Layormiii:
my emotions has been all over the place with the posts here ni from that woman that gave birth and later lost her baby after loosing her mum and mother inlaw, to flower girl, all the replies and all, quiet emotional for me . I just find myself thinking about them sometimes for no reason that's why I decided to turn reader for now. Plus the tiredness no be here nowadays.
It is well my teamie, how's the journey going with u too.

Thank God you are fine. The journey smooth make person no talk otherwise, feel pain in my right syd whenever I wanna stand up from bed. The Dr told me you are exactly 33weeks today and I was like yes ooo, I can't wait... She jt told me U'll av to wait oo because ppl dey reach 40weeks and pass self and my excited turn to "so June still far like dis"

FlowerGirl040:
I don't know how I am doing jare. I have replied

You haven't reply my mail for days, why?

TOHHAN:

You haven't reply my mail for days, why?

Oh dear. I replied immediately fa!! I am serious cos I have been expecting your reply as well.

Pls check again,let me know,cos I only have limited time on here.

Hamzashaf99:
I do understand this woman, and the truth is that nothing will ever change that type of man, not even his mother.

The best thing would be to hustle for something to do online, but I've seen such men and even that is not always possible for their women. If she's lucky, that will help her out. Then the next best thing is to train her children well. They will wipe your tears Inshallah. I know of some online writing gigs that pay directly to your account, but you will have to hide your earnings from him if you want to get somewhere. Nothing too stressful.

As for trolls, the best thing is that no one gives them a reply from the first post. I've had someone drag my pics and details here so I know how it feels, but silence from me and it never got farther than that.

Please can we help her all by ignoring them? It's not easy but lack of attention from anyone is their poison.

Mama please I'm interested in that online writing gigs please... How do I contact you to know more about it?

dacblogger:

Mama please I'm interested in that online writing gigs please... How do I contact you to know more about it?

Even me oo, I need side hustle to do during maternity leave abeg

Please who hear from Gravity56 oo, it's bn long here

FlowerGirl040:
Oh dear. I replied immediately fa!! I am serious cos I have been expecting your reply as well.

Pls check again,let me know,cos I only have limited time on here.

Didn't see your reply oo, lemme mail again

TOHHAN:

Even me oo, I need side hustle to do during maternity leave abeg

Mama , who no like better thing?

TOHHAN:

Didn't see your reply oo, lemme mail again

I just replied

dacblogger:

Mama , who no like better thing?

Make she kukuma teach all of us na,, lol.... I like beta thing too

Omakraid:

Make she kukuma teach all of us na,, lol.... I like beta thing too

Pregnancy shouldn't stop us from hustling even if it's from the comfort of our homes

FlowerGirl040:
I just replied

Guess sumtin is wrong. Mail ...

FlowerGirl040:
Good afternoon. Yes online hustle is the best for now,so I can start saving up,no one has access to my acmcount,so that's not a problem.

WhatsApp me on so I can put you through. It's not much but it's better than nothing

Hamzashaf99 my former July teamie that ported to June, your attention is needed here...Many Mama's are interested in hustling abeg

dacblogger:

Pregnancy shouldn't stop us from hustling even if it's from the comfort of our homes

Money is needed bikonu.. Even the baby needs money

dacblogger:

Mama please I'm interested in that online writing gigs please... How do I contact you to know more about it?

WhatsApp me on the no I dropped.
I will also try to create a thread on it for anyone else interested.

Omakraid:

Money is needed bikonu.. Even the baby needs money

I swear... Na the baby need the money pass sef

Hamzashaf99:
WhatsApp me on the no I dropped.
I will also try to create a thread on it for anyone else interested.

Thanks Mama

Hamzashaf99:

WhatsApp me so I can put you through. It's not much but it's better than nothing

Thanks

Sassy256:

I have responded to your mail dear.

Thank you mama

Please mamas, is kunu local drink good for pregnancy?

I want to take some

breeezefe:
Please mamas, is kunu local drink good for pregnancy?

I want to take some

Yes oo, feel free to enjoy yourself

As much as this thread is a family to most of us, please let's endeavor to hide some things in our BS because of some wicked silent readers looking for relevance and short fame.

Saintmary:



Your virtuous woman nonsense killed Osinachi.


Women have been kind enough in this country, if men are not ready to meet in the middle, women should stay put and stay beautiful.


Make posts for men and raise your sons better.

Hello sweetheart❤

Where in my post did u see that a woman should endure domestic violence

For Christ sake, divorce has been made very easy for us, even with benefits

Read well before you rush to type

I appreciate everyone that gave me a good advice... Those that scolded me are also well appreciated from the bottom of my heart... Those that insulted me and call me names for speaking out are just barking with no course... It baffles me how some lies against me are flying left and right... Pls where did I mention I still want to be in this marriage? Or where did I made mention of leaving either? I replied comments and questions, nothing more. Besides do they expect me to leave my marriage empty handed? Those ones barking and calling themselves names on the other thread are just wasting their time,is that how to scold an adult? Talking as If I am your child,no one lives with me,so why shouting up and down ontop my matter as if their life is so perfect? You trolls,I dare anyone of you to come drag me out of here,call the authorities or even arrest me. Nonsense.

You expect me to start doing gra gra with my condition? Puting my life and my unborn child at risk? Isn't it obvious it you trolls that lack common sense? You think everything is done with fight or quarrels? I shared BS here but the busy bodies and unfortunate ones carry am for head... YOU all can talk from now till tomorrow,it changes nothing as I have already taken the few sensible advices here. See how stupid false assumptions about me are flying around on nairaland. Is that how to advice an adult? With insults, calling me names and shaming?

You can continue calling me whatever name you feel like,that's on you as it takes nothing from me or the life of my children. You did not read to understand,you just jump to name calling. No one knows my husband and my life more than I do,drop your advice and allow me make my decision. Imagine calling me a scammer with multiple monikers,did I beg anyone for money? And I swear no one has ever sent me money here. So I wonder where those accusations are coming from.

Kokaiye
TOHHAN
Omakraid
Expectantmom
Layormiii
Cinderellashoes
Mummytoo
Miracletoday
Tiffanyj and other Mamas I can't seem to remember the correct spellings of their monikers right now,I appreciate everyone here. This may be the last you hear from me. And I really hope our next meeting will not be life after,I really hope so. Is suicide an option. No.. But I hope I don't commit suicide unconsciously and out of depression. I really do hope so. But if I survive this heavy pain in my heart and head,then I promise you the next time you will hear from me will be a good expected news,that I promise.

Mummytoo:


Hello sweetheart❤

Where in my post did u see that a woman should endure domestic violence

For Christ sake, divorce has been made very easy for us, even with benefits

Read well before you rush to type

Tell men how to be good husbands, they are the ones who lack training, most of them.


That is my most important message to you.



Please don't 'sweetheart' me.

FlowerGirl040:
I appreciate everyone that gave me a good advice... Those that scolded me are also well appreciated from the bottom of my heart... Those that insulted me and call me names for speaking out are just barking with no course... It baffles me how some lies against me are flying left and right... Pls where did I mention I still want to be in this marriage? Or where did I made mention of leaving either? I replied comments and questions, nothing more. Besides do they expect me to leave my marriage empty handed? Those ones barking and calling themselves names on the other thread are just wasting their time,is that how to scold an adult? Talking as If I am your child,no one lives with me,so why shouting up and down ontop my matter as if their life is so perfect? You trolls,I dare anyone of you to come drag me out of here,call the authorities or even arrest me. Nonsense.

You expect me to start doing gra gra with my condition? Puting my life and my unborn child at risk? Isn't it obvious it you trolls that lack common sense? You think everything is done with fight or quarrels? I shared BS here but the busy bodies and unfortunate ones carry am for head... YOU all can talk from now till tomorrow,it changes nothing as I have already taken the few sensible advices here. See how stupid false assumptions about me are flying around on nairaland. Is that how to advice an adult? With insults, calling me names and shaming?

You can continue calling me whatever name you feel like,that's on you as it takes nothing from me or the life of my children. You did not read to understand,you just jump to name calling. No one knows my husband and my life more than I do,drop your advice and allow me make my decision. Imagine calling me a scammer with multiple monikers,did I beg anyone for money? And I swear no one has ever sent me money here. So I wonder where those accusations are coming from.

Kokaiye
TOHHAN
Omakraid
Expectantmom
Layormiii
Cinderellashoes
Mummytoo
Miracletoday
Tiffanyj and other Mamas I can't seem to remember the correct spellings of their monikers right now,I appreciate everyone here. This may be the last you hear from me. And I really hope our next meeting will not be life after,I really hope so. Is suicide an option. No.. But I hope I don't commit suicide unconsciously and out of depression. I really do hope so. But if I survive this heavy pain in my heart and head,then I promise you the next time you will hear from me will be a good expected news,that I promise.

Please, please don't deactivate your account. God will see you through and we appreciate you for speaking up. Keep the account and if going offline for a while is best for you, please do so but don't deactivate your account. Na me dem say I be your alternate account and I know I am not, so just go offline and return when you are able

FlowerGirl040:
I appreciate everyone that gave me a good advice... Those that scolded me are also well appreciated from the bottom of my heart... Those that insulted me and call me names for speaking out are just barking with no course... It baffles me how some lies against me are flying left and right... Pls where did I mention I still want to be in this marriage? Or where did I made mention of leaving either? I replied comments and questions, nothing more. Besides do they expect me to leave my marriage empty handed? Those ones barking and calling themselves names on the other thread are just wasting their time,is that how to scold an adult? Talking as If I am your child,no one lives with me,so why shouting up and down ontop my matter as if their life is so perfect? You trolls,I dare anyone of you to come drag me out of here,call the authorities or even arrest me. Nonsense.

You expect me to start doing gra gra with my condition? Puting my life and my unborn child at risk? Isn't it obvious it you trolls that lack common sense? You think everything is done with fight or quarrels? I shared BS here but the busy bodies and unfortunate ones carry am for head... YOU all can talk from now till tomorrow,it changes nothing as I have already taken the few sensible advices here. See how stupid false assumptions about me are flying around on nairaland. Is that how to advice an adult? With insults, calling me names and shaming?

You can continue calling me whatever name you feel like,that's on you as it takes nothing from me or the life of my children. You did not read to understand,you just jump to name calling. No one knows my husband and my life more than I do,drop your advice and allow me make my decision. Imagine calling me a scammer with multiple monikers,did I beg anyone for money? And I swear no one has ever sent me money here. So I wonder where those accusations are coming from.

Kokaiye
TOHHAN
Omakraid
Expectantmom
Layormiii
Cinderellashoes
Mummytoo
Miracletoday
Tiffanyj and other Mamas I can't seem to remember the correct spellings of their monikers right now,I appreciate everyone here. This may be the last you hear from me. And I really hope our next meeting will not be life after,I really hope so. Is suicide an option. No.. But I hope I don't commit suicide unconsciously and out of depression. I really do hope so. But if I survive this heavy pain in my heart and head,then I promise you the next time you will hear from me will be a good expected news,that I promise.

Good, this is what I want to see, I want to see you strong, wise, observant and in charge of your life.


If you like, hate me, but I wish you well and I don't want your life to be cut short, that is why I'm shouting.


Be strong. Be well.

TOHHAN:

You haven't reply my mail for days, why?

I think her reply is not working cos she said she has replied me since morning too and I never saw it.

Laugh just dey worry me for this group.... it's quiet unfortunate.. really really unfortunate.

MorningStar233:
Laugh just dey worry me for this group.... it's quiet unfortunate.. really really unfortunate.

It's quite unfortunate my sister.
And worse still that these so called "advices" are coming from fellow women. So called 'woke' women that neither know how to talk nor feel any empathy for another person. It's well.

Gosshhh, where do I even start from? Wanted to jump and pass on mama @flowergirl040 post but for that slowpoke that lifted her story to start another thread and even had the audacity to call us senseless ( well it takes a senseless person to know one too)

See @baby124, you can actually pass your comment without been distasteful or calling us all sort of names here.
I was angry at the same time sad reading her story yesterday too, in fact I wish I could go get her wherever she was, yes, this was how I felt .
And from what I read here, she is willing and ready to help herself .. that’s why she spoke up in the first instance

So many mamas also proffered a solution , at the same time , encouraged and supported her emotionally ( yes , she needs it and that’s is part of what we do on this thread as a family ..it ain’t easy been pregnant and still be passing through horrifying marital issues like hers )

Do you even know what it took for her to come share her story here? I bet you don’t cos I am sure you don’t have blood running through your veins and dog have equally eaten your sense .

You should have waited here , so we would drag you to filth and back , instead of going to tell a story that isn’t yours to tell... olofo!

See mama flowergirl040, pLz keep speaking up , it’s the first step in emancipating yourself financially and emotionally, For a fact, I know everyone is here for you...
mama, just know you will be fine once you take that leap of faith in whatever decision you have decided or planning to do , forget the fear of the unknown... you go Dey ok las las
if you need a therapist / marriage counselor to talk to , I can refer a very good one for you!

My mamas, sorry o ..I know you guys said we should move pass the story but I just say make I pour out my mind as the thing dey do me for here !

To all my june mamas , we are almost there o , my tired is getting tired tho .. but the Lord is our strength.