"I honestly believe some women have forgotten how to even see a good Black Man when one is in her presence"

[b]Good Black Men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets,
in the malls, and at work. Most we can't see because we don't know what
a good man really looks like. He usually isn't flashy enough or rich
enough to turn our heads.
   He might not wear a suit or push a Lexus. He might not have a body
like Tyson with a Denzel face. But, as you mature, you realize it's
better to find someone who's got your back rather than someone who turns
your head.
   A good man doesn't agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. He
doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He
doesn't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, etc. he is (he
won't have to because it shows). He has his own opinions and yours may
clash, but he doesn't have to degrade you to prove he's right. He even
admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the
same.
   A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is
human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful,
strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that
you don't live to catch him doing something wrong so you can declare,
"Aha! I knew you were a dog!"
   A good man isn't insecure about his woman having great achievements.
In fact, he is her number one supporter and becomes disappointed with
her when she begins to lose herself, especially for the sake of not
hurting his feelings, or only wanting to make him happy. His happiness
comes with seeing her excel in her dreams and accomplishing her goals.
For as she excels and is exalted, a good woman will bring her good man
right along with her.
   A good man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or
Valentine's gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to
him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy
tale. You'll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth
that our men are no good.
It's just not true.
   A good black man is a man of his word. He says what he means and
means what he says. His word is his bond. He never leaves you wondering
if he is going to call or show up - he is dependable. A good black man
has a love and a heart for God. As his relationship and love with and
for God grows so will his relationship and love with and for you grow,
Our beautiful black men we salute you, appreciate you and thank you for
who you are and all you've done. [/b]

Aww. I love that pic. . .so sweet!




Nice La Vivi. . .those are the qualities of 'A good black man' indeed!

Brilliant, No-one is perfect but works towards perfection.

la_vivi:

"I honestly believe some women have forgotten how to even see a good Black Man when one is in her presence"

[b]Good Black Men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets,
in the malls, and at work. Most we can't see because we don't know what
a good man really looks like. He usually isn't flashy enough or rich
enough to turn our heads.
He might not wear a suit or push a Lexus. He might not have a body
like Tyson with a Denzel face. But, as you mature, you realize it's
better to find someone who's got your back rather than someone who turns
your head.
A good man doesn't agree wholeheartedly with everything you say. He
doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He
doesn't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, etc. he is (he
won't have to because it shows). He has his own opinions and yours may
clash, but he doesn't have to degrade you to prove he's right. He even
admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the
same.
A good man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He is
human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful,
strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel that
you don't live to catch him doing something wrong so you can declare,
"Aha! I knew you were a dog!"
A good man isn't insecure about his woman having great achievements.
In fact, he is her number one supporter and becomes disappointed with
her when she begins to lose herself, especially for the sake of not
hurting his feelings, or only wanting to make him happy. His happiness
comes with seeing her excel in her dreams and accomplishing her goals.
For as she excels and is exalted, a good woman will bring her good man
right along with her.
A good man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or
Valentine's gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to
him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy
tale. You'll miss out on your own fairy tale by buying into the myth
that our men are no good.
It's just not true.
A good black man is a man of his word. He says what he means and
means what he says. His word is his bond. He never leaves you wondering
if he is going to call or show up - he is dependable. A good black man
has a love and a heart for God. As his relationship and love with and
for God grows so will his relationship and love with and for you grow,
Our beautiful black men we salute you, appreciate you and thank you for
who you are and all you've done. [/b]

BABY - are u sure u are 21? . u sound soooooooooooo mature. - nice talk , very nice talk. and a preety face too

please tell me about your own black man,

for me. i still adore our men

This is wonderful! is this your write up? Friend, I love it because, it is the truth.Thanks because you've opened my eyes to the truth

sasuos:

please tell me about your own black man,

The thread is de idea about my own black man

thats a nice one la_ vivi

nice men there

nubian:

BABY - are u sure u are 21? . u sound soooooooooooo mature. - nice talk , very nice talk. and a preety face too

this is copied from the www

it's spread all over the net I know this for a long time,but nice anyway

GermanyLady . its a good piece doh