Thanks Byvan,Dbard & everyone who's contributed on this episiotomy issue,I get goose bumps anytime I think about it.
My body weight at 8weeks preggy was 52kg,now,I'm 66kg,but it's not really showing on my body;meanwhile eating is such a great task for me,guess baby's taking all the extra ...

byvan: Yeah,it happens hereooo,maybe alcohol possibly played some roles.Premies are likely to be underweight too.

Babies in Nigeria dnt follow d norm. Most primis wt are above 3kg n it gets bigger wit subsequent pregnancies.
Most underwt babies I've cum across here are preterms..

double blessing: Thanks Byvan,Dbard & everyone who's contributed on this episiotomy issue,I get goose bumps anytime I think about it.
My body weight at 8weeks preggy was 52kg,now,I'm 66kg,but it's not really showing on my body;meanwhile eating is such a great task for me,guess baby's taking all the extra ...

No need f d goose bumps xcpt u feeling chilly .
If d episiotomies are properly done, u wont notice it cos its usually given at d peak of labour pains making d two indistinguishable.
The afterpains can b handled wit drugs..
So, relax ur mind n enjoy

Even though I don't like it, I will take episiotomy over cs.

@ all wat could be d cause of weight flauntuation frm 85-84-80-82kg, wat can i do i feel tired easily, at time i spend hours just lyin down rollin on d bed.

byvan: @ sweet tease,a birth miraculous story,thanks for sharing.

@Rukemi, i think people's body differ.i know heavy eaters whose babies weighed less than 3kg.Please eat up,53kg is too small for a preggy mama.

I lost so much weight during my first trimester due to d terrible morning, afternoon and night sickness o. I am glad i can now eat most things. I think i should continue with the ice cream to add more weight till week 24.

@joilin guess we aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ together am 8wks gone too expecting my delivery by march by †ђξ special grace of God.may God see us through.

@chestnut.So happy to meet u. I'm also due in march b/w 6-18 by his grace. Hp u ar not having much issues. Mine its just tiredess i feel like staying in bed the whole day but the bad aspect is that i can't sleep except at night. This is my first time o what about u

@joilin am happy to meet U̶̲̥̅̊ too. its my second,i av a son who Ȋ̝̊̅§ 16mnths old A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ av been sleeping also with so much tiredness thank God am on holiday because i find it hard to get out of bed in †ђξ ♍☹r♌i♌g it will be easy for us insha allah. Our due date Ȋ̝̊̅§ around same period

Good evening mothers I have already posted this in the new babies thread but answers from either wil b e appreciated pls what style can I adopt when bathing for my babies,this evening one of the babies inhaled some of the water and it was pretty scary..I sit them on my thighs when bathing them. Secondly,one of the boys suck on his hand n its always sounding loud,people said am not feeding him enough,is this true??

Hummingbird: Good evening mothers I have already posted this in the new babies thread but answers from either wil b e appreciated pls what style can I adopt when bathing for my babies,this evening one of the babies inhaled some of the water and it was pretty scary..I sit them on my thighs when bathing them. Secondly,one of the boys suck on his hand n its always sounding loud,people said am not feeding him enough,is this true??

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Hummingbird: Good evening mothers I have already posted this in the new babies thread but answers from either wil b e appreciated pls what style can I adopt when bathing for my babies,this evening one of the babies inhaled some of the water and it was pretty scary..I sit them on my thighs when bathing them. Secondly,one of the boys suck on his hand n its always sounding loud,people said am not feeding him enough,is this true??

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Hummingbird: Good evening mothers I have already posted this in the new babies thread but answers from either wil b e appreciated pls what style can I adopt when bathing for my babies,this evening one of the babies inhaled some of the water and it was pretty scary..I sit them on my thighs when bathing them. Secondly,one of the boys suck on his hand n its always sounding loud,people said am not feeding him enough,is this true??

. Eh yah its not easy doing this on Ɣ☺ur own.U̶̲̥̅̊ shld rather lay them on Ɣ☺ur laps A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ let †ђξ head rest on Ɣ☺ur palm wen washing †ђξ head A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ wash it backward with little water at a time,then jst dip Ɣ☺ur hand in water to wipe †ђξ face until its clean pls dnt let them inhale water Ooº°˚ ˚° U̶̲̥̅̊ av to be careful dnt worry U̶̲̥̅̊ will get used to it. Pls feed †ђξ suck suck boy very well it might be true he's not getting enough food. Kisses to †ђξ boys

@hummingbird, chestnut is right. I will also advice u stop evenin bath. Babies don't need it cos of cold. Its well wit ur boys.

mummyf: @hummingbird, chestnut is right. I will also advice u stop evenin bath. Babies don't need it cos of cold. Its well wit ur boys.

aite ma,so I wnt need to bath them @ nyt..thnk u

Chestnut: [color=][/color]. Eh yah its not easy doing this on Ɣ☺ur own.U̶̲̥̅̊ shld rather lay them on Ɣ☺ur laps A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ let †ђξ head rest on Ɣ☺ur palm wen washing †ђξ head A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ wash it backward with little water at a time,then jst dip Ɣ☺ur hand in water to wipe †ђξ face until its clean pls dnt let them inhale water Ooº°˚ ˚° U̶̲̥̅̊ av to be careful dnt worry U̶̲̥̅̊ will get used to it. Pls feed †ђξ suck suck boy very well it might be true he's not getting enough food. Kisses to †ђξ boys

aite ma'am,I was already crying dis evening bt I thnk God..m feeding them well oo...and I jst kissed them for you

Humming mummy2,ow body,for cleaning my babyz face,I just use a damp cloth to clean his face,and I agree wth d no nite bathing,weather isn't condusiv for it,and r d boyz on xclusive breastfeedin,if they are it wud xplain y d lil man is suckin,boys eat a lot,my lil man sucks for upto 45minss at a time,nt to talk of u with twins

@anjyskye,relax it happens,d only time u shud get a lil bothered bout ur weight is wen ure nearly due and u add upto 8kg and above within a wk,then u let ur doc know,but for now,no biggie

Hello fellow mamas and mamas to be, and 7 gbosas to the latest papa mcfemad. I've been a silent follwer of this thread...my 2year old daughter destroyed my laptop keyboard but I'm glad I can now browse/type with my phone. It'll be an understatement to say I've gained a lot here. I'm 32 weeks gone with baby number 2, due in sept. I had my daughter via CS(breech probably due to fibroids...yes, I have that too). The cs was not a bad experience at all, but I honestly do not want a cs this time cos I'm new in town with no family around to help out while I heal. I just joined hubby in Europe. I'm praying and hoping to have a normal V. Delivery, I don't know what their policy here concerning VBAC(v. Birth after cesarian) is and no thanks to language barrier, I Can't have a meaningful discussion with my gynea(Spanish). #just keeping my Fingers crossed#

tjskii: Humming mummy2,ow body,for cleaning my babyz face,I just use a damp cloth to clean his face,and I agree wth d no nite bathing,weather isn't condusiv for it,and r d boyz on xclusive breastfeedin,if they are it wud xplain y d lil man is suckin,boys eat a lot,my lil man sucks for upto 45minss at a time,nt to talk of u with twins

@tjskii,how are you doing?n aos d little man...am not doing exclusive breastfeeding but av not bin feedin dem up to 45mintues...and for the bathing,I dnt tink I wil bathe them myself

Hello Mary,the lord is ur strength,he'll see u thru

@ humming,y u wan feed dem for 45mins,u wan overfeed dem ni,for dia age they shud be taking bout 60-90ml bottle of milk per feed(weneva thyr hungry),and mak sure u pour any remnants away o,its nt safe to kip alreadymade milk more than 20mins

@mcfemad,try buying ori oyo for d baby(its sheabutter,but a bit refined dt it dosnt av d awful smell of pure shea butter)its really good,works for colds/catarr/nappyrash,infact d tin na gbogbonishe ,got to tell u,I don't av faith in such things,but it worked wonders for my 1st kid,infact I started usin it as his bodycream,and tel madam not to bathe him at nite o,d weather isn't conduciv right now

@prett trust
congrats on ur pregnancy. May it happen to me that way after delivering this one IJNA

tjskii: Hello Mary,the lord is ur strength,he'll see u thru

@ humming,y u wan feed dem for 45mins,u wan overfeed dem ni,for dia age they shud be taking bout 60-90ml bottle of milk per feed(weneva thyr hungry),and mak sure u pour any remnants away o,its nt safe to kip alreadymade milk more than 20 mintues

ok ma, I mean av nt bin breastfeeding dem up to 45mints...(Cnt wait for tomoro to come so dat I can have an elderly one here

Hummingbird: aite ma'am,I was already crying dis evening bt I thnk God..m feeding them well oo...and I jst kissed them for you

. Sorry dear,all will be well in Jesus name. U̶̲̥̅̊ dnt av to worry anymore since U̶̲̥̅̊ aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ expecting an elderly person today.God will take care of them

tjskii. 45minutes for feeding?? No wonder boys love their mums. Weldone. God will be with u

My Lo has been less active for the past 2 days that I started to get worried, now this morning he/she has been dancing azonto in my tummy and I'm so relieved. I'm never going to complain that he is moving too much again.

I also feel so happy whenever i feel the bubble-burst like kicks. Husband cant wait to feel it too. At what week will sweetie get to feel his baby kick?

Thank you Tjskii, we'd applied that and he's feeling better. How are u doing and my son's friend. My son do not take up to 45 mins to suck but can suck more than five times in an hour-granny said that's how I did then. No wonder men love breasts die. *modified*

@mcfemad. Ohh. little man looks so grown. I cant wait to carry my own tooo. Lol @ *men love bossom die*

@mcfenad, he is so cute. May God preserve him 4 us. @tjskii, more grease to ur elbow. @hummingbird, thank God an elder is cuming.
@all, i think we need lil babes 4 d lil guys in d house, those next, take note. Lols

Awww see his cheeks o,cutey,kai I love babies ,wen I get energy I go submit my roborobo bobo pic ,d youngman dropped in weighing 4kg

@rukemi and beauty tanks

Rukemi ul start to feel ur lo kick regularly from lik 24wks and above

Hello house God blessed my family with a bouncing baby boy yesterday at 7.30 am so happy and my husband is the happiest dad in a whole world pray for other preggies that theirs shall come easily ijn

Congratulations opeoluwa, God has really blessed us with plenty bouncy baby boys. I tap into the grace for a boy ijn.

opeolukoya: Hello house God blessed my family with a bouncing baby boy yesterday at 7.30 am so happy and my husband is the happiest dad in a whole world pray for other preggies that theirs shall come easily ijn

wow. Congrats and wish u Gods blessings.

Good evenin all mummies,I didn't bath my boys tonite o,even dis morning I was just praying all along,even husby sef join me...@tskji,even wen I breastfeed my boy for 28mintues(I checkd the time,the moment I put him down,he starts sucking his hand again...plus they are getting smaller o or maybe my eyes