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Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Killz3(m): 2:10pm On Jan 31, 2012
DaShyGuy:

You need to be stripped of your position as a moderator. There's a 'Maurice Iwu' syndrome flowing in your veins.

Whoever said the contractor was poor in the first place? Besides,must one be rich to win a contract? The wife of a colleague of mine in the office, made a bid to paint the building of a govt. owned establishment in Abuja. She won the bid and was awarded the contract for N5m. Just to paint a one-storey building. She wasn't rich. Damn, u a moderator? I totally and finally give up.

You are a fool! Because he is a mod, he should think with his arse just like you are doing? Slap yourself for thinking like a new born baby goat!
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by LaParisienne(f): 2:13pm On Jan 31, 2012
I've read this dumb joke over a million times, it's like a broken record.


@OP
Congrats , your thread is wtf thread of the day!!!
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Killz3(m): 2:13pm On Jan 31, 2012
larikky:

 Of course killz,you ld abandon the contract and be with 'the one you love' all through the C-section and even dance around when it is successful then later realize that you neither have the money to pay for her discharge nor for the medication that should follow,talk less of the food she needs to regain her strength.

   But none of these actually matters cos u are with the one you love right?!grow up.
Hellloooo! If my abandoning the fccking contract means that her and my baby are safe, then by all means fcck the contract! Damn! I've witnessed this particular scenario in real life, and 25million was at stake! There are more beautiful things to life than money, and what money could bring!
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Killz3(m): 2:16pm On Jan 31, 2012
La Parisienne:

I've read this dumb joke over a million times, it's like a broken record.


@OP
Congrats , your thread is wtf thread of the day!!!
I dont know why people have a hard time to differentiate realistic scenarios, from trumped up inconceivable 4WD bullshit! Nollywood wont even come up with such ballistic reasoning! It's absolute absurdity!
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Killz3(m): 2:20pm On Jan 31, 2012
Nj girl:

@skillz what if he cant afford to pay 4 d c-section and d twenty million naira is his only hope. My only problem wt d posters response to jaybees question is the way he answered it like missing his wifes surgery aint a big decision.
He cant make ends meet, if any complication arises from d c-section he would sure need d twenty mill.
D only scenario where he wld be putting 20 ml abov his wifes lyf is if armed robbers attack them and are lyk 'ur wifes lyf or ur money' and he goes 'shoot my wife leave my money'.
Now what was his plan before the C-Section came up? Are you honestly asking me to believe that a grown arsed man, would wheel his wife into an operating theater hoping on dumb luck to provide him money so he can make ends meet? Where tha hell does that happen, except in Nollywood?
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Jan 31, 2012
La Parisienne:

I've read this dumb joke over a million times, it's like a broken record.


@OP
Congrats , your thread is wtf thread of the day!!!

And for reading and posting on a WTF thread of the day, makes you the biggest loser in all of these.

Someone need to tear off your right hand and beat you to death with it.
~Killz~:

I dont know why people have a hard time to differentiate realistic scenarios, from trumped up inconceivable 4WD bullshit! Nollywood wont even come up with such ballistic reasoning! It's absolute absurdity!

Somali guy, did you miss your flight? Can't you see for every post you make, one of your brain cells malfunctions? Soon you'll be a m.oron if you continue in this low rate of comprehension.
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by larikky: 2:32pm On Jan 31, 2012
@killz

  1.Your presence doesn't mean your wife and baby will be safe_you will really be doing nothing in that ward.

  2.Should the grown up man refuse to wheel his wife into the ward just cos he doesn't have money?---He would wheel his wife into the theater and hope on dumb luck to pay the bills except in your opinion he should let her and the baby die OR he would travel and go get the contract.
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Killz3(m): 2:42pm On Jan 31, 2012
larikky:

@killz

  1.Your presence doesn't mean your wife and baby will be safe_you will really be doing nothing in that ward.

  2.Should the grown up man refuse to wheel his wife into the ward just cos he doesn't have money?---He would wheel his wife into the theater and hope on dumb luck to pay the bills except in your opinion he should let her and the baby die OR he would travel and go get the contract.
Whether they'll be safe or not will come later! Being there is more important. So i am there and a call comes in for a 20 million contract, and you expect me to leave? Because?. . .

2. If your wife is going to have a C- Section, a good doctor would have informed you prior to that time, and you'll have made necessary arrangements. Stop thinking that it's the 20 million that will save you! You are a man, you should have a plan B! In real life, You dont wait for an action to begin before you plan towards it! What if that call doesnt come in? Would you have known?

I hate these unfathomable scenarios!
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by LaParisienne(f): 2:43pm On Jan 31, 2012
DaShyGuy:

And for reading and posting on a WTF thread of the day, makes you the biggest loser in all of these.

Someone need to tear off your right hand and beat you to death with it.

FYI, the topic is vague. I didn't know the content, wouldn't have clicked on it.

You are the greatest retard the world has ever known. It's not my fault that you are brain dead.
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Killz3(m): 2:49pm On Jan 31, 2012
DaShyGuy:

And for reading and posting on a WTF thread of the day, makes you the biggest loser in all of these.

Someone need to tear off your right hand and beat you to death with it.
Somali guy, did you miss your flight? Can't you see for every post you make, one of your brain cells malfunctions? Soon you'll be a m.oron if you continue in this low rate of comprehension.
You are a  noncomprehending discombobulated nincompoop! You saw a bloody unfathomable joke, and decided to post it without giving careful thoughts and considerations about it! So in your absolute selfishness and stupidity, you stand your wedding, your bride to be, your parents, your inlaws, your friends, guests that came from far and wide, everyone that has ever meant anything to you in your life, down for 20 million Naira, with the common poor man poverty stricken misconception, that they should understand, because 20 million Naira is involved? You are a what? A FOOL! I'm sure also, that if your house is on fire with your wife and kids inside, and someone calls you for a 100 million Naira contract, you'll leave your wife and children inside the burning building, head to abuja and sign the contract abi? Afterall, your unused brand new shiny brain will tell you that you can always re marry, abi? Dumb phock!
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by tyson55(m): 2:52pm On Jan 31, 2012
Killz, you obviously a victim of severe cretinism,  clueless dunce. You need to upgrade your brain, seriously! Which world are living? 20million is common in the world you live in?

You must be arrogant, vacuous,  gluttonous and generally apathetic to the environment you live in  by virtue of not having to think much since everything is provided/done for you.

No offense!
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Killz3(m): 2:55pm On Jan 31, 2012
^^
Non Taken!
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by larikky: 3:04pm On Jan 31, 2012
killz-If the call doesn't come in of course life goes on,the man is unable to discharge his wife and runs around friends and relatives trying to raise a bit of money.

My Father is a doctor,This happens all the time.
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by freecocoa(f): 3:06pm On Jan 31, 2012
Seriously killz as intelligent as you might be,you need to realize that you can't always be right,I'm not talking about the wedding scenario here now but the c-section,though I didn't read everything you and OP is arguing about but how can you say that the wise thing to do is stay with your wife at the time of operation than go sign a contract worth 20 mill which would probably not take upto an hour?

For crying out loud what will you be doing in the hospital while your wife is in the theatre under anesthesia?she wouldn't even know you are there and you'd forgo that amount of money for what reason exactly?
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Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by tellwisdom: 3:10pm On Jan 31, 2012
**Coughs and spits it on her face sad sad**
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by jaybee3(m): 3:17pm On Jan 31, 2012
freecocoa:

Seriously killz as intelligent as you might be,you need to realize that you can't always be right,I'm not talking about the wedding scenario here now but the c-section,though I didn't read everything you and OP is arguing about but how can you say that the wise thing to do is stay with your wife at the time of operation than go sign a contract worth 20 mill which would probably not take upto an hour?

For crying out loud what will you be doing in the hospital while your wife is in the theatre under anesthesia?she wouldn't even know you are there and you'd forgo that amount of money for what reason exactly?
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Would you rather receive a call if it didn't go as planned when you are 100's of miles away?
How would one even have a clear conscience/mind to be signing on the dotted lines?

na real wa oh
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Jan 31, 2012
La Parisienne:

FYI, the topic is vague. I didn't know the content, wouldn't have clicked on it.

You are the greatest slowpoke the world has ever known. It's not my fault that you are brain dead.

~Killz~:

You are a  noncomprehending discombobulated nincompoop! You saw a bloody unfathomable joke, and decided to post it without giving careful thoughts and considerations about it! So in your absolute selfishness and stupidity, you stand your wedding, your bride to be, your parents, your inlaws, your friends, guests that came from far and wide, everyone that has ever meant anything to you in your life, down for 20 million Naira, with the common poor man poverty stricken  misconception, that they should understand, because 20 million Naira is involved? You are a what? A FOOL! I'm sure also, that if your house is on fire with your wife and kids inside, and someone calls you for a 100 million Naira contract, you'll leave your wife and children inside the burning building, head to abuja and sign the contract abi? Afterall, your unused brand new shiny brain will tell you that you can always re marry, abi? Dumb phock!

Must you always recycle your layman's English? Why do i keep having this urge to give your Neonatal hypothyroidism infected face, suffering from acute albinism trait,  a dirty back hand slap?

Over time, your posts keep reechoing one thing,which is; You are so so dumb and thrives on false pretense.  People like you keep portraying the present generation of Nigerian men as an intellectually backward people, whose reawakening bogus puritanism is as grotesque and as ludicrously absurd as its pretentious eremitic insensitivity.

You are not only pathetic, you are way, way out of tune with modern realities, and for that, you need to be deported to your ancestral root, Mogadishu.

BTW, take that pix of yourself off, your complexion, sorry, your colour look so much like 'Banga Soup'. Heediot!
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Killz3(m): 3:26pm On Jan 31, 2012
  killz-If the call doesn't come in of course life goes on,the man is unable to discharge his wife and runs around friends and relatives trying to raise a bit of money.

   My Father is a doctor,This happens all the time.
Good, now we are getting somewhere! You rightly said that if the 20million Naira call doesnt come, life goes on! So, we can both agree that with or without an extra 20 million, life goes on. Therefore, if i decide to fcck the contract, life goes on!

How many men has died as a result of running around trying to raise a bit of money? In the end, dont they discharge their wives? In the end, everything turns out well, no?
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Killz3(m): 3:34pm On Jan 31, 2012
Must you always recycle your layman's English? Why do i keep having this urge to give your Neonatal hypothyroidism infected face, suffering from acute albinism trait, a dirty back hand slap?

Over time, your posts keep reechoing one thing,which is; You are so so dumb and thrives on false pretense. People like you keep portraying the present generation of Nigerian men as an intellectually backward people, whose reawakening bogus puritanism is as grotesque and as ludicrously absurd as its pretentious eremitic insensitivity.

You are not only pathetic, you are way, way out of tune with modern realities, and for that, you need to be deported to your ancestral root, Mogadishu.

BTW, take that pix of yourself off, your complexion, sorry, your colour look so much like 'Banga Soup'. Heediot!
Typical reply of an Idi[i]o[/i]t!

You have seen that your threads topic and post doesnt make sense, you cant defend the rubbish you posted, then your defense is to face Killz, like all idi[i]o[/i]ts on this forum do!
Killz is an albino, killz pix, killz complexion, killz colour! You are a what? A FOOL! What has my color and picture have to do with what we are discussing? Erectile dysfunctional dimwitted motherfuccker! Have you run out of points? You now want to discuss Killz color and his picture, and no longer 20 million Naira, and how you can shoot your mother for 20 million Naira? Besides, what are you doing stalking my profile, and my profile pic? Can you see why you are a fool?
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by freecocoa(f): 3:36pm On Jan 31, 2012
jay bee:

Would you rather receive a call if it didn't go as planned when you are 100's of miles away?
How would one even have a clear conscience/mind to be signing on the dotted lines?

na real wa oh
Why would you have in mind that it wouldn't go as planned?true anything can happen but having a positive mindset towards it is the best to do for yourself.

A call and being there when it happened if anything goes wrong,please tell me the difference,are you the lead surgeon or one of the surgeons on the case that your absence would mean something is bound to go wrong? I really haven't seen how your presence there makes any difference,if there's something that's needed other than your signature which you must have signed hours before she is to be taken into the theatre can be arranged for, so tell me what you'll be doing at the hospital that would make you forgo the contract.

I know many people aren't that emotionally strong to be away at a time like the scenario being discussed here and that is understandable, but trying to say a man who left his wife at the hospital loves money more than his wife compared to the one who stays is not true.
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by tellwisdom: 3:37pm On Jan 31, 2012
Must you always recycle your layman's English? Why do i keep having this urge to give your Neonatal hypothyroidism infected face, suffering from acute albinism trait,  a dirty back hand slap?

Over time, your posts keep reechoing one thing,which is; You are so so dumb and thrives on false pretense.  People like you keep portraying the present generation of Nigerian men as an intellectually backward people, whose reawakening bogus puritanism is as grotesque and as ludicrously absurd as its pretentious eremitic insensitivity.

You are not only pathetic, you are way, way out of tune with modern realities, and for that, you need to be deported to your ancestral root, Mogadishu.

BTW, take that pix of yourself off, your complexion, sorry, your colour look so much like [size=15pt]'Banga Soup'[/size]. Heediot!


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Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Killz3(m): 3:39pm On Jan 31, 2012
freecocoa:

Seriously killz as intelligent as you might be,you need to realize that you can't always be right,I'm not talking about the wedding scenario here now but the c-section,though I didn't read everything you and OP is arguing about but how can you say that the wise thing to do is stay with your wife at the time of operation than go sign a contract worth 20 mill which would probably not take upto an hour?

For crying out loud what will you be doing in the hospital while your wife is in the theatre under anesthesia?she wouldn't even know you are there and you'd forgo that amount of money for what reason exactly?
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Where did i claim i'm always right? I dont know how you guys bring up trumped up claims about me, especially if i dont agree with the topic! If your husband will leave you and go sign a contract, fine and good for both of you! I wont do that, and that's me! Money doesnt mean everything to me. Will you also blame me for money meaning everything to you and your husband?. . . I guess not!
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by tellwisdom: 3:43pm On Jan 31, 2012
More like Knock out ~~~~BANGA~~                   Gbosaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa grin That thing that makes a loud sound during xmas embarassed embarassed

Brb let me drink COoke ; :- smiley
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by dabrake(m): 4:12pm On Jan 31, 2012
DaShyGuy:


Must you always recycle your layman's English? Why do i keep having this urge to give your Neonatal hypothyroidism infected face, suffering from acute albinism trait,  a dirty back hand slap?

Over time, your posts keep reechoing one thing,which is; You are so so dumb and thrives on false pretense.  People like you keep portraying the present generation of Nigerian men as an intellectually backward people, whose reawakening bogus puritanism is as grotesque and as ludicrously absurd as its pretentious eremitic insensitivity.

You are not only pathetic, you are way, way out of tune with modern realities, and for that, you need to be deported to your ancestral root, Mogadishu.

BTW, take that pix of yourself off, your complexion, sorry, your colour look so much like 'Banga Soup'. Heediot!


cuts of pe[b]n[/b]is! Bookmarked! Must use this on someone.
tyson55:

Killz, you obviously a victim of severe cretinism,  clueless dunce. You need to upgrade your brain, seriously! Which world are living? Zimbabwean $20million is common in the world you live in?

You must be arrogant, vacuous,  gluttonous and generally apathetic to the environment you live in  by virtue of not having to think much since everything is provided/done for you.

No offense!

fixed!
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by freecocoa(f): 4:26pm On Jan 31, 2012
~Killz~:

Where did i claim i'm always right? I dont know how you guys bring up trumped up claims about me, especially if i dont agree with the topic! If your husband will leave you and go sign a contract, fine and good for both of you! I wont do that, and that's me! Money doesnt mean everything to me. Will you also blame me for money meaning everything to you and your husband?. . . I guess not!
Dude don't go all personal on me abeg,why are you trying to make this about you and what people claim you to be?I'm just trying to tell you that you at times it pays to be realistic and argue objectively,the way you go about it makes it sound like your point is the only reasonable one that's where I have a problem,if you decide to stay by your wife's sick bed and never work in your life,that would be your problem and not mine.

All I'm saying is understand other people's position especially when they are being realistic,abeg in the real world and a scenario like the one here,many men would go sign that contract and come back to their wives,it doesn't make then less of a real man and yes if I'm ill and my husband gets a call,as long as he is not the doctor treating me and has made all necessary arrangement to ensure that all goes well,all he has to do is tell me he loves me,I'll be well for him and he'll be right back,then he's free to go sign that contract and bring back the dough to mama,it doesn't mean money is more important than me or money means everything to me,knowing he loves me and is working hard to keep me comfortable by going to sign that deal is okay,his absence for a couple of minutes or hours at the hospital changes nada.
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by tellwisdom: 4:33pm On Jan 31, 2012
Killz, you obviously a victim of severe cretinism, clueless dunce. You need to upgrade your brain, seriously! Which world are living? Zimbabwean $20million is common in the world you live in?

You must be arrogant, vacuous, gluttonous and generally apathetic to the environment you live in by virtue of not having to think much since everything is provided/done for you.

No offense!

fixed!

grin grin grin grin grin grin Unu ge gbu madu lehhhhhh cheesy cheesy grin
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Killz3(m): 4:42pm On Jan 31, 2012
Dude don't go all personal on me abeg,why are you trying to make this about you and what people claim you to be?I'm just trying to tell you that you at times it pays to be realistic and argue objectively,the way you go about it makes it sound like your point is the only reasonable one that's where I have a problem,if you decide to stay by your wife's sick bed and never work in your life,that would be your problem and not mine.

All I'm saying is understand other people's position especially when they are being realistic,abeg in the real world and a scenario like the one here,many men would go sign that contract and come back to their wives,it doesn't make then less of a real man and yes if I'm ill and my husband gets a call,as long as he is not the doctor treating me and has made all necessary arrangement to ensure that all goes well,all he has to do is tell me he loves me,I'll be well for him and he'll be right back,then he's free to go sign that contract and bring back the dough to mama,it doesn't mean money is more important than me or money means everything to me,knowing he loves me and is working hard to keep me comfortable by going to sign that deal is okay,his absence for a couple of minutes or hours at the hospital changes nada.
^^^
Good for you then! I still have my values. . . Keep yours!
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by cantell(m): 5:00pm On Jan 31, 2012
jay bee:

So many if's and buts and in real life a poor man in naij wouldn't necessarily get a 20M contract offer so the scenario is somewhat whack as sexkills has been hammering all along.

If there was a pulitzer for posting crap, you'd always be there to collect.
I thought your albino friend was dumb as usual so i overlooked his rants, but yours was dumbo squared.
You sound like you run the course of events. Smh.
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by tellwisdom: 5:15pm On Jan 31, 2012
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Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by Killz3(m): 5:27pm On Jan 31, 2012
The fools are gathering as expected! . . . **Subscribing to their idiocy as usual** Let's see if they come up with something new from their dead brains. . . Fcck faces! cheesy cheesy
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by tellwisdom: 5:31pm On Jan 31, 2012
freetoto, come and help your GaYyy-Albino husband before these  men go kill am for here  grin grin. Free toto cheesy cheesy free to to  cheesy cheesy Please come to his Aid oo cheesy cheesy cheesy  lipsrsealed lipsrsealed  embarassed embarassed
Re: How Do U Handle An Issue As Complex As This? by freecocoa(f): 5:40pm On Jan 31, 2012
^^come don't let me remember you,I'm warning you.

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