You never really know though. Be careful.

Seen the pic,

Well guys are diff. . . . If I was the one, won't have told u anything. . . . But ppl wud see it differently. . . . I bliv in allowing ppl do wat they wanna do, maybe he is on the "very moral side". . . . My advice (as before), go and see him physically. . .  Let him use his mouth to tell u wats wrong and if its over . . .  My new rule, fight and settle ish physically. . .  BBM can be deceiving. . .

Secondly, DO NOT PASTE that pic here if u don't want all the guys in NL to toast ur life. . . and they know how to get ur details (dunno how) . . . Even though I couldn't see ur face, I strongly advice u not to put it here. . . Plus NL guys can form "very moral" too

By the way, nice

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kpolli:

Seen the pic,

Well guys are diff. . . . If I was the one, won't have told u anything. . . . But ppl wud see it differently. . . . I bliv in allowing ppl do wat they wanna do, maybe he is on the "very moral side". . . . My advice (as before), go and see him physically. . .  Let him use his mouth to tell u wats wrong and if its over . . .  My new rule, fight and settle ish physically. . .  BBM can be deceiving. . .

Ok he told me, I removed it and changed the pic, yet he is still behaving somehow referring to the pic plus we have spent a lot of time together and he knows and sees me in person so why would a picture like this make him be so cold? I have asked him the problem several times, that he is distant that if it is to break up, he should tell me, we would still be friends. He would not say anything and would just send me a "Hug" emoticon.


He is making me look so bad calling it "bedroom picture" Really? Is it that serious? That the picture should have been only between the both of us and not other guys.

"very moral side" mean say no clubbing for madam then, unless she will be wearing wrapper and blouse.

Some men can be so insecure and pathetic. Weaklings.


I wouldn't even go and see him sef. He needs to come crawling.

There is NOTHING wrong with the picture.

Well it can be something else, if he sees u everytime (physically) then y r u still scared? I have misread this bbm "distance" to one day vex for my gf and it backfired strongly. . .  Do not insinuate stuffs thru bbm. . . . If he behaves the same way physically then harrass him till he talks . . .  

Am an analyst and if I analyze that pic thoroughly u wud see y he myt have vexed but I don't judge without evidence so   . . . . .

Madam Kelz88, she has a reason to be concerned, if he wasn't worth it. . . she won't have opened this thread. . . Not all ladies do shakara  

Obviously she's concerned, she needs answers!

My own be say, you no suppose beg that type of guy cos he will forever take the piss.

kelz88:

Obviously she's concerned, she needs answers!

My own be say, you no suppose beg that type of guy cos he will forever take the piss.

Like you are saying the right thing. It is taking forever. Are we broken up or what, let me know and move on and he won;t say anything.

kpolli:

Well it can be something else, if he sees u everytime (physically) then y r u still scared? I have misread this bbm "distance" to one day vex for my gf and it backfired strongly. . .  Do not insinuate stuffs thru bbm. . . . If he behaves the same way physically then harrass him till he talks . . .  

Am an analyst and if I analyze that pic thoroughly u wud see y he myt have vexed but I don't judge without evidence so   . . . . .

Madam Kelz88, she has a reason to be concerned, if he wasn't worth it. . . she won't have opened this thread. . . Not all ladies do shakara  

I have seen him once after the picture incident and he was so happy to see me. We tried talking about it, he explained he had told me the setting etc, which I told him but i removed it and apologized. He kept asking me things about telling my mum about him and all. I thought it was resolved but the cold shoulders are on again and i cannot see him now.

Acidosis:

There is NOTHING wrong with the picture.

That's what kills me 'cos he had told someone that happened to know me about it and the person told me he mentioned he broke up with me because the "bed room" picture I put and he was supposed to be my bf etc but I was confused "cos he still kept on messaging me and all. I'm so confused.

but you need to explain things to him again. you have a decent man, I'm very sure you received so many sweet comments on ur BB, from guys that after what they'll "chop".

Sounds to me like he wants you to beg him.

Tell your mom about him? LOL! What's the big deal though? How long have you guys been dating?


You need to call him and sound firm. Demand to know where you stand in the relationship, if there's even one.
Or tell him you're taking the hint and moving on.

Thank God its just a picture, LMAO

I dunno anymore cos I only have theories and no facts. . .  The friend myt have said it so as to get u to leave ur b4 (with that pic i saw, i myt have that in mind too) or mis-quoted him. . . .

But this one ur now saying he wants to be known by ur parents dey fear me oooo. . . . Is he planning on marrying u soon?

But I feel u shud hear it from his mouth that its over. . . . Forget the issue and just take it that his attitude is being caused by something else, but if he continues raising the issue up, DUMP him. . . .

kpolli:

I dunno anymore cos I only have theories and no facts. . .  The friend myt have said it so as to get u to leave ur b4 (with that pic i saw, i myt have that in mind too) or mis-quoted him. . . .

But this one ur now saying he wants to be known by ur parents dey fear me oooo. . . . Is he planning on marrying u soon?

But I feel u shud hear it from his mouth that its over. . . . Forget the issue and just take it that his attitude is being caused by something else, but if he continues raising the issue up, DUMP him. . . .

He's not raising the issue to me again but he is cold to me and I asked him today again through bbm 'cos I can't see today, busy- That he is still being cold to me after I have apologized and all, that is it still the picture, someone else? he should tell me for the fact we have been friends since but if not, have we broken up so i could move on and guess what he sent back to me in his reply ---->"A Hug" Emoticon.

Acidosis:

but you need to explain things to him again. you have a decent man, I'm very sure you received so many sweet comments on ur BB, from guys that after what they'll "chop".

I have done that over a million times. Why was he happy to see me afterwards and when I leave, was still giving the cold shoulder. I have asked him, if it's to break up or if we have, he should be able to tell me, all he would just reply is giving me a hug emoticon.

Stop asking. . . . don't even chat with him. . . when he is alright, he wud talk. . . .

My memory card just formatted itself if not I would have sent u one nice pic that wud prick his conscience if u use it as ur dp. . . works for me everytime

kpolli:

Stop asking. . . . don't even chat with him. . . when he is alright, he wud talk. . . .

My memory card just formatted itself if not I would have sent u one nice pic that wud prick his conscience if u use it as ur dp. . . works for me everytime

Now I'm so eager to see it lol, I'm waiting for it abeg

girl,send it here.

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Deida:

Now I'm so eager to see it lol, I'm waiting for it abeg

Sent

It's valentine season na. The guy dey try evade spending money

^^^^ Valid reason too

[b]OP you are the freaking cause of your problem,what are you running up and down asking him if its break up for? You sound as if you desperately want to be with him.
He said he doesn't like the pix,you apologized and changed it,its his turn to be mature,after all its still a new relationship and you both need time to get to know each other,he shouldn't expect you to know everything he likes already,it takes time,patience,sacrifice,compromise etc to build a relationship.

You've done your part now relax and let him do his,with the way you are going,you are just making him feel like he's your all in all,why even tell him you'll remain friends even if he breaks up with? Stop being too clingy.

To be honest with you,if I were in your place,the best I'll do is remove the pix with no apologies,wtf am I apologizing for?putting up a pix I like? Abegi stop running around and relax,he'll come around if he will,don't ask him any thing as regards the ish again,he's obviously enjoying having you beg him.[/b]

kpolli:

Stop asking. . . . don't even chat with him. . . when he is alright, he wud talk. . . .

My thoughts exactly!

For those of u sayin stuffs like "I'll not beg him. How wil I change something I like? This and that!" Y'all are just deceivin y'allselves.

Now, lets just put the op's bf aside cos, even after all the beggin, he's stil being cold.

Place yourself in the op's shoe. Your bf asked u to remove it. Would u gnore him and stil leave it there and expect him to be happy?

Killz u wan me dem face u. @op just apologise and move on weda he gets back to his right senses or nt just pray for him. Cos dudes lyk dat r insecure n feel dat dey wud lose der gfs to sum oda guys cos she's pretty.

^^^
Face me for telling the truth? See as boys dey drop email address na. . . if na before, dem go dey form!

Uff!!!

If u wan c d babe just take style drop ur own all join bt just leave dey wan c gal n d gal is willing to show dem so no probs

If u wan c d babe just take style drop ur own all join bt just leave em dey wan c gal n d gal is willing to show dem so no probs

No way to judge without seeing the picture.

I agree lets see the picture first and then we will decide