Vibes ladies exude that drives off potentially reasonable suitors!

 The ‘I’m a Daddy’s Girl’ Vibe. This sends the signal that you are over pampered, and cannot tolerate any man who will give you less attention and affection than ‘daddy’ does.

 The ‘I’m the Only Girl’ Or ‘Only Child Vibe’. This communicates that you are addicted to ‘all attention’ gravitating towards you. It also resonates the vibe that you cannot take ‘no’ for an answer, having been raised as the ‘princess’ of the home.

 The Extravagant - Vibe. The vibe you exhibit as an extravagant lady is that you would covet the same environment you grew up in, and this becomes a turn-off. Marriage comes with sacrifice, compromise and responsibilities.

 The ‘I’m Educated’ Vibe. In the end, it’s the simple things that matter; respect, submission and love. Your ‘highly educated lady’ vibe can be a repellant to ‘Mr. Right’ when you over-emphasize it. It is not enough to be intelligent; you must also have the right character.

 The ‘I’m Pretty’ Vibe. Over emphasis on this vibe gives the impression that you are high on demand. It also communicates the vibe that you can use your beauty as capital for resource acquisition and manipulation. The right guy may be attracted to you, but the many guys that flock around you will be a repellant.

 The ‘I’m Strong and Independent’ Vibe. A great virtue to have, but over showcasing this vibe communicates the signal that you are only looking for a man for status quo and loyalty. It communicates that you might be bossy, controlling, and non-tolerating of anything less than the ideal man you have mentally conceived.

 The ‘I’m The Breadwinner’ Vibe. This vibration signals that your family and other dependents may feel that your spouse is an intruder who may likely affect the flow of your support, and invariably their supply.

‘TURN – OFF’ VIBES

 The Clubbing Vibe. You may be fun to hang around with, but no bloke will really want you - at least not to settle down with.

 The ‘Hot Chic’ Vibe. Many ladies are under the illusion that because they are being chased around by many Hot men they are pretty, special and classy. This grandeur of self-deceit is a repellent to ‘Mr. Right’.

 The Randy Vibe. A man who has driven many cars is an expert, but a car driven by many men is a scrap. Don’t give the scrap vibe.

 The ‘Attitude’ Vibe. Give the ‘strong woman’ vibe. Stop giving ‘attitude’. Give the responsible, respectable and purposeful vibe. No attitude, just standards. You’ve got it locked in you.

 The ‘Mating-Call’ Signal. Twerking is not just dancing; it’s giving a mating call. It’s in the similitude of the animal dance indicating readiness for sexual pleasure. Don’t communicate that vibe.

 ‘Over-Dependence’ Vibe. Marriage is not a poverty or failed life alleviation scheme. See your life as 100% your responsibility. Success, achievement, and a fulfilled life cannot be sexually transmitted.

 The ‘Self-Insufficient’ Vibe. Working hard and buying things for yourself with your own money is honestly the ultimate gratification and very pride worthy. It sends the right signals of having a sense of responsibility and maturity.

 The ‘Money-Dumb’ Vibe. You know the ulterior motive for that your big wedding dream is not to create lasting memories, it is actually to impress people. As a better option, left over money can go into an investment for the home and kids you’d be blessed with. Exude vibes of financial prudency.

 The ‘Instant Gratification’ Vibe. It is common advice for weddings that you keep it simple. People will eat, drink and leave you poorer or perhaps in poverty.

 Delusional Vibes. Stop the ‘one-sided’ pressure. You see him as the prince charming of your dreams, but he sees you as his nightmare. You are not the only one sleeping at night. Sometimes, you may just need to make yourself a cup of juice and relax.

 Pressure Vibe. Marriage is not forced. It is thoughtfully planned and executed. You shouldn’t exert unnecessary pressure on any man.

 The ‘Cloud 9 Fixed’ Mister. Your ‘Mr. Perfect’ or Mr. ‘100% Right’ does not exist anywhere; except maybe in your fancy dreams! You’d have to wait until Jesus comes to see ‘Mr. Perfect’! Get realistic and lower those impossible standards.

 The ‘Distorted Mindset’. Men are swine. Men are scumbags. These are hasty generalizations; they are Gen Z cool slangs, but this distorted mindset is a potential self-dug hole. It’s a future relationship destroyer.

Culled from 'Atomic Vibes' by James Clearie.
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Have a blast and blessed relationship life!

It takes the grace of God for a lasting marriage union, even marriage counselors couldn’t keep theirs.

No perfect or sure formula

ebexofficial:
It takes the grace of God for a lasting marriage union, even marriage counselors couldn’t keep theirs.

No perfect or sure formula

I believe it goes both ways sir. Faith needs the balance of works. Grace alongside playing your own part and dealing with ur spouse with understanding helps a great deal!

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So all the married ladies are what...?

illicit:
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So all the married ladies are what...?

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