Hi guys I need your prompt advice or suggestion as this can salvage the situation am in.
I have a girlfriend whose ex as she
described him to me use to give her the
beating of her life. It happened that they
had been in a relationship for about 6
years. When we came to know each other,
she told me about how she was been
beaten and scolded like a baby in the
hands of his ex because he is too jealous
and possessive. she confronted him that
she is quitting the relationship but the guy
responses by threatening her that she
can't quit or else she will loose if not her
life but her legs. She called immediately
when the guy burst into her mum's shop
looking for her in a raging mood that she
retracts her declaration for quitting the
relationship. Recently she was with him
and he discovered that she had been
having a new guy through her phone chats
with me and he was in no hesitation to
continue from where he stops by beating
her to stupor and after took her to the
clinic for treatment. The girl loves me and I
do too...don't know what to do as she
confesses to me because the guy reiterated
that she can't quit except she loose her
life. pls I need your urgent advice

op,[b]get involved but not directly![/b]tell the girl to involve her parents,the guy's parents and the police and report the guy's threats.he'll probably be made to sign an undertaking stating that-should any suspicious physical harm come to the girl,he'll be held responsible!
that alone should keep the guy away for a long time and render his threats empty.
goodluck!

Slimyem has said it all. This is a threat to her life. Let her do it fast before he drags her to an oath and her early grave. I had a friend whose guy was almost like that. She must not be with her friends or laugh when he is speaking to her on phone, yet he blames it all on almighty love.

~Killz~:
No matter what you do, DON'T get involved. . . Commonsense. You can advice her on what to do, but don't you ever be presumptuous enough to get involved directly with her "boyfriend". . .

Else. . .

Thank for your kind advice.never will I allow myself to indulge in that such suicidal mission because I believe its none of my business to confront the guy..thanks once more

slimyem: op,[b]get involved but not directly![/b]tell the girl to involve her parents,the guy's parents and the police and report the guy's threats.he'll probably be made to sign an undertaking stating that-should any suspicious physical harm come to the girl,he'll be held responsible!
that alone should keep the guy away for a long time and render his threats empty.
goodluck!

thanks slimyem..I'll try talk to her on your
invaluable advice..

So you just gonna stand idly by while this guy beats the living daylights out of your girlfriend?

What type of man are you? If it were me, the next time he trys to lay a finger on her. I would give him the asswhoopin of his life. Unless you're scared?

dat girl is a Moronn. Sims she njoys d beatings. Smhip.

SAFO: So you just gonna stand idly by while this guy beats the living daylights out of your girlfriend?

What type of man are you? If it were me, the next time he trys to lay a finger on her. I would give him the asswhoopin of his life. Unless you're scared?

Not scared to fight for justice but not this futile effort for the sake of love...

~Killz~:
Czay bro. Actually, she's not officially your girlfriend since she is yet to quit the other relationship. Bone story, you are not a coward and you are not scared. Na commonsense you dey use. Have you seen any man that died as a result of using commonsense?

You hit it on the head*pako...

So really it's not love for you because if it were, you would fight for it? Abi

I agree that you should stay away but you can also advice her. Like telling her to report to the police and try to cut the relationship fast