I once heard you can change your name, school, friends, gender, everything but your family. Disown or Denial is only self delusion. This is just to encourage each other by sharing what made/makes us cry as pertaining to our family.

Getting the ball Rolling: Never knew people don't last forever. Never really had a chance to say a proper goodbye before i lost my dad. Till date, i've never cried with so much pain when he passed away years ago over anything/ anyone. Now i value the rest of my folks and friends too learning from such lesson. I would rather choose a misunderstanding over death of a family/ friend and work towards making peace.