martinsflo:

she is of islamic background and am a believer in white garment church but my father is an islamic practisioner which also aided the acceptance and support from my parents,

nov 2011 marks 7months of MouthAction without penetration in our relationship but with heavy committment & i finally made love to her just one's as she declined other attempt till am writing these.,

martinsflo:

Hello everyone, kindly advice me on my point of view, Am a young man of 24 in my final year of a private univ dating a 21yr old 400l student of lautech since may 2011, bt now everything seems going wrong btw us and am judging my conscience to be right for any of my decision soonest, we both met through a friend whom they are both colleagues and we started dating and i told her my plans concerning responsibility and the kind of lifestyle i want to live and legacy to acquire for my children unborn, as i request we start child rearing as we are both about completion of our undergraduate academics,so i bought her a[b] promisory ring[/b] because of my parents expectation from me due to my position in the family of five, dad,mum and my 2 junior one's, I made it known to my family members and close friends with some relatives and are all happy to meet and welcom her for me due to my past heartbroken experiences and all., and been the type that does not too womanise as my doctrine is concern, and she has introduced me to her mum and junior one's with her eldest sis due to the tempo of our relationship believed to be serious and because her dad has since long been out of the country for 7-8yrs, though she is of islamic background and am a believer in white garment church but my father is an islamic practisioner which also aided the acceptance and support from my parents, suddenly she started out some behaviour that i guess i can't cope with by threating that her father's portion of assisting their educational prospects will determine our union, just when i told her of my plans to pregnate her,then i told her that 'assuming we are both cheat-dating secretly and you end up pregnant and i still accept the responsibility and outcome, even for your people just getting to know me then, will that make your dad disowns you and stop been responsible for you and others to[b] purnish[/b] you all.,then she said i can't understand and she won't dare risk such, again she claimed that she can't get married before her eldest sister,.that even anything close to pregnancy,child nursery will be by 2nd semester of her 400l in which they just resumed for first semester and am finishing my first semester exams march 2nd, later she obligued i consent her mum to give me go ahead order before i can[b] pregnate[/b] her but i refused it will not happen, and i will not be controlled by anyone to that effect, nov 2011 marks 7months of MouthAction without penetration in our relationship but with heavy committment & i finally made love to her just one's as she declined other attempt till am writing these., suddenly she accused me of not having her time,don't want/wish to see her as i told her i am the busy type without hinderances to my pleasure time, as she's fond of visiting me btw 12-4pm on sunday and virtually anything 2hrs on her arrival, calls will keep coming from everyone at home remebering her not to get late. So i told her "assuming you were deceiving them of meeting a female friend in other to go and satisfy your intimate feeling and to return normal pretentiously ?., but knowing your whereabout to be with your "fiance" should at least warranted some courtesy. That's how i denied her coming to me at her desired sunday time, as she told me that after denying her visiting me on a particular sunday and has to UnCloth, her mood changed and her mum asked ?, and finds out it was due to the dissappointment and she said "that's what going frequently to man often leads to ' meaning that have changed after getting pleased sexually from her daughter,. As i counted that as against my personality for proposing her child to marriage, and deserved such statement., please kindly advice me on what to do next., when we had the 1st & last sex for now in nov, i obligued that there do be no condom use or withdrawal method, and she said that abortion will be the answer then, now she's not ready to meet my demand and 'meaned' & i can't cope

slimyem:

this is some real discombobulation.damn!

martinsflo:

nov 2011 marks 7months of MouthAction without penetration in our relationship but with heavy committment & i finally made love to her just one's as she declined other attempt till am writing these.,

~Killz~:

Start by suing your English teachers from secondary school till date! Final year student of a private University my left butt cheek! You base a relationship on sex, the results are in, and you are trying to contest the results as fake? You are what? Discombobulated!

claremont:

I can't believe some people actually had the patience to read this long post!

Mrs, Chima:

(playing Scrabble with OP's post)

pendo89:

lol. you borrowed vowels from another thread. Must be ur new hobby.

Mrs, Chima:

(playing Scrabble with OP's post)

stevo4shiz:

@OP You claim 2b in final year yet you can't come up with an error free write up, are these the type of graduates we are expecting in 9ja??

La Parisienne:

@OP
The real reality you should be facing right now is that you need a brain surgery to update your fish brain, no kidding.

It's a shame that a 24 year old lad who's about to graduate from college wrote this sinfully incomprehensible poo.

What a waste of resources you are.

Sijo01:

First Class product in a making!