For better . . . For worse.
You see an indecisive woman, I see a committed woman.

Go to SCOAN for deliverance as both of you need deliverance. This is not ordinary as maybe he could be having spiritual wife or you spiritual husband that is tormenting your home.

andyanders:

Go to SCOAN for deliverance as both of you need deliverance. This is not ordinary as maybe he could be having spiritual wife or you spiritual husband that is tormenting your home.

Somebody please slap me

So God pointed you in the direction of this man but failed to forewarn you of his condition.Na wa o,see how religion poisons everything

You can get the marriage annulled meaning it will never register that you were married so you won't be a divorcee if that is what you are scared about. Na u use him thing do juju? Why are u so insistent on staying with him?

@ OP God is fighting on your behalf. Don't draw yourself backward! Just move on, and HE will lead you to the promise land.

In my quest for psychological knowledge I've found out that the deepest craving in the human nature are "the feelings of importance and the sex urge" You have obviously not been getting any of this, and if you're not you are close to death. Life is nothing for any human without this. Everything everyone ever did spring from two motives: the sex urge and the feeling of importance. He's not making you feel important and not AKPAKING you. Get the heck outa that man's life. And never be scared of getting another man. Napolleon Hill said "anything a man can think and conceive, that he can achieve" you will get a better hubby if you think you can, Lets come to christianity, my Pastor Chris Oyakhilome said "Fear considers, faith jumps" Your fears are making you consider, but your faith is week. Activate your faith now and jump at the opportunity before you, Am out of here.

Nne,u say because of ur f, ken spiritual life and belief u no bleep ur DH?ur name is SORRY .This is why bleeping is VERY VERY important b4 tying d knot LOL.

Nne,u say because of ur f, ken spiritual life and belief u no bleep ur DH?ur name is SORRY .This is why bleeping is VERY VERY important b4 tying d knot LOL.

@Ugom30

Please Divorce ! I dont mince word. Its the natural thing to do!

andyanders:

Go to SCOAN for deliverance as both of you need deliverance. This is not ordinary as maybe he could be having spiritual wife or you spiritual husband that is tormenting your home.

You are a cretin!

You need to destroy your brain in a publicly safe way.

Go and beg a truck driver on Ikorodu road to drive his truck slowly over your head laid on con-tar to scatter and destroy your brain, but make sure you have begged Lagos state government beforehand to send public health officials to be present and immediately decontaminate the brain waste with chemicals so we don't get another person infected.

I can't believe this cretin has a right to vote. Democracy my arse!

Sagamite:

You are a cretin!

You need to destroy your brain in a publicly safe way.

Go and beg a truck driver on Ikorodu road to drive his truck slowly over your head laid on con-tar to scatter and destroy your brain, but make sure you have begged Lagos state government beforehand to send public health officials to present and immediately decontaminate the brain waste with chemicals so we don't get another person infected.

I can't believe this cretin has a right to vote. Democracy my arse!

Abeg make dem no sack me from work this morning

I got the shock of my life as I was reading through some of  the contributions made by some people that called themselves Christians.
If this couple were truly wedded in a 'living church' divorce is not allowed unless on the ground of adultery or death.
What God has joined together let no man put asunder.

@ OP
This is your cross, carry it and lay it down at the feet of the Lord Jesus.
He said " call upon me in the day of trouble and I will answer thee,greater and mighty things which thou knoweth not I will show thee".
He will neither leave thee nor forsake thee. Remember also MATT. 7:7. May the good Lord help you IJN.

I rest my case.

freecocoa:

SEE WHY I SUPPORT SERIOUS KNACKING BEFORE MARRIAGE?

OP move on already,honestly wonder why you ain't celebrating,duh!.

Even without knacking there is a way to feel if the thing stands attention. Haba, if a man is attracted to you sometimes at your mere sight the thing will do 21 gun salute, talkless of when you hug or kiss. Didnt have sex with my hubby before we married but i always got a 21 gun salute when he sees me, poor man and cold showers became best friends.

@poster

You are very stooopid.

freecocoa:

SEE WHY I SUPPORT SERIOUS KNACKING BEFORE MARRIAGE?

OP move on already,honestly wonder why you ain't celebrating,duh!.

Lets knack

Ugo, ignore all the sanctimonuous holier than thou messages from those posters with their perfect unblemish life, asking you what you want. There is nothing wrong in you coming out to seek respite for your soul, most especially when you have only been married a year only to see your marriage disintegrate before you and you are struggling to place just one finger on what could have possibly gone wrong. And it is perfectly rational to think out loudly maybe you were somewhat to blame, so feel free to keep unburdening your mind.

Don't worry Sistergirl, the fault does not lie with you and you have bent over backwards to try your best to no avail. My take on this is that since the dude and his family appear to be nonchalant over the whole issue, ITS EITHER YOUR HUSBAND IS GAY OR  your MIL has used his pendulum for money rituals, hence their blaise blaise attitude. Remember this is Nigeria we are talking about here, I also went on that thing called facebook this weekend my oh my, it seems a sizable portion of the Nigerian men there are gay, even those with married status and children too, I swear. So if your Hubby falls into this category, oh well. . .nothing wrong with being gay in my own book, each to their own tent. . .

Wish you all the best.

freecocoa:

SEE WHY I SUPPORT SERIOUS KNACKING BEFORE MARRIAGE?

OP move on already,honestly wonder why you ain't celebrating,duh!.

I disagree, never suPported knacking before marriage. How many times do you wanno get knacked? After knacking for 3 yrs the man abandons you then you find another person and knack before you know it, the relationship is over.

Abstinence has always been the best practice if you can do it, if not? Who cares

jennykadry:

I disagree, never suPported knacking before marriage. How many times do you wanno get knacked? After knacking for 3 yrs he man abandons you then you find another person and knack before you know it, the relationship is over.

Abstinence have always been the best practice if you can do it, if not? Who cares

Even if you abstain, and you two get married, after knacking you for three years if he wants to abandon you he can still do it . I readlly dont get your point. Knacking before marriage is always good jor.


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Esinmi isokuso, Esinmi jagbajantis.
Long live Asakasa Baba.

Then I know the person I knacked is my husband. I hate it when Christians are selective readers, sex before marriage has never been right. If your husband abandons you, you havent done anything wrong . You kept your part of the agreement.

Abstinence has always been the key. The more abstinence there is, the less crying after been dumped

jennykadry:

I disagree, never suPported knacking before marriage. How many times do you wanno get knacked? After knacking for 3 yrs the man abandons you then you find another person and knack before you know it, the relationship is over.

Abstinence has always been the best practice if you can do it, if not? Who cares

My dear everyone have what he\she believes so i get your point but it doesn't change that even a man who married a virgin can still leave her after marriage and a man who married a wh ore can stick with her till death so its a 50\50 thing.

igbaodun:

Lets knack

Did you read anywhere in my post that i need a knacking partner?abeg o the anaconda i have is enough for me.

debrief08:

Even without knacking there is a way to feel if the thing stands attention. Haba, if a man is attracted to you sometimes at your mere sight the thing will do 21 gun salute, talkless of when you hug or kiss. Didnt Be Intimate with my hubby before we married but i always got a 21 gun salute when he sees me, poor man and cold showers became best friends.

Yeah i totally feel you but I'm sure you know some over zealous xtians believe a peck on can lead you to the hottest part of HELL,anyhow omo me go be intimate before signing any form o.

I thank God for you poster
What you need to do is thank God for redemption and ever forward, never backward.
You have been saved from years of agony

freecocoa:


Did you read anywhere in my post that i need a knacking partner?abeg o the anaconda i have is enough for me.

I was just offering my anaconda in case you need one to enter you from behind .   .   .  my offer remains if you ever need it.

mutter:

I thank God for you poster
What you need to do is thank God for redemption and ever forward, never backward.
You have been saved from years of agony

Please leave God out of the man-made problems the poster got herself into. A little common sense would have saved her all the agony she caused herself. Fools! Fools!! Foools

Hello jennykadri, it has been ages. Hope you are good,
Let us hypocritize a little bit over this topic,
Should there be a way for a lady to check if a man's JT is alright before jumping into marriage or should she just hope that it works, Just a question. You know maybe, the ladies who doesnt want to pre knack should tell their guys to pull down their pants while they gage the diiick for proper working condition.
I believe abstinence is word that works for some people and doesnt work for some people. Its just a matter of belief and faith. We cant all agree that it is the best because it clearly did not work for the OP. Then i saw some posts where people told her to carry the problem to Jesus, how does he solve this one ?

Hello jennykadri, it has been ages. Hope you are good,
Let us hypocritize a little bit over this topic,
Should there be a way for a lady to check if a man's JT is alright before jumping into marriage or should she just hope that it works, Just a question. You know maybe, the ladies who doesnt want to pre knack should tell their guys to pull down their pants while they gage the diiick for proper working condition.
I believe abstinence is word that works for some people and doesnt work for some people. Its just a matter of belief and faith. We cant all agree that it is the best because it clearly did not work for the OP. Then i saw some posts where people told her to carry the problem to Jesus, how does he solve this one ?

igbaodun:

I was just offering my anaconda in case you need one to enter you from behind .   .   .  my offer remains if you ever need it.

No thanks man,i won't need it.

Try what feminine A and zilja said. If it works out and ur husband recommits to d marriage, well and good. If he still insists on leaving, then read 1Cor.7:12-15 carefully. Note particularly verse 15- if an unbelieving married partner 'departs' ,that is, leaves d marriage and does not come, d other partner is not under bondage, that is, d law binding d later to d former no longer applies. My own undertanding of it. If all u said is true, then I ask what are still doing with that baby of man? Cant u see that perhaps God is delivering u. Dont take my word, let d Bible and d Holy Spirit guide u

freecocoa:

No thanks man,i won't need it.

Dont knock what you have not tried.

Freecocoa Why are all the men in the house dey hunger and thirst for your PUNANNY u are at the danger of being gang banged. In order to escape this , Just come home to PAPA (OKONTAMI)

Sam Milla:

Hello jennykadri, it has been ages. Hope you are good,
Let us hypocritize a little bit over this topic,
Should there be a way for a lady to check if a man's JT is alright before jumping into marriage or should she just hope that it works, Just a question. You know maybe, the ladies who doesnt want to pre knack should tell their guys to pull down their pants while they gage the diiick for proper working condition.
I believe abstinence is word that works for some people and doesnt work for some people. Its just a matter of belief and faith. We cant all agree that it is the best because it clearly did not work for the OP. Then i saw some posts where people told her to carry the problem to Jesus, how does he solve this one ?

1. Matthew 19:26
But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible.

2. Mark 10:27
And Jesus looking upon them saith, With men it is impossible, but not with God: for with God all things are possible.