sexylogan:

@Op
1. Buy a double-barrel rifle
2. Aim at the guy's crotch
3. Squeeze the trigger

Mynd_44:

4.Kill him

sexkillz:

[size=23pt]DIES![/size]

drnoel:

guy u did what u thought was right so don't punish urself 4 doing it. I think u did well, but I think u didn't do enough. Yes u are right, sometimes women need that extra attention, call it being harsh or not but sometimes she needs to know your stand in black and white. U don't have to be harsh about it but she has to know that she is either in or out of her own choice. I would suggest u make sure the two of them don't retain contact. Even if u have to replace your womans BB with a new one please do so,  just so u make sure she is not in contact with him. U also tell her that if he gets the new phone's pin then its obvious she still has her heart with him and it may not work with u cos u can't have her thinking about another man while she is with u.

sexkillz:

^^^
The OP's Fiance's ex, right?

Jaywon242:

My fiance's ex still disturbs her even wen he knows she has moved on. I ve her facebook p/w and i see miriads of messages he sends to her often though she tells me abt them even before I see them.I wasn't dt worried abt it until recently. d guy just bought a bb and she asked her to send him her pin nd she did,bt told me later.I used to go thru their chats wen she gives her phone to me sometimes. He still wanted her back and she has always consistently told him it's too late.I was in Lagos to see her parents and while we were travelling back,she met d same guy on d way nd they talked for some seconds. Later wen we got home,I saw some chat msgs on her phone where d guy promised to give her some money and he asked her to call her wen she gets to our house which she did.Though she didnt tell me this until I confronted her. I was so incensed that she had to start begging on her knees and promised neva to try dt again. She deleted him from her bbm immediately. I didnt feel @ ease abt it cos it looks as if I was totally controlling her, not making her very free abt d whole thing but then I reasoned again dt Ladies need such sometimes. I hope I ve nt been too harsh on her. Lest I forget, this same guy called her some weeks into our relationship early last year. She put d phone on loudspeaker and d guy was begging her to come back bt she said she has found sb who loved her and dt she loved him too. She even said she was pregnant for him. D guy requested her to abort d pregnancy and come back to him. It was then I knew dis guy was desperate. Wat do u fink I can do abt this. Thanks for your anticipated responses,

Jaywon242:

@Coogar, yes o. Can't stand such pple too. Instead of him to accept d fact that he has lost the plot, he still keeps shooting where there's nothing to aim @. She left him because he was double dating and the gurl(miss A) is a known person to my g.friend. So she went to meet the gurl and they struck an accord. They called him(her ex) and d phone was put on speaker. d other gurl now asked if he was dating miss B(my fiancee) and his response was yes. Dt he doesnt love her(my fiancee) and that she(miss A) is d one he loves. Dt he's just using her (fiancee) to while away time and they were both listening to him. He was begging the other gurl(miss A) on phone. Later my fiancee called him whether he was dating miss A and he admitted but told her that he doesnt love her(miss A)and that my fiancee is d one he loves. Wat an irony. This is one of the reasons she decided to leave him and coupled with d fact dt he was not in skol nd not planning to go to skol while then my fiancee was already in year 2. He's now saying that he made a mistake. That d other gurl is not a good choice. Dt he hasn't found any other gurl that measures up to my fiancee since she left him and that he's sorry. And moreover he hasn't yet gone to skol up till now,though he's working and my fiancee is already a graduate while I ve an M.Sc already. I just hope he can reason well and move on with his life