The issue I have now is that I was in a relationship that ended two years ago. I still love my ex-boyfriend, even though I am in a new relationship with a new man.

I really love my ex-boyfriend more than my new boyfriend, so now I am faced with the issue of choosing one out of the two of them!

My ex-boyfriend is trying to forget about me because he doesn't want me to leave my new boyfriend - and he is afraid of hurting me once again, but I love him and i don't want to loose him. The reason why he left me before was that i was not mature, and when he wanted to come back he heard i am in a new relationship.

What should I do? I have been over this for a month in my head. Please help me

Follow your heart and do what will make you happy.

how old re you

Get Lost.

@ jahjohn349 i am 22yrs, am i too young?
@diluminati do you mean i should get lost.

diluminati:

Get Lost.

You re in a better position to get lost! we dnt want riff-raffs in this section.
OP, i will advise u to stick with ur current guy.

what to do remains your choice and yours only.
Just make sure you think it through and through before making the choice.
Goodluck!

diluminati:

Get Lost.

^^ o girl take it easy nau, na question she ask.

@op
Follow ur heart, u knw wot u want.
So do wot ever makes u happy.

Gat a life

I will not advice you ooo, what guarantee do you have that your ex will not leave u again, may be this time b/c u'r too matured. whats the diff, b/w 20 and 22?

Girls only care about who they love and care less about who loves them. I'll say u sud giv ur current bf a chance. Who says ur ex is nt going to hurt u again?

Ogidi-Olu:

Girls only care about who they love and care less about who loves them. I'll say u sud giv ur current bf a chance. Who says ur ex is nt going to hurt u again?

buh true.

He left because you was immature
He will probably leave again because you are now too experienced

Never look back especially if either party once decided the other one wasn't good enough.
You were not worth fighting for at the time so I don't see how that has changed

jay bee:

He left because you was immature
He will probably leave again because you are now too experienced

Never look back especially if either party once decided the other one wasn't good enough.
You were not worth fighting for at the time so I don't see how that has changed

interesting advice

poster first thing to do is to break up with the guy you are currently with because your heart is not with him then take some time to really look at your relationship history and see the mistakes made learn from them and then consider this ex who now thinks you are matured. If you do get back with the ex make sure you take it slow because people change and you just might realize that being back with the ex is a mistake.

Thank you all for your great advice, and to all that ask me to get lost, thanks to you too and love you all. You are great.

Op, your username get injury! Saliva nearly finish for my mouth before i pronounce am.
@topic, omega has given u my advise.

Are u sure that u know the real meaning of love.I don't think so.love is a two way thing.love is reciprocal. Do u think ur ex loves u? If he does why did
He leave u.don't u know that love encompasses a lot of things-understanding is one of them. U ex never understood and left u becos he felt u were immature. It so glaring that
U love him but the question is-does he loves u? Answer pls

@OP

Do what ever that makes you happy! . . If you still love your Ex and if he still want to get back with you, go for it gal. . you wont be guilty of nothing!!

look hun exes are exes why go back to him , its like you eating your own vomit and why hurt this why that is showing you how much he loves you , take this from me stay with the one you with now and be friends with the old one if you are not able to stay friend than lost all contacts with the old one.

good luck

re yu matured now?
from the tone of yur write-ups, i dont think and there is every tendency yur old guy will still leave again,
yur are just too in love (maybe he was yur 1st guy) . my dear, clear yur head, open your mind and try reorganise yur life, watch yur past ,try and grow better so no one will insult yu to yur face and tell u how immature yu re.

very silly post. 

dumb ladies and ex'es.

they'll alwayz find a way like dogs to their vomits.

even after getting married, some nitwits ones like you still fantasise about their ex' , dey'll screw them again if by chance they stumble into them.

little wonder some boys insist on brand-new ones.

go get a lyf joor.

you really suck.

Since u are now matured i will advice u to follow ur heart choose the best guy