Tell her to keep her mouth shut!!

If she didnt tell him before the marriage why start now. Shes already under pressure due to the lack of a child why add more to that. This is a story she can gist him when they are both above 65.

To the single girls, these are the type of things you may want to tell your boyfriend/fiance/spouse before you enter into the marriage. Thats why I love my girl. She has revealed everything that may come up later and we have addressed them. Yes, she has also been raped (twice), and she told me all about it. So please just so you have a good open relationship.

deniyor:

Raper??

what is surprising you! Is it the way i spelt 'RAPER' or the thread itself ;

Mrs, Chima:

You are a rare gem.

tell me some more _{my head is swelling}

kokoye:

tell me some more _{my head is swelling}

You miss me?

you're there, i'm here . . .is this the way to run a romance?

kokoye:

you're there, i'm here . . .is this the way to run a romance?

I was told long distance romance are the best!

Whatcha think of this?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-856665.0.html

Mesis chima did you say kokokkoye a rear gem   Nah! LESBIANBOY = reargem!

simple kokoye you cancant even spell. . . .rear jem indeed

Hmmmmm, LesBoy, your gitlfriend sha, you hear story for inspiration FM come drop am here say your girl say wetin? Oni iro nla

^ ^

hey lesboy!

iyatrustee:

hey lesboy!

******hugs iyatrustee and shouts ahn ahn, where have u bin? See iyatrustee of 'yesterday' o that i carried and bathe when she was small, you are now a big girl o doing shakara abi? Btw is dat how to grieet your elders ''HEY lesboy'' you can 'do-ba-le' abi?*******

girls are growing and the bois are not smiling!

^ hey antelope where have u been?

been in one corner brea.sstfeeding!

iyatrustee:

been in one corner brea.sstfeeding!

corner of third mainland bridge?

Forgiveness is not negotiable, it is a MUST!  Forgiveness is not for the offender but for the offended so tell the person that the longer it takes for her to deal with this the more hurt she will be feeling. Let her forgive and let go and see if she wont get pregnant. About telling her husband, she was supposed to do that before getting married to him. What purpose would it serve now?  Please tell her to deal with the hurt of 5yrs now and concentrate on living a better and happy life with her husband. Forgiving the guy would be like a sacrifice offered to GOD  (that's if she believes) then ask God to bless her with fruits of the womb. This doesn't mean she and her husband shouldn't visit their doctor to make sure there is nothing physically preventing them from having kids, Once that part is done and they get the pass mark from the Doctor, she should apply my suggestion and see the power of forgiveness at work.
Bless

Inspirational FM huh. Crap I knew this story sounded fraudulent.

obowunmi:

FAKE S TORY! rubbish!

FOOL!

If dis is true,den dis is a pitiable condition,dis lady was a victim of rape n gets 2 c her rapist often,d rape is traumatisin as it is n not 2 mention seeing him constantly,d lady needs therapy n real counsellin,n she shuldn't b seein dat cousin of hers often,(but weneva I bcome a moda,my daughter cannot go tru dis n any man God 4bid dat even tinks of rape wit my daughter in mind will b at risk of been castrated not 2 talk of jail), anyway after dealing with her psychological issues,which includes d hard process of 4giveness,she shuld concentrate on going 2 d hospital with her husband 4 tests concernin d fact dat she's not yet conceived. She shuldn't tell her husband,wat purpose will it serve now?xcept of course a therapist advises her 2 do so. If her husband eva finds out den if he is a real man he will calm down n console her n if possible try 2 get justice 4 her,he can't b angry with her 4 christs sake,she is d VICTIM

She should not tell her husband some things are better left unsaid.

Past is past,tell her 2 forget about telling her husband.

She should tell him. If he hears from another source na war ooooooo

MrsChima1:


You are a rare gem.

He is a rare gem becos he doesn't see anything bad in his wife being raped by her cousin(taboo), giving birth and keeping it from him for 5 years?Women and the way they think.