monday. I apologize about the long write up typo.
show her you wayray jor!

The agreement is that she comes, but instead broke her part of the plans as agreed. She has to come. Let her even get stranded if possible. After which na your place you end her up into. If not for fear of stds’ na to give her belle sef

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Lanmonfishery(m): 12:49pm On Feb 21
My brother change that motive, u have two things to gain
Let her come to lag, reach ur place and bleep the living hell out of that punna for a week long
Or as she Dey land carry her go police station and report her make u cash out
Ur choice
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Ijaya123: 12:56pm On Feb 21
The brotherhood is solidly behind you.

Please proceed with your mission. I repeat, proceed with your mission. Out.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by biggz82: 1:12pm On Feb 21
Find out the position of the law concerning this whole game of fake HR and fake address trick after that you will know the right thing to do.


Use your head

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Inteligentcv: 1:18pm On Feb 21
Ijaya123:


Call this woman 09130249809. She will fix you up with a job.
Better still if you’re in the mainland
Not in mainland sir, I'm living in ibadan
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by donbenie(m): 1:28pm On Feb 21
Smilleydr:
Forgive her my brother, she no what am and what s the probability that you will knack her even if she come your side, better let her go.
She should be let go, because she's a woman?
If na man would you have asked for him to be forgiven?
This mentality is why many women have entitlement mentality..
She's a woman and all she had to do is she'd a few tears and the Pity Party Crew would be on overdrive..

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by princeSammyz: 1:28pm On Feb 21
wayray:

Now I have dropped a particular address not too far from my home for her in Lagos as the location of the company? SHOULD I ALLOW HER TO EMBARK ON THE JOURNEY OR I SHOULD FORGIVE HER?

Pls. I need your advice before Monday. I apologize about the long write up typo.
Whatever you do eventually, make sure to update this thread. Lol
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by kushme: 1:33pm On Feb 21
Like someone said, if we let evil slide, then evil will continue to prevail. Even the old testament said an eye for an eye, even our laws have punishments for our actions.

We may like to say Jesus christ also said forgive your enemy and do good to those who wronged you, not forgetting that there is still punishment for them if they don't change their ways.
Now to your matter: Don't plot to have sex with that girl again oh, things might go wrong and you get into trouble, and if in your heart you really want to teach her a lesson, then I suggest you make her spend that same money on transport to Lagos but don't meet with her at all.

After her arrival, when she calls you, you can tell her to go back if you choose to boldly tell her it's a pay back.
Now, she's going to spend double on transport coming and going. So, na you win. wink
Be guided Comrade.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by penultimatee(m): 1:34pm On Feb 21
Just leave her.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by tunize(m): 1:36pm On Feb 21
Forgive her
Any girl when nor fit pay her tp come see you una nor suppose get business now.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Truvelisback(m): 1:57pm On Feb 21
wayray:
I met a girl during a short visit to Ibadan at my uncle's place. We exchanged numbers and we got talking online. She happens to be a fresh graduate serving.

During one of our usual gist, she said since I'm based in Lagos, I should assist her to look for job by sharing her cv which I obliged. We fixed a date to lash ourselves as Omo ogbon that I am. But my stay got cut short due to urgent stuff at my workplace. ( I forgot to add that I was on leave during this visit) So I left but we still continued gisting and had the date rescheduled for Lagos at my place. When the date for the meeting came, this babe demanded for transport fare which I gave without thinking twice. But surprisingly this babe blocked me immediately after receiving the fund. As a sharp guy, I switched to plan B after waiting for a week without success. I used my other line WhatsApp to chat her and claimed to be chatting her from the company from which I dropped her cv. My people immediately, this babe unblocked me and started apologizing. I said no whala, I pretended to follow up with the company so that they can pick her.

Now I have dropped a particular address not too far from my home for her in Lagos as the location of the company? SHOULD I ALLOW HER TO EMBARK ON THE JOURNEY OR I SHOULD FORGIVE HER?

Pls. I need your advice before Monday. I apologize about the long write up typo.
You have just met a yahoo girl. Do the same to her. If you can trick her to get back your money, do it.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by tabithaola(f): 2:11pm On Feb 21
Avoid trouble, it doesn't worth it. Bear in mind that if anything happens to her, you'll be traced and your uncle will be so ashamed of you and that kobo you want back. Let her go and face your future.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by ROK123(f): 2:16pm On Feb 21
Forgive her and move on, deep down you don't want to revenge, if not, you won't bring the matter here, so pls follow your heart!!. Live a good life, everytime no be sex sex, try and do without seeing women as object of sex, no dey follow multitude to commit sin, you are different, embrace God and follow His commandments.

Its like you never meet some possessed girls that will damage your destiny ni Sha you no go even know..nah village people una go still mention..
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Jefferyhi86(m): 2:21pm On Feb 21
Fuckkkk up no de expire
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Nehyooh(m): 2:27pm On Feb 21
hopexter:


Exactly my thought but before then, she’ll send me back my money then I’ll block her.
grin

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Hullcity: 2:27pm On Feb 21
Omo find way bleep her well well then dump and block her yourself. She has already shown her intention towards your is not good so be wise
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Nehyooh(m): 2:29pm On Feb 21
idahme:



If them forgive all thieves and scammers our society will be worse. You are saying yahoo boys should be forgiven since a yahoo girl is forgiven by you.
Baba, I never for once support yahoo boys o grin
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or I Should Pay Her Back In Her Own Coin by Taiwo20(m): 2:33pm On Feb 21
fORGIVENESS NA SIN

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