Those attacking and abusing this man should take a chill pill abeg. He has a problem and asked for help, his wife is not the sexy, fun loving woman he used to know, a lot of men saying that they want a spirit filled woman will keep the sprirt filled unsexy one at home and go and search for a sexy one outside.
The issue here is finding a balance. I know that most pentecoastal churches take this tongue speaking way out of context, 1st corithians 14 vs 27 says it should be done in order one at a time, one speaking and one interpreting and if der is no one to interprete then pray silently in your heart as God is not a God of confusion. This is different from the blabing and screaming we see in the name of tongues speaking these days. If one day my husband becomes so spiritual that our great intimate life becomes cold and routine I will have a big problem with it. Let things be done in order before anyone attacks my point please read 1st Corithians 14 from 26 to 40 then we can talk on that. Vs 40 but all things should be done decently and in order.

ayodele123:

The couple should seek marital counselling advice in church.
Marital Counselling is the solution to their problem.
The advice they need cannot be found on nairaland.
Coming to nairaland to seek counsel was a wrong step.

ayodele123:

The couple should seek marital counselling advice in church.
Marital Counselling is the solution to their problem.
The advice they need cannot be found on nairaland.
Coming to nairaland to seek counsel was a wrong step.

debrief08:

Those attacking and abusing this man should take a chill pill abeg. He has a problem and asked for help, his wife is not the sexy, fun loving woman he used to know, a lot of men saying that they want a spirit filled woman will keep the sprirt filled unsexy one at home and go and search for a sexy one outside.
The issue here is finding a balance. I know that most pentecoastal churches take this tongue speaking way out of context, 1st corithians 14 vs 27 says it should be done in order one at a time, one speaking and one interpreting and if der is no one to interprete then pray silently in your heart as God is not a God of confusion. This is different from the blabing and screaming we see in the name of tongues speaking these days. If one day my husband becomes so spiritual that our great intimate life becomes cold and routine I will have a big problem with it. Let things be done in order before anyone attacks my point please read 1st Corithians 14 from 26 to 40 then we can talk on that. Vs 40 but all things should be done decently and in order.

Konnektions146:

am also asking this questions , i ve seen someone who supposedly speak and pray in tongues but commit an act that i cant even imagine,yet , wen the person prays , it looks like she is in heaven already.

as a roman Catholic, i doent really do all dese violent kinda praying but i know how much i appreciate God.
i am always very careful with issue concerning GOD but in dis case people are just trying to make OP look like he doesnt know wat he wants or does, I am sure GOD would never want a broken home though it happens,

let us try and balance our lives so as not get in mess. for me, i dont need anyone to brainwash me or make me feel guilty of something i never even tot of as some people are making OP believe here(kinda blasphemy)

Siena:

Sure! Any idea what the winning lottery numbers would be this weekend?

andromida:

@op God is not an author of confusion.

anuforoudo:

My brother, thanks for your concern. The truth is this. If your wife has accepted Christ and is having such level of relationship/ spirituality to the extent of speaking in tongues. Please be tolerant and patients very soon she will learn to put it under control.

queensmith:

mumbo jumbo?

im pretty sure it doesnt work like that sienna! somebody doesnt just 'come home' and 'start chanting'

queensmith:

assuming this 'mumbo jumbo' is in english? i see. .

Siena:

I'd be pissed too, if I woke up one morning, and my wife began chanting mumbo-jumbo out of the blue. WTF?