Parisgoodman:

I don't know if anyone here has noticed this, but i'v taken my time to look at it. Promiscuos girls find husbands so easily compare to the good ones, not just husbands but also good and able ones. Why? Is there any tactics they use? If there is, please tell the good ones here so they can also learn from it:

Parisgoodman:

And the good ones make their duty to pray and fast in churches? Lol

If the first statement is dumb, this one is even dumber, as there are good girls that dont go to churches!. . .

Being dumb should be a crime!

jay bee:

They ooze self confidence and most probably in the know on how to hook a man

freecocoa:

so if I'm not promiscuous I can't ooze of self confidence or know how to hook a man?

jay bee:

My assertion wasn't meant to be highly exclusive

The OP's general believe is that the group stand a better chance of getting hooked

freecocoa:

And you are clearly in agreement with that belief,in as much as I'd love to say I understand what OP is saying or trying to say,I don't think"promiscuous is the right word to use.

You have to be promiscuous for me to marry you, I have always love promiscuous over good girl

jay bee:

It depends on the angle you are looking at it.
I'd say yes if as a man i was looking for a girl with the following characteristics:
Above average intimate experience,
Great fashion sense and not shy to flaunt the assets if she got it,
Not overly religious and somewhat free spirit
et al

freecocoa:

And any girl with the above characteristics is promiscuous? Before we go any further,how would you define promiscuity?

jay bee:

Most certainly
You tell me cocoa  

freecocoa:

Haba jay you don fall my hand o,well a promiscuous girl in the most common sense of it,is a girl who mingles indiscriminately especially by having sexx with multiple partners on a casual basis.

Now why I said "promiscuous" isn't the right word to use is cos a girl can possess all the characteristics you listed without having multiple sexx partners or don't you believe so?

But seriously, this generalisation is not true. Man sees a woman he likes and he marries period.

That was "amyacious" enough!

jay bee:

I believe so but in Nigerian standards and point of view, it's almost certain for those tagged as non promiscuous to be born again

Nigeria being an overly religious country with tons of followers leaving their daily life according to words written in their chosen sacred books will most certainly not have any of the characteristics I outline in my earlier posts else they are had just be sorry pretenders

freecocoa:

Now if I clearly understand what you wrote up there I'd say that's a LIE ,it would be acceptable to say some nigerians(very few these days) believe that any girl who possesses the listed characteristics is promiscuous,believe me the listed is not even a criteria to know a promiscuous girl anymore in the present Nigeria cos you have girls flaunting what they got in churches,you see churches match making people,you have sexx educators in church who teach how the koko is eaten etc.

I still maintain that the only reason to term a girl"promiscuous" is if you are certain she shares sexx indiscriminately not because she is out spoken,exposed,out going or has a great fashion sense.

sexkillz:

That was "amyacious" enough!

jay bee:

Are we talking about traditional churches or the likes of Dr Fireman?
I hope you know Nigeria is still a very religious country whereby things are usually done not by common sense but by what the pastor or Imam teaches in the respective religious houses

freecocoa:

Who the F is Dr firearm? Is his church the only one in nigeria?

That's the problem with believing everything you see on the tv and especially NL,yes nigeria is a religious country no doubt but that doesn't mean everyone in it has lost his\her common sense,believe it or not many people do things their own ways,the so called preachers this days have even realized that people are no longer that naïve and nigeria is certainly moving ahead with the world in certain areas like religion,many churches have come to accept christianity the way a white man sees it. 

jay bee:

Let me get this right, Are you saying it's now OK by the church for the members to practice sex before marriage?
Do you know you can't get married at redeem churches if you aren't a Virgin?

Because out of their promiscity they have dealt with absolute a$$holes in men so when they meet a good guy they recognise it and they stay.

Naive girls dont have a clue of how harsh men can be vice versa for men. When a man that deals with ashawos meet a good girl he know and is definately keeping her when the nerds are grateful that atleast their is  girl that fancies them not to talk of a beautiful one

freecocoa:

Okay dear I think you've stayed away far too long,you need to come back home.

Where did you get that redeem won't wed you if you aren't a virgin? That's absolute,pure,blatant,big,fat and outrageous LIE,in this our very nigeria? that's the best joke I've heard or read this year. Tell me they won't wed you if you are pregnant,I'd agree not the former.

And no I'm not saying churches OK sexx before marriage,I'm saying that churches don't term girls"promiscuous" because they possess the characteristics you listeed.