991:

@sugar 001

sometime last month we read about a woman who killed her husband because of money for pampers right? that man was your kind of real man abi??
let me educate you more on how to be a real human whether man or woman, real humans dont  jump into judgement without reasoning with both parties involved ok? there is no reasonable reason to destroy properties just because ur partner was mute to ur angry reactions ok?
one sure thing that made the OP a real human was his apology thereafter.
get that right,

991:

@sugar 001

psycologically, destroying of property out of anger is pure MADNESS,
beating the destroyer to calm her down is the MEDICINE to that madness,

cheers

ekt_bear:

So if it were his best friend who he beat up, would you all also condemn him?

Or is it only because it was his girlfriend that he should be condemned?

Do you take issue with the violence, or that the violence specifically happened to a woman?

ekt_bear:

The dumb chick shouldn't have destroyed his phone.

wtf was she thinking?

i guess that she also didn't deserve to have the life beaten out of her too, because she is a woman.

but isn't this a double standard? If a man destroys my personal property, I will beat him within an inch of his life.

Yet I suppose doing the same to a woman is somehow more wrong. . .  

All of this stuff is confusing, I just hope I'm never in this sort of situation

ekt_bear:

So if it were his best friend who he beat up, would you all also condemn him?

Or is it only because it was his girlfriend that he should be condemned?

Do you take issue with the violence, or that the violence specifically happened to a woman?

ceejayluv:

The girl needs to go for anger management classes as well.! And all you sissy dudes crying #dontlayhandsonalady! Be real! I don't support bullying but if it were his brother or any other dude that smashed his fone would u still blame  op?[size=16pt] If A lady storms my house wit fuel and threatens to burn my crib, I WILL BREAK HER BONES!![/size] Nobody has the monopoly of violence. The gal was violent (she's human) the guy reacted violently (he's no less human)!

~Killz~:

Can violence ever be justified? Especially when your life is not at stake? For gawd's sake it's just an object! Can you value an inanimate object above a human life?

I know a guy whose wife killed with a pestle in a domestic argument. I know another whose wife smashed all his car windscreens while shocked neighbours stood and watched the show of horror. Yet another one was doused with acid by his wife while he was sleeping here in Abuja last year. What do we call that?

That is gross insanity of the first degree.

Women need to know their limits. Honestly. The OP walked away and the woman still went to cause more aggravation.  

I always say that the 2 things that'll make me end a marital relationship is
Infidelity
Threat to my life.
Now, there was no threat to his life now, was there? Who said he walked away? He walked away and he was pinging in her presence? Do you know what that means in a relationship? Do you know the gravity of what they were discussing? The importance? This guy told a one sided story. Walking away from her entails walking away from the scene of the incident. She obviously smashed that phone because he ignored her in that manner.

If it was his mum or his sister that smashed his phone, would he beat them up? Are they not women too? Look, let's call a spade a spade. People no longer value women and believe they should be treated anyhow. That girl was nothing more than a sex object to him. If you love someone, you don't beat them to satisfaction.

I ask again, can you value an inanimate object above a human life?