Acidosis:
The idea that his father might deserve whatever treatment he’s receiving today especially if he was an absent father doesn’t make sense. The majority of the people benefiting from Asake’s wealth today didn’t contribute to his success either.

The people who contributed to his success are his fans, who go all out to stream his songs and attend his shows. I’m not sure he’s helped any of these people either; instead, celebrities are often known for spending lavishly on the Sophia Lambos of this world.

Sometimes, you have to look beyond people’s failures and weaknesses. Sometimes, you repay the wickedness of the wicked with good deeds in the hope that they might repent.

If we all decide to help only those who contributed to our success, then even Asake might not be where he is to today.

This is a thoughtful comment

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Me sef I weak. With all that money you no fit help your papa ?

Dont jump to conclusion....him fit no be him father

Na wetin make Mohbad papa dey kpai some pikin be this o...no matter what never neglect your father

luminouz:

But his mumu girlfriend that only came when he had money must be given princess treatment?

You are mãd

KNDF

NA THEIR MOTHERS DEY BENEFIT FROM ALL THE CHILDREN.

MARRIAGE AND CHILD UPBRING IS JUST A USELESS WASTE OF TIME AND RESOURCES.

MAKE PERSON JUST MAKE HIN MONEY, ENJOY AM, GROW OLD, DIE AND GO.

PARENTS THAT BRING CHILDREN TO THIS WORLD NO TRY AT ALL.

Reading through the comments of feminist and you can tell these creatures are evil.

The same people who said Mohbads father does not have a right to his sons wins after struggling to get the boy to that height.

Now they blaming Asake’s dad for not being in his life and deserves every bit of the neglecting.

Dear men, don’t force anything because of a a woman or child cos whether you do or not, you will still be neglected.

masterfactor:
No matter what, your father is still your father. I believe this is the mother doing, because if the mother played are role very well and advice him to assist his father he will do it. Mother has total control of the child and the child will do the bidding of the mother. See why it is good to marry a good woman and not a retired hook up girl or prostitute.

It depends on your role in the child's upbringing. I've seen many fathers' who have a closer relationship with their kids than the mothers.

Afodot0022:
Stupid artist displaying wealth but will not do the right thing, irrespective of what he might have done to you, helping him in this difficult situation will be the least he can do. Knowing that he is a man should make him understand better

abegii this is a lesson to all men and women. If you are being intentionally wicked,irresponsible and uncaring of your family or children, continue. The kids are watching and even if the mother sowed the seeds of wickedness in the children's minds the children know the parent that is irresponsible and the parent that is lying and being manipulative so stop the nonsense

It's ridiculous how some men sow seed of wickedness and act surprised when life returns the wickedness to them. Nevertheless there are 2 sides to it,if he was a good father ,the principles of the universe and the laws of God will deal with asake but if the father was just a sperm donor and an irresponsible dad.if you like curse am from now to next year,you just dey exercise your mouth

Bottomline just be a good person to everyone and your children and you will see nature and God bringing good things to you without even having to beg your son.i have had dealings and conversations with the elderly and I know what I am talking about

One of my landlord was a very kind man.hes late now.all his children testified that he was a good father and even before I met his kids I was just naturally drawn to him.something always motivates me to buy fruits and drinks for him when I go to the market (mind you he never asked me to do that for him neither did his kids) I just naturally liked him and I took care of him as of he was my father. That's because he has sown good seeds in the past and now God sent strangers to him to be there for him at his old vulnerable moments and this was even before I met his children.

TheOldGods:
but a woman who also never built with him, never paid his school fees, help him at all, can come into his life when he has made it and he will go and buy her a car,take her on expensive restaurant etc.
Sometimes you people need to think before typing. So cause my dad never helped me in my growth I should abandon him, but grow a complete stranger

Sometimes it's not as simple as that. The negative things he might have said to them. The maltreating of their mother or even the kids. You never know.

Some traumas don't just heal with time.


The best we can do is to ask him to try and forgive and do his duty...cause he can never love that man again.

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

Confirmed AI generated, which school you go.

You’ve raised a thoughtful point, providing financial support doesn’t necessarily rebuild or strengthen a relationship. It’s possible to assist out of obligation or respect while keeping emotional distance.

I concur with you.quote author=TheOldGods post=134533795]but a woman who also never built with him, never paid his school fees, help him at all, can come into his life when he has made it and he will go and buy her a car,take her on expensive restaurant etc.
Sometimes you people need to think before typing. So cause my dad never helped me in my growth I should abandon him, but grow a complete stranger

[/quote]

Nairaland and supporting their fellow deadbeats are 5&6.

Some people suffer intense abandonment issues after they are deserted by their fathers who did NOTHING to help raise them but suddenly turns up to blackmail them via the public.

No one should be forced to offer kindness to someone who caused them harm physically or emotionally.

YOU BE MUMU...!!!!!

WHO TOOK CARE OF THE CHILD FROM SINCE HE WAS BORN
TILL THROUGH OUT HIS PRY, SEC, ... etc.

NOW THAT THE FATHER HAS STROKE, CANT HE RETURN THE FAVOUR NOW THAT HE HAS MADE IT AND TAKE CARE OF THE FATHER

ONE THING I KNOW ABOUT YORUBA CHILDREN, I GREW UP AROUND THEM; THEY ALWAYS ABANDON THEIR FATHER AND START TAKING CARE OF THE MOTHER AND THE SIBLINGS. FORGETTING TWAS THE FATHER THAT PAID FOR HIS CHILD-BIRTH HOSPITAL BILL, UP TILL WHEN HIN START TO DEY GROW HAIR FOR BLOKOS.

.... FOOLISH USELESS CHILDREN.

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

DeOTR:

You should prove your assertions first. At least we have people on X who said the man didn't abandon him. What other prove do you have apart from assuming he must have abandoned him, that's why he didn't help?
He's not the only one with a deadbeat father.

why should I prove it ,when the person directly involved has already made it clear that he abandoned them through his actions? It's you and others like you on X who seem to think you know better than Asake who needs to prove that he wasn't a deadbeat father.

Blood money/money blood

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to [b]claim a share in what they never helped [/b]to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

Same you your disappear(now) when he need you Life is deeper than what you think. Did you know if he would have made it this far in life? Is Mobad not regretting of having a father?

Asake that could ignore the brand that brought him to limelight like it never existed in the first place, he can abandon anybody.


I pray the man gets assistance 🙏

Asides metaphysical reason

How can a son be rich and not want to help father

The man must check himself, who knows maybe they haven't be in talking terms

Hmmmm....I hope he wasnt a deadbeat father who wasn't there when Asake was young......a very common story among naija men

That Kain money, Baba talk say no be for family members help!

An irresponsible father does not deserve any help. Let his other children help him.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
The type of son that use left hand to point to his father's compound

Quite unfortunately that Brain is Abandoned sometimes before Comments are Made

sisisioge:
Hmmmm....I hope he wasnt a deadbeat father who wasn't there when Asake was young......a very common story among naija men

I heard he was a useless father. Abandoned Asake and his mom to suffer with his siblings and married another wife. Has other children from his second wife. Suddenly, Asake makes it now he wants him back. A very useless father.

TheOldGods:
but a woman who also never built with him, never paid his school fees, help him at all, can come into his life when he has made it and he will go and buy her a car,take her on expensive restaurant etc.
Sometimes you people need to think before typing. So cause my dad never helped me in my growth I should abandon him, but grow a complete stranger

.

You can't comprehend at all,, perhaps you didn't finish reading it tho

Irresponsible father, that born Asake as born throwaway. Is now that he is crying, if Asake was not successful. Would he had used his name? Dead beat Father.

slimdamatrix1:


I heard he was a useless father. Abandoned Asake and his mom to suffer with his siblings and married another wife. Has other children from his second wife. Suddenly, Asake makes it now he wants him back. A very useless father.

I see! Na himself he go embarrass! Hopefully, all these upcoming useless fathers too will learn. It never ends well!

DemonSlayer:
I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

Matured talk...

From the look the man na Jeye Jeye father that doesn't care about child upbringing.


Ashake forgive the Oldman.

Smilleydr:
thank you for your write up bro, me like this no matter waiting I hear say my papa do for me, may abadone me not not takin care of me

If I don make am reach asake like this, bro I go help everybody ooo including my papa wey abadone me, him go chop my money tired self, e get how I want make God bless me reach make I start to dey bless my enemies self.

some ppl papa disown them even ontop say i right everybody sef see am but like this wey i gallant em dey reap where em no sow, na so life be. everything get reason even hitler get reason to kill 6million jews

Smilleydr:
thank you for your write up bro, me like this no matter waiting I hear say my papa do for me, may abadone me not not takin care of me

If I don make am reach asake like this, bro I go help everybody ooo including my papa wey abadone me, him go chop my money tired self, e get how I want make God bless me reach make I start to dey bless my enemies self.

Paying love with hate. I yearn to have your kind of heart

Acidosis:
The idea that his father might deserve whatever treatment he’s receiving today especially if he was an absent father doesn’t make sense. The majority of the people benefiting from Asake’s wealth today didn’t contribute to his success either.

The people who contributed to his success are his fans, who go all out to stream his songs and attend his shows. I’m not sure he’s helped any of these people either; instead, celebrities are often known for spending lavishly on the Sophia Lambos of this world.

Sometimes, you have to look beyond people’s failures and weaknesses. Sometimes, you repay the wickedness of the wicked with good deeds in the hope that they might repent.

If we all decide to help only those who contributed to our success, then even Asake might not be where he is to today.

Let me ask

Is it only asake the man born?

Does he not have relatives?

Why does he not have asake contact, why turn it to internet thing

If asake wasn't doing wordly well nko

I just see the man looking for cheap pity

Warriorprince:


Don't be quick to Judge, if you are not in someone shoe. Some father will rejects the child from pregnancy, after the child comes of age he will look for his child but the father will insult him and send him parking, him go con suffer in life, mind you no be say the father is poor at this point oo....he might even approach the father few month before he make am.....make the father still treat him like shit. Boom, month later he come make am, and he will now rush to be associated with is son. All we need to do is encourage him to forgive his father not castigated.

We saying the same point...
Should the son pay him back in the same coin?

Many useless fathers do that.

That a stupid father made a stupid decision doesn't mean the son should leave him in old age.