In the interim, if you're a "God trusting person", seek the face of God. Fast and Pray regularly that "God should give and reveal your own wife, to you. The "bone of your bones, the one that is truly yours". God hears and answer prayers[/color] (coming from shine-shine bobo like myself! ).
At times, Pray with your lady, (like over Skype video-call), fast together over your relationship, tell her to also pray that your separation may come to an end soon. It bonds the two of you together and gives the relationship "a conscience"

Let God take control of that which you are powerless to control. He may even hasten your way back home to your loved one.
Dont give your self "blood pressure". What will be, will be.

In all communication is the life-blood of every relationship. Work on that for now.
Wish you the best in Life.

Lastpage!

Hmmm, this my "story" gets long again!

lastpage:

In the interim, if you're a "God trusting person", seek the face of God. Fast and Pray regularly that "God should give and reveal your own wife, to you. The "bone of your bones, the one that is truly yours". God hears and answer prayers[/color] (coming from shine-shine bobo like myself! ).
At times, Pray with your lady, (like over Skype video-call), fast together over your relationship, tell her to also pray that your separation may come to an end soon. It bonds the two of you together and gives the relationship "a conscience"

Let God take control of that which you are powerless to control. He may even hasten your way back home to your loved one.
Dont give your self "blood pressure". What will be, will be.

In all communication is the life-blood of every relationship. Work on that for now.
Wish you the best in Life.

Lastpage!

Hmmm, this my "story" gets long again!

Last page bro,you must be a relationship analyst.Thats good.

Those epistles sound great, however two people need to first be in agreement with what they want in the relationship. 

It is true that couples that prays together stays together, but we must take in account that not everyone is spiritual or religious. 

They both need to make sure they are compatible and are in agreement with each other.  Once they have established the agreement, then they need to both work at it spiritually and mentally. 

Our flesh can control our mind so we need to be spiritually powered to fight the flesh.  The flesh may desire other men, women, become jealous of this and that, and want to give up because it is too hard. 

We first must introduce the spirit to the couple in order for the couple to thrive spiritually. 

[size=44pt]There is no life amongst dead coals.  [/size]

OP, make sure that you and the girl is in agreement before you waste any more of your time.

Well said peeps. Thank you very much most of the post have been really helpful. Esp Lastpage and Mrs Chima.

Distance in a relationship when not handle with care, can ruin a good relationship. I think you must have known your lady to some certain extent. Try to have positive thinking towards her so far you are not seeing her. Are you also 'clean' over there? We get to close eyes to some issues in a relatiönship as we are not sure. Try to call her on regular basis while still taking note of her own rate of calling you. I am in the same shoe with you.

^^^^Sigh, Thanks man. I'm trying my best. It aint easy,

Poster, just try to find more hobbies, trust in yourself and tell yourself that if the person is dumping you, it means she doesn't deserve you

Does having trust on such partner discourages him/her from cheating? Its one of those shits that happen, engage yourself in so many distractions and you won't feel that inferiority stuff, its only wussies that have this kind of feeling.

@mrs. Chima

Those epistles sound great, however two people need to first be in agreement with what they want in the relationship.

Learn NOT TO use DEROGATORY WORDS to describe someone's post!
At least, let such come from someone who wrote something remotely more informative!,
I doubt if it is just a case of careless choice of words?!

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@mrs. Chima
Learn NOT TO use DEROGATORY WORDS to describe someone's post!
At least, let such come from someone who wrote something remotely more informative!,
I doubt if it is just a case of careless choice of words?!

Lastpage!

No, it was the right word.  Did you take an offense?

...pls delete

@Mrs. Chima

No, it was the right word. Did you take an offense?

Offense ke? How can l take offense, knowing the 'source' of such uncouth yarns!

"Argue not with fools, less you increase their numbers" - Greek Proverb.

Lastpage!

@Moodie: Unfortunately, no offense taken and there will be no quarrel, Mrs. Chima knows better!