Ijelex:
Are we sure say na only one dey inside?
We will be 20 weeks tomorrow.
#bumpy tuesday

Are you not the mama that loaded fresh tomato jollof rice into that Tommy this morning? Lol

bussy2rhymes:
Good evening moms in the house, i just stumbled on this thread few days ago. its been very educative. I will like to join o. I am team October. Thanks

Welcome, enjoy your stay. Pay your dues o even though you are a bit late.

Make I fine trouble small... E don tey...


Ma'am Zaynie, mummy Atinuke the great ... ki lo'n sele? I've been trying to call you.. . Watapun? Hope you're good.. .

Melly245, my one and only Nosa... How's you and my Diamond doing?

Fortius Romanus.. . oremi... bawo ni? Awon omo nko? O t'ojo meta oh. S'alafia l'e wa...

Mitchyy witchy my guy... oniovo.. . Mavo? ... How's Hansel?

Goldenruby, mummy Naveed "the first".. . Mo ki yin oh...

GenyEbere, nwanne'm, kedu.. E don tey oh... Odikwa mma?

Ginababy, mama favor...is he favor or faithful? how na?

Cherrymum1, Ifybekee , how are you and princess Lami? Hope you're enjoying the new job oh...

Tyconcepts, mama presido... How far na? How's our itsekiri president?

Ozycy, wassup mama?

Dexterush, iya'beji... Where have you been? Abi you don get anoda belle on top that Iyabetajos tutorial?
Kikikikikikikikikikkikikikikiki!!!
Anoda set of twins on the way? Abi na triplets?

Iyabetajos, how you doing sis? How you holding up?

MGeey and missmalachi, please take these kisses ...

Gaily04,

BritneyStacy, abadie? How's vigilante doing you? Kiss baby Ekene for me...

Sugah, how's our Ayomide? I missed his picture. I hear he's a hunk ... Please, kiss him for me.. .




Ta'lo tun ku oh? Who am I forgetting?





Proudmom38, how are you and the family? Kisses to Lil proudy...

Iomoge2, I don greet you before, make I greet you again... kurifnin ma...


How can I forget Liftedhands... Mummy Ekene, how's our fine bobo?

All my June 2016 teamies, I trowey bumbum for una.. . Hope you're all good...

Comtem2011, hi sis

Omojudy, how's your health now.?

Most senior, Elder mama Lovinam, I remain loyal ma

Senior modath, senior beedam, owo mi meji l'oke... Se kowa'le, abi ko duro soke?

Who did I leave out?



Dis thing wey I do just now suppose reach one page... that's the aim/purpose...


#SideEyesInAdvanceAtAnybodyWhoComplains...
#OkBye

feddy27:


Welcome on board teamie! On behalf of #TeamOctober#, I welcome you specially to this loving family

Feel free, mingle, ask questions and share your experiences.

As part of our welcome package, you will pay your 'dues' to Zaynie.

We take roll calls so pls ansa so we know u re ok. Are you are 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th....time mum? also, are you expecting a boy or a girl?

Thanks. I already feeling overwhelmed with all of you. its a big family in here. its really a great work mamas are doing here. it's my first. and am expecting a boy.
pls how do I pay my dues?

gandyluv:
welcome teamie

Thanks ma'am

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Am so happy,seems d real deal is here o,bin leaking small amounts of fluid all day,just saw d bloody show now,no pain n no contractions yet,think will try n catch sum sleep b4 Mrng n head 2d hospital at d 1st break of dawn,can't wait 2 meet my lil 1.

pintoxx:

Am so happy,seems d real deal is here o,bin leaking small amounts of fluid all day,just saw d bloody show now,no pain n no contractions yet,think will try n catch sum sleep b4 Mrng n head 2d hospital at d 1st break of dawn,can't wait 2 meet my lil 1.

Congrats in advance, we ll hear good news soon ijn.

pintoxx:

Am so happy,seems d real deal is here o,bin leaking small amounts of fluid all day,just saw d bloody show now,no pain n no contractions yet,think will try n catch sum sleep b4 Mrng n head 2d hospital at d 1st break of dawn,can't wait 2 meet my lil 1.

You are 99.9percent there. All the best sis.

helovesme:


You should have mentioned my username.

It's a different thing if she said she was scared. I'm sure a lot of woman would have given her several reassurances.

But her saying that her husband suggested she goes under a knife just because he doesn't want any doctor checking his wife during vaginal examination deserves some hard talk. In fact, a man that loves and cares genuinely about his wife should not suggest such and I'm sure a lot of mums here share the same sentiments.

I only responded based on her initial post. She never said anything about baby's head passing through the vijay. Their main concern was the use of fingers during vaginal examination.

I already apologised to her before I began my post. I only spoke passionately as a mum who underwent CS and came out with a baby scarred from the surgery.

Thing with me is i didnt take d monikers 2 heart cos i am not against any1. I am speaking against how she was told.

When couple have discussions, one thing leads 2 another n she just tried 2 summerize i guess...

No hard feelings.... just feeling twas too deep.....

enkaydewdrop:


You're on point sis...

My eyes were actually/still are moist, reading the "not-so-nice" comments.. .

It is well...

How are you and darling Zoe?
#Hugz&Kisses...

We doing fine.....
Thankz much.

Saw ur comment where u used a page....
Lol

BabyJ has relieved u small ba?

Kikikikikikikiki

pintoxx:

Am so happy,seems d real deal is here o,bin leaking small amounts of fluid all day,just saw d bloody show now,no pain n no contractions yet,think will try n catch sum sleep b4 Mrng n head 2d hospital at d 1st break of dawn,can't wait 2 meet my lil 1.

Congratulations in advance! Awaiting the good news

Gudmornin lovely mums n mums 2b. Cudn't seem 2fall asleep after feeding my dd so I tot it wise 2fall in here. Too many pages 2catch up on.

Well thanks to all who wished me well @proudmum, @blessedmum n odas dat I cudn't mention,abeg no vex cos I still b learner 2d mention monikers.

Congrats 2all who av ported to newborns thread n welcome 2newbies...He he he cos I don b senior. Team Feb una de so? Who's our able captain, b4 I vex join team Dec. kikikikikiki...

Children can b funny with dia actions atimes. I Jst Wana knw if d rate at which my dd falls on my bump while playing if it's safe 4my lo in there. She must also fall asleep on my bump b4 I place her properly on d bed else no sleep 4 I n Dh dat Night O. Noting my hubbydoes can make her leave my bump. I Jst wonder what wud happen wen my bump increases in size. Abeg mamas, na Luv she d show her sibling? Naso her Luv go d choke mumy? I Jst d pity my Lo wey she d worry inside belle. My hubby Don warn us tire,say make we no disfigure him baby with our gymnastic. And too think dat if I refuse her or hide my bump ,she would jst cry 4africa like say I b her play mate. Motherhood sef... my mumsy too try abeg. One gbosa 4 mamas cos u guys r irreplaceable gems.

Iomoge2, there was nothing in your post that suggested you were calling out to any specific person, so you don't owe anyone any explanation. Your stand was crystal clear. And you defo wasn't the disrespectful one.

limsycutey:
Good morning mamas, please I need the contact of someone who delivers homecooked meals in Lagos. The one wey go sweet o with reasonable prices. Thank you.

Sorry for the delayed reply. The caterers details below:

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Congratulations on the arrival of your lo! May God bless and keep him.
Have a blessed day!

Cheers

Mama's please there is something happening here I don't like about Jumayins post I don't like.
She asked a question and was answered appropriately. And I quote her "don't read and pass", a lot of mama's read and passed but a few took it upon themselves to answer her vividly. Why did other mama's not reassure her before she complained about the answers. What if everyone had kept quiet.
Jumayin mama no mama here derives pleasure in making u feel bad but experience and practice have taught plenty mama's here. The truth remains that the first reason u gave for opting out of VB is frivolous at best and mama's here answered you based on ur first post. No one knows what u discussed with your DH. If all mama's start treating serious posts with kid gloves or sugar coating the truth, I wonder if this thread would be as helpful as it has been.

ozycy:

Are you not the mama that loaded fresh tomato jollof rice into that Tommy this morning? Lol

kikikikikikikikikikikikikikikiki

pintoxx:

Am so happy,seems d real deal is here o,bin leaking small amounts of fluid all day,just saw d bloody show now,no pain n no contractions yet,think will try n catch sum sleep b4 Mrng n head 2d hospital at d 1st break of dawn,can't wait 2 meet my lil 1.

Congrats in advance sis...We await ur goodnews!

BellaElla:
Mama's please there is something happening here I don't like about Jumayins post I don't like.
She asked a question and was answered appropriately. And I quote her "don't read and pass", a lot of mama's read and passed but a few took it upon themselves to answer her vividly. Why did other mama's not reassure her before she complained about the answers. What if everyone had kept quiet.
Jumayin mama no mama here derives pleasure in making u feel bad but experience and practice have taught plenty mama's here. The truth remains that the first reason u gave for opting out of VB is frivolous at best and mama's here answered you based on ur first post. No one knows what u discussed with your DH. If all mama's start treating serious posts with kid gloves or sugar coating the truth, I wonder if this thread would be as helpful as it has been.

we know it was not intentional to make her feel bad, but there's a way to address Issues Without sounding harsh, opinions differs though but I'm sure many of us felt bad too while reading those posts.
I don't want to start quoting and bolding sentences but some are way out of line and also there's no justification for apologising before scolding someone.
My emotions are so volatile dat I might leave d thread and nt come back, dats people for you.
To everybody affected bikonu, emabinu, let's remain one and continue to be helpful!

BellaElla:
Mama's please there is something happening here I don't like about Jumayins post I don't like.
She asked a question and was answered appropriately. And I quote her "don't read and pass", a lot of mama's read and passed but a few took it upon themselves to answer her vividly. Why did other mama's not reassure her before she complained about the answers. What if everyone had kept quiet.
Jumayin mama no mama here derives pleasure in making u feel bad but experience and practice have taught plenty mama's here. The truth remains that the first reason u gave for opting out of VB is frivolous at best and mama's here answered you based on ur first post. No one knows what u discussed with your DH. If all mama's start treating serious posts with kid gloves or sugar coating the truth, I wonder if this thread would be as helpful as it has been.

My dear, you too mushhh . Me, I'm even going to remove my post. There now, ain't that better. oya please let this matter end here, no need for extra drama. The economy is in a recession, dontchyaknow?? Happy bumping!
Ozycy, thanks for your kind words a few days ago. I would have replied but I actually couldn't spell your moniker properly

@enkaydewdrop thanks 4d mention... How is u n baby Jay? My love to him... But mama u sabi find trouble small oh...kikikikikikiki!

enkaydewdrop:


Ozycy, wassup mama?

Wassup with me right now is that as I got one tiny pooing sign in my Tommy, I said awwch and placed hand on my tommy and my first son being a very lovely fellow asked me ""mum, is it your baby""?
I quickly shouted NO , I don't have any baby in my tommy, your baby is in her cot. He went ahead to ask me "" so why are you putting your hand on your stomach""? And I replied while heading to the loo "I want to poo you need to see the way I frowned my face while answering him lol.

It's like baby is giving you space no wonder you have time to type this epistle.

prettmum:
my runaway cappo, morning sickness na serious matter for my side, bitter taste, nausea and mild headache no de free me.

Lol @ runaway. Pele, I hope we all feel better soon

Onegai:


My dear, you too mushhh . Me, I'm even going to remove my post. There now, ain't that better oya please let this matter end here, no need for extra drama. The economy is in a recession, dontchyaknow??

Sorry to quote u ma'am.... I want to apologise to every mama involved in this matter, e jor e ma binu. We are one big family and I belive we have the interest and well being of each mama at heart... So please let's not give room to the devil please. Mamas that commented on the ish meant well as sisters and mothers... Oya all of una chop kisses!!!





Pheeww! Na me type dis one? Ayaf try gan ooo...



Goodmorning mamas!

@Whyterose u welcome mam... I think u should not always alow ur baby fall/hit ur tommy. I'm not experienced as a ftm though but I thing it should be painful...

Wow, really? U made me laff. TherE's a lot more to what u said. It's not exactly d way u are painting it.

Onegai:
Modified for serious sugar coating. Sugar sugar sugar sugar

What I don't understand is why people have to be disrespectful before they can manage to score a point. What kind of advice are you giving that cannot be given with a measure of sensitivity? She asked for how to go about opting for elective CS, not whether her reason for wanting it was good or not. It is not anybody's place to enforce what is good for her or not. Even at that, some mamas managed to go sideways just right, but some took it upon themselves to even school her on how to marry her husband. For why nau? Did anybody lick anybody's blood on here and swore that they must heed the advices/suggestions gotten from here? So why imagine that your versions of strong hand, must coerce people to heed your suggestions?

Biko, we all need to be cautious with the ways we communicate oo, 'cos in the end, we're all just advicers and learners and no two persons are the same. For every horrible experience some person has had, someone elsewhere had triumphed.

ozycy:


Wassup with me right now is that as I got one tiny pooing sign in my Tommy, I said awwch and placed hand on my tommy and my first son being a very lovely fellow asked me ""mum, is it your baby""?
I quickly shouted NO , I don't have any baby in my tommy, your baby is in her cot. He went ahead to ask me "" so why are you putting your hand on your stomach""? And I replied while heading to the loo "I want to poo you need to see the way I frowned my face while answering him lol.

It's like baby is giving you space no wonder you have time to type this epistle.

Lol! Ur son is funny n acting like a big boy dat he is...

Sometimes this thread can be so tasking. Those of us that have no choice but to go for CS have to read through various horror stories of traumatic CS births and how babies will be scarred and whatever. This is on a pregnancy thread. I now understand why my MIL keeps saying that i should stop reading about other people's BS that it might cause me to be afraid.

After reading the past couple of pages, i have been very afraid. Only that i hold on to the word of God that says that I will give birth like the Hebrew women, there shall be no loss in my household, I am an overcomer. All these stories can make someone run away from a hospital if the doctor insists that CS is the only option. For what? To win an argument.

I will take a brief hiatus from this thread and probably return to share my BS (if at all). Wish everyone the best.

BellaElla:
Mama's please there is something happening here I don't like about Jumayins post I don't like.
She asked a question and was answered appropriately. And I quote her "don't read and pass", a lot of mama's read and passed but a few took it upon themselves to answer her vividly. Why did other mama's not reassure her before she complained about the answers. What if everyone had kept quiet.
Jumayin mama no mama here derives pleasure in making u feel bad but experience and practice have taught plenty mama's here. The truth remains that the first reason u gave for opting out of VB is frivolous at best and mama's here answered you based on ur first post. No one knows what u discussed with your DH. If all mama's start treating serious posts with kid gloves or sugar coating the truth, I wonder if this thread would be as helpful as it has been.

She also said and I quote"WE DECIDED" that statement instantly swayed me away from trying to discourage her! If her and her DH have decided to tow that route irrespective of the dangers inherent in Cs(even VD sef get pros and cons too) we just have to respect their decision. Rather than painting her husband like a beast or insecure person for saying no body will chook hand inside his wife's jajaina and thus must be Cs, it's THEIR DECISION for Christ sake.

Cs was made to look like a death sentence yesterday and honestly that wasn't good! One or two mamas minds may have been discouraged from ever considering CS by the way it was portrayed by mama helovesme(unintentionally). I had a Cs and got a damn life threatening complications from it but I'm still going to be Belle sliced again whenever I get preggos and it's MY choice.

Jumayin asked us a question which was when is it ok to have Cs? The answer to that question was all she needed and not some lecture, she also wasn't seeking for discouragement.

I try very much this days to avoid confrontations here based on a past experience where some mamas read a totally different meaning to what i wrote and lashed out at me(someone even had to go dig out their dormant moniker to diss me) which was why I didn't react to the posts yesterday as I saw that many mamas here seemed to be in agreement with the horror of Cs so I just chilled and waited for Jumayin to come online and say how she received the many "advice" she got before I go drink panadol for person headache and be jumped on again.

Jeez i don join the epistle bandwagon

Good morning house

Enkaydewdrop Ekene is fine dear thanks for the shout out

Hello everyone

Pls i dont av any friend. I wouldnt mind having many from here.

Me and my DH did our traditional Wedding and court wedding in April dis year. Had my bfp Same month. Yet to do white but be4 d end of dis year with heavy bump(pls dont ask y i took in be4 white i never planned it na Godwin) I really need help as am a FTM. Have not started shopping. I stay in lagos.

Pls u can add me on watsapp for friendship. i always bored most times after work. I have alot of things to talk about but sometimes dont ask here cos i dont want pple attacking me.

+234(816)8549758 dats my noba. Just for whatsapp will give u d calling line as d discussion progresses.

E-huygs


Thanks

#TeamDecforsupernaturaldelivery#

tipsyjules:
.In other news this is me @ 36 weeks 2days,the other pix is me few weeks before belle.

Waow, you're soooo biriful.