Oh! Sorry! Maybe that wasn't for me then, cos, Im not here to confuse her, but to convince and advice her. Sorry, bro!

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wat a boring thread thiz iz

good luck

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Oh and next time I'm just gonna buy my own okada and keep on rollin

Okay, this cracked me up


Back to the topic: Chei!! I cant believe i am reading a thread like this from a white woman dating a Nigerian . You had better check that guy properly to be sure he is Nigerian, but then again, u were in Mushin, so its possible

I'm gonna bookmark this thread right away. I will like to hear your future reports on this your Nigerian boyfriend, as I would like to know how the whole marriage story would play out. I hope it would not take the usual: "my Nigerian boyfriend did this and my Nigerian boyfriend did that".

As is needed in most relationships, I wish you luck, and be sure to keep this thread alive, so we can also have updates.

I for one dont really think people should marry outside one's culture. It tends to get complicated. But if you truly love each other, then y'all should be willing to learn about each other's culture. I advise you talk to him about your feelings and values. Let him know what to expect should you guys end up married, so he doesn't get surprised and grow resentful. You also should be willing to make major sacrifices in your life. You're gonna have to learn to let some issues slide for the sake of peace and a long-term marriage. Wish you goodluck.

Hey guys, the thread is over.

Why?

Mynd_44:

Hey guys, the thread is over.

yez it is

Okay

Mods, what r u guys stil waitin for?

Poster i know i am late for this topic but i just want to make you aware that ones a nogerian man will always be a nigerian man. Even if that guy behaved however in your country , he was eventualy going to get tired of pretending. Its either you take it or leave it. A man will always be a man and you must learn to be submisive and compromise. Aint no point of playing white with a black man sugar. You aint gona change him darling. Jus learn how to please him finish.

there is no cause for annoyance and no need 2 get so pent-up with fraustration. Talk with him, with an open mind but firmly and plainly. Its just cultural differences nd it won´t go away so u guys have to be strong 2gether 2 survive.

Mrs..Chima:


Exactly. Why act one way in Sweden and another way in Nigeria? That's FAKE.

Nigeria and Sweden aren't same Bro.
Do they Kidnap whites in Sweden (that is looking at one aspect of her complaint)

The Best thing here is to communicate with your Man and try to find out why the change \ concern about things in a way that is different from before and then try to discern the sincerity of purpose without making any assumptions so you don't get hurt one way or the other.