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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by kaykith05(m): 2:05pm On Feb 21
The best way to get over something is to replace it with something different. Determine what you want in a lady and get yourself a new woman.

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by ROK123(f): 2:05pm On Feb 21
Heal for the fact that you both aren't supposed to be together in the first place, like i mean, she's not your wife and you fornicate with her aren't you? Bros its a sin in God's sight, embrace your new life, go back to Jesus and see how you will shine!

Gods love is the best love!

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Chickensoup: 2:06pm On Feb 21
With time. Everything works with time. Just keep living your life. You lived your life before meeting that person that means you can leave your life after leaving that person.
Don't make the mistake of jumping into another relationship just to forget your ex. That will be wicked to the other person and to yourself. Stay strong.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Chinny024(f): 2:14pm On Feb 21
Try another relationship...It will help you to heal...

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by viodemus: 2:15pm On Feb 21
while you are thinking, another guy man dey plaster am correctly. She dun forget you for now, she got some new person to adjust to - in personality and in the oza room.



Learn from what went wrong, take care of yourself, and with time, you will heal.

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Bahamas95(m): 2:19pm On Feb 21
I wonder why some idiòts find it difficult to move on after a break up, oga don't be a fool. Move on with your life, it's not rocket science.








Annahh:
Get a job, preferably a banking job that is very demanding, I promise you, by the time bank stress hit you, you won't even remember her.
Shey na your papa get the bank ni?


Some of you just comment anyhow after drinking ogogoro. grin

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Adasun(m): 2:35pm On Feb 21
elmagnifico411:
pluck like 10 beater leaves, put them in a blender and add some water. Blend a little and sieve using a thistle funnel.. after every, drink the water. The bitterness in bitter leave has an after sweet taste. U know this saying in Yoruba, “adun lo Kehinde ewuro”? After the bitterness of loosing your ex and u drinking the bitter leave water, the sweet after taste will later knock off the the bitterness making you happy in your heart, and you’d get your life back and move on like u never dated her… it works like magic!
seriously grin grin grin

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by VeryBoi(m): 2:44pm On Feb 21
BABANGBALI:
I sell rat poison and it's very ship
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by ValarDoharis: 2:49pm On Feb 21
Why did you guys breakup? If its your fault, its the reason you're feeling this way
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Mercylike: 2:52pm On Feb 21
Annahh:
Get a job, preferably a banking job that is very demanding, I promise you, by the time bank stress hit you, you won't even remember her.

So he shud quit his current job and get a bank job.

He shud just enter bank and start working b4 he is heartbroken?

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Mercylike: 2:53pm On Feb 21
BABANGBALI:
I sell rat poison and it's very ship

Give ur father and mother first

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by MightySparrow: 2:53pm On Feb 21
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.

Go and beg her, convince her. Atimes quarrels are beautiful parts of relationships. You know that kind of quarrel that brings sweet jealousy. The other sees you as his/her own.

I tell you, you may not find the feelings you people had together again. If her new guy is enjoying what you are missing, please leave them alone. Find another fish. There are still many girls out there. Pray you get a better one.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Mercylike: 2:56pm On Feb 21
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.

In a month, she gat another person

Trust me, she wasn't dating only you..... She was fcvking others while fvcking u

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Mariangeles(f): 3:08pm On Feb 21
ForexPay:
The bible says "men,love your wife; women, honour your husband". This saying tells me that woman don't have the capacity to love but to respect a man.

There's love in honour.
You cannot honour what you don't love.

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Nofcks2give: 3:09pm On Feb 21
She was already dating that "someone else" you think she just started dating before you guys broke up. You have to set your goals and try to focus on only smashing those goals, other women, vices etc won't help you as those will fuel negativity. Also, this is the golden rule, never beg or ask her to come back make her understand how much you're enjoying yourself without her by peppering her with your progress from my earlier advice. Trust me she'll want you back when she sees how much you don't need her to be happy. When she does, don't take her back, because it'll still end up failing even worse than now. Women want to feel needed and when you cheat them of this feeling their brains cannot comprehend and they try every means to know why they're not good enough to be wanted especially when you've wanted them before.
Last but not least, always leave room for Okafor's law. Don't fight her for leaving you, do the above and you'll be about to activate Okafor's law whenever you feel like it, although you have to find a balance when using Okafor's law because using it too much will end up making her feel important once again and the see finish stage will replay again. Plenty fishes in the sea, she has a depreciating life span as a woman so it's natural for her to feel on top of the world in her prime hence the reason why she doesn't give a shit if you truly love her or not. As men our prime last longer and trust me, when you hit yours, you won't even need to love them for them to love you so cheer up and work towards hitting your prime on time by doing the things I mentioned earlier.
Cheers mate

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by femi4: 3:19pm On Feb 21
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.
Replace her with another, Develop interest in other girls and gradually you ll start forgetting about your ex

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by BABANGBALI: 3:51pm On Feb 21
Mercylike:


Give ur father and mother first
I sell rat poison and it's very ship
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by BABANGBALI: 3:52pm On Feb 21
EmmyOD:

Getaway u !
I sell rat poison and it's very ship
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by BABANGBALI: 3:52pm On Feb 21
EmmyMaestro:


Test it on your self first so that we will know if it is genuine

cool
I sell rat poison and it's very ship
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Mercylike: 3:57pm On Feb 21
BABANGBALI:
I sell rat poison and it's very ship

Send ur acct no.. I need for ur dad and mum

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by BABANGBALI: 3:58pm On Feb 21
Mercylike:


Send ur acct no.. I need for ur dad and mum
I sell rat poison and it's very ship
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Ki11YurSev: 4:12pm On Feb 21
Wizzy13:
We broke up after having multiple quarrels.
We have dated for 3years and she became a part of me. We went our separate ways for close to a month now.
I started healing but these says she has been appearing to Me like every day and it hurts when ever i set my eyes on her.
She has moved on so quickly and she's dating now.
This is really hurting.
Now wishing i neva knew her
pls don't Say am simping its only who had loved for that long will understand.

Oniranu. Go EXPRESS nah

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by idahme(m): 4:28pm On Feb 21
Carndidlaydid:
She moved on... You too try to move on


Men are obsessed beings


There is a reason i do spend for me i spend for you, i can never gove a woman what she can never give to me this is because the one who sacrifices in w relationship hardly move on. Why won't you move when after four years of relationships your only sacrifice is one boxer and one singlet.

Men need to learn, don't spend your money on women so that if they leave you can also leave too.

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by idahme(m): 4:31pm On Feb 21
Kingpele:
That why pre marital sex is bad....this kind of feeling should be for married people getting divorce and not for random Adults indulging in immorality thinking they're in love and in a relationship....if the friendship was without sex ,u won't feel so lost ..but you are now jealous that another guy is doing the same things you did with her....this truth might be bitter but it will help you see the need to move on and get busy to improve yourself


Without sex and money


Na mumu dey remove sex without removing money, its even worse if its only money.

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by FirmTR(m): 4:40pm On Feb 21
Fiscus105:
By constant remembering urself that, ONLY YOU CAME TO THIS WORLD AND ONLY YOU WILL LEAVE WHEN THE TIMES COMES.

I won't surprise if any or the two factors I want to list below affecting you.

You are a type of guy struggling to toast and stay with a lady.


You are parasite in the relationship.

Your first line gave me so much relief..
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Mariangeles(f): 4:44pm On Feb 21
obinna58:

It’s natural thing in men that they feel this way, once I felt this way but I had to ask my shameless self why I had to get depressed for someone who never gave a fvk about you, someone willing to move on without thinking twice then you realize it’s the nature of women to punish weakness in men
Counter your weak mind turning you into weak stupid simp and start chasing success instead of women
I feel no atom of pity for women cos they are simply the cause of their woes
Once she finds out your honest likeness for her then you’re doomed


Fvckin stop thinking about women it’s totally stupid and reeks high level of irresponsibility/weakness

Remember it’s men who marries 7beatiful ladies and these women shower him with respect and praises always, so ask yourself why would you be stuck on the level you are


Women are mere toys to play with even though the society lies about it

Men like you can NEVER get the blessings that come with having a woman.
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Umadam: 4:53pm On Feb 21
Get a replacement..
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Charliej: 5:24pm On Feb 21
lol it’s good for every man to get heartbroken once in a while in life especially at a young age
I mean I wouldn’t be were I am now if I was still simping over daughter of eve
So the emotions will come let it
Time will be your ally but then again accept the truth it’s over keep telling yourself that until you believe it
And the best of this outcome should be finding yourself learn new things,meet new people maybe explore a bit but no feelings attached
Your focus now shud be in securing the big bag
Well I got heartbroken and bagged a remote job a year later (paid every 2weeks)so whenever i feel sad I go get myself a new gift or eat something nice
The feeling you have now is more or less like feeling rejected but it’s okay for a man to be rejected if he ain’t acting like a man
So man up
Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Honestey: 6:04pm On Feb 21
Be a man, move on and start thinking about the next soon to become another ex of yours.

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by OdefaGirl(f): 6:34pm On Feb 21
bigpicture001:


Women move on easily cuz they really never loved any man... Only men do love women... Women are in it for benefits

When a woman loves you and there's a separation, she tries to be strong but in the real sense, she hasn't moved on.

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Dammy774(f): 6:45pm On Feb 21
Danyel1z:
Bro, try fucking like going to motel or olosho house. Asin find ashawo house dey go, take a bottle, Bleep and go... At least twice a day or anytime e be like you're bored or thinking wants to come. It might help you refo us on yourself

Please don’t follow this advice. It would make you feel worse about yourself.
Healing takes time. Give yourself time. Get busy. Hang out with friends. Grieve the relationship and give yourself time.
If you are a Christian, this is the time to pray more and get closer to God.

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Re: How Can I Stop Thinking About My Ex by Kamalex2: 7:18pm On Feb 21
My brother i beg leave her alone and continue your life cheesy cheesy

If it's her yansh you like
My brother you will Bleep her any time you want but you just need to spend money



To me woman is very cheap grin grin grin ;how would i toast a 6 girl in a week and all of them answer me yes undecided
Don't you see they're all the same grin
I bleep 3 out of them just because i leave osogbo going to Idanre for work grin
When i return nko grin i laugh in Jamaica voice kekekekekke grin grin grin

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