some rules in the Nigerian culture is stupid ,

1. The youngest should not get married before the oldest.

The thing i want to talk about is Nigerian mother in-law and I know not all of them are bad, why are they so heartless, why do they chose their children lovers and if their children don't agree to their rules and get marred to someone else they treat them bad.

ok whats up with having a son. Is it force for a family to have a boy child??

Are u already married or still @ the dating phase ?

You have problems with "Nigerian rules" ? Don't date a Nigerian. . .its that simple.

btw,which is your headache?
Your MIL,Nigerian silly laws,forcing son to marry a hand-picked bride,pressure for a boy child ?

You wanna learn/know?ask politely and with an open mind.

typical Nigerian, your the one that should have a open mind here. Wait are you in one of them relationship that's why you are talking Poo for FYI I'm a Nigerian ok i know the rules I'm just asking a simple question. no fex oo because your little sister got married before you, your own will come soon in Jesus Name.

LilMizzGood:

typical Nigerian, your the one that should have a open mind here. Wait are you in one of them relationship that's why you are talking Poo for FYI I'm a Nigerian ok i know the rules I'm just asking a simple question. no fex oo because your little sister got married before you, your own will come soon in Jesus Name.

I no fex oh.
Don't get all worked up hun,just a few more moons for to tote the weary load.

Enjoy ya weekend.

ifyalways:

Are u already married or still @ the dating phase ?

You have problems with "Nigerian rules" ? Don't date a Nigerian. . .its that simple.

btw,which is your headache?
Your MIL,Nigerian silly laws,forcing son to marry a hand-picked bride,pressure for a boy child ?

You wanna learn/know?ask politely and with an open mind.

awww ur sister might have gotten married before u huh
no vex ooooo ur own will come really soon.

i never knew they do that in naji
but i think many culture in Africa does it tho.

@MODERATOR, Please correct the heading it should be "Mothers in-law"

Remii:

@MODERATOR, Please correct the heading it should be "Mothers in-law"

wat the hell

I Personally get along with my Mother Inlaw..I am not Nigerian by birth..Im a kiwi/polynesian woman.My Husband and his family have accepted me with love and grace.I am truly Humbled.

LilMizzGood: typical Nigerian, your the one that should have a open mind here. Wait are you in one of them relationship that's why you are talking Poo for FYI I'm a Nigerian ok i know the rules I'm just asking a simple question. no fex oo because your little sister got married before you, your own will come soon in Jesus Name.

Ifyalways is an educated person. I think she deserves respect.

What you quote are traditions.
There may be better than the African traditions, for example, in USA a twelve-year-old can start a promiscuous sexual life without that surprised. Also in USA at a young age can consume any kind of drug ...
Each country has its traditions ... customs.
Some may seem silly, but if you analyze why? we may have an answer. Personally, I prefer these African traditions to the U.S..
They are ways of seeing life.

LilMizzGood: some rules in the Nigerian culture is stupid ,

1. The youngest should not get married before the oldest.

The thing i want to talk about is Nigerian mother in-law and I know not all of them are bad, why are they so heartless, why do they chose their children lovers and if their children don't agree to their rules and get marred to someone else they treat them bad.

ok whats up with having a son. Is it force for a family to have a boy child??

I never understood that rule of the youngest waiting for the oldest before they got married, nonsense

when it comes to having a boy child, well in Nigerian culture it is a big deal because of the family/surname fiasco