A chic started dating a guy while he was married, she dated him for two years into his marriage ,  In little or no time, ,he got separated from his wife, the separation lasted for about 4 years and then they got a divorce, my dear chic still  dated this guy steady all through this. Two years later my guy got married to someone else, my dear chic is still dating him, she even helped him arrange stuff for his wedding.
Dear Nairalanders  Do u honestly think she is normal? As i type, she is still hanging in there.

thank god u are a chik too. but u dont know if their relationship had terms and conditions from d onset. go and sit down!

Diz one na orishirishi

lol@terms and conditions but who knows.

but honestly she didn't contribute to the breakup cz he didnt end up with her.Hes just a womaniser while she's a catalysing agent.
strange the roles people play cz, when will she settle in her own home with her own man?

chimuchi:

thank god u are a chik too. but u dont know if their relationship had terms and conditions from d onset. go and sit down!  

Thank God I dnt have friends like u. Wat a loser. Just imagine ur crappy reply. What bullshit terms and conditions, is that a normal life? The man is living his life while she is fooling herself.

pendo89:

lol@terms and conditions but who knows.

but honestly she didn't contribute to the breakup cz he didnt end up with her.Hes just a womaniser while she's a catalysing agent.strange the roles people play cz, when will she settle in her own home with her own man?

It's obvious she didn't end his marriage, it's so obvious she is not a factor in his life but he is in hers. Wat a silly triangle.

Sisi Eko:

A chic started dating a guy while he was married, she dated him for two years into his marriage ,  In little or no time, ,he got separated from his wife, the separation lasted for about 4 years and then they got a divorce, my dear chic still  dated this guy steady all through this. Two years later my guy got married to someone else, my dear chic is still dating him, she even helped him arrange stuff for his wedding.
Dear Nairalanders  Do u honestly think she is normal? As i type, she is still hanging in there.

For the life of me, I can't understand why somebody could be this foolish. How can she not know that the coward is messing with her big time? It beats my imagination. She's most likely wake up from her illusion at 40.

Sisi Eko:

A chic started dating a guy while he was married, she dated him for two years into his marriage ,  In little or no time, ,he got separated from his wife, the separation lasted for about 4 years and then they got a divorce, my dear chic still  dated this guy steady all through this. Two years later my guy got married to someone else, my dear chic is still dating him, she even helped him arrange stuff for his wedding.
Dear Nairalanders  Do u honestly think she is normal? As i type, she is still hanging in there.

your dear friend has accepted her roll as a side chic, a bust it baby, a cum bucket, and a jump off
she needs her eyes cleaned because she is obviously asleep

This is lugubrious

Mehn that's a correct chick right there. Not all btches are destined to get married.

La Parisienne:

For the life of me, I can't understand why somebody could be this foolish. How can she not know that the coward is messing with her big time? It beats my imagination. She's most likely wake up from her illusion at 40.

Maybe they are best friends. Who knows their arrangement. Do u know what is between the two of them. What about Goldie Hawn and Kert Russell that dated 4 ages.

No where in the little story was it mentioned that she wanted marriage from the man, so poster, your reasoning falls short!

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Poster you don't even know what their arrangement is and you are here whining on her behalf. I know a lady who's dating a married man,their agreement is that she would be there as his mistress,he is allowed to do whatever he wants,all he has to do is take care of her needs. She has a house bought in her name,2 cars,a biz and other things,courtesy of the man and she's happy with her life. Try finding out what the ish is with whoever you wrote about before yapping about it.

i am sorry to say that this lady is the SMART ONE in this story.
she knows her guy is not to be trusted (even when married), she knows he cheated with her while married (and could do it again), she therefore knows that marrying him will only end in divorce so she prefers to fukc him and be the gal in the background. obviously, she aint one of these "desperate to marry" ladies that are all around.

she obviously loves this man but knows that she will never have him for herself, so she just enjoys the ride while it lasts.

mistress ok. Its her life

what a sad life.

chelseabmw:

@@@@poster
I know the truth. . . .i know that the chic is You

Chai! I'm too much of a Shapiro! To be in this situation.

sweetcocoa:

Poster you don't even know what their arrangement is and you are here whining on her behalf. I know a lady who's dating a married man,their agreement is that she would be there as his mistress,he is allowed to do whatever he wants,all he has to do is take care of her needs. She has a house bought in her name,2 cars,a biz and other things,courtesy of the man and she's happy with her life. Try finding out what the ish is with whoever you wrote about before yapping about it.

I wish he was all of this to her. She is my friend so i know 4 a fact that he is non of all that to her. Apart from the once in a while one thousand pounds nothing else comes out.

MRbrownJAY:

i am sorry to say that this lady is the SMART ONE in this story.
she knows her guy is not to be trusted (even when married), she knows he cheated with her while married (and could do it again), she therefore knows that marrying him will only end in divorce so she prefers to fukc him and be the gal in the background. obviously, she aint one of these "desperate to marry" ladies that are all around.

she obviously loves this man but knows that she will never have him for herself, so she just enjoys the ride while it lasts.

Yeah maybe she's in love with the wrong person, but being smart, ahahah I refuse to agree with that cos she is clearly living an empty life.

^^care to tell us all how you concluded that she lives an empty life?

men are naturally polygamous and she has accepted her role

@op
if you are her friend like u say I will agree that u damn know what ure talking about.

But lemme ask,
Is he the only one she is dating or she has other guys.
Because if he is the only one then she definetely isn't normal. I don't care what any
Open minded or over educated person thinks.

indeed this particular chic is plain abnormal.

She needs to grow a brain. . . .

snthesis:

men are naturally polygamous and she has accepted her role

And maybe she also has other lovers

She's holding onto something that's not available.
In other words, she's a lost cause.

Am sure that same chick is still very much happy with her life, why are you so interested, anybody can decide a way of living his or her own life, am sure D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥Y might have a strong bond between them eithier intimately or not but surrounded with circumstances, she might not be ready for marriage, let that be her pain, not urs, its normal to her, even if abnormal no you, so shut your mouth and mind your business

Ʊ never can tell what their plans are, hopefully one day you might wake up and hear a surprise,

WebSurfer:

Am sure that same chick is still very much happy with her life, why are you so interested, anybody can decide a way of living his or her own life, am sure D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥Y might have a strong bond between them eithier intimately or not but surrounded with circumstances, she might not be ready for marriage, let that be her pain, not urs, its normal to her, even if abnormal no you, so shut your mouth and mind your business

If u totally believe in minding your own business, why did u leave a comment?, mshew,

There are lots and lots of them like that.

I remember having one like that before i married.
She called me one day to tell me that SINCE I GOT MARRIED SAY SHE NO UNDERSTAND ME AGAIN!!!!

Hmmm d gal just wanna av fun be wild and free. And i dnt think she is ready to settle but she shud look for a young and single guy rather goin for married ones

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