Fellow Nlders, as we approach the allmighty valentine Day something that happened to my friend in the past came to mind. This was in my undergraduate days their was this friend of mine then by name Thony he was so much in love with this babe Ejiro. When i say love it was what i can not really fathom the dept of love they both shared. At any given time Thony arrives at Ejiros room to visit you will see Ejiro will just melt she will be shedding uncontrollable tears ,you can not but notice her behaviour. honestly i was jealous of their relationship then . After our graduation and youth service every one moved on . I was to run into Thony some years later and guess what the first thing i asked him was how is Ejiro she must have been your wife by now. I was so surprised when Thony answered me that Ejiro did not marry him but some one else . He refused to go into details for obvious reasons. The question now is 'What Happened' did the love glow that was so strong then suddenly fizzle out. I want to hear from our female Nlders what could have caused it.