thanks

Lol, he is a good Samaritan. I know his type, mr do good. He obviously likes company, is yours not enough for him?

2 bedroom flat IMO is too tiny for a married couple to use play 'bed and breakfast' to friends.In as much as your husband wants to help,he should remember that he is married now and consider you too before accepting guests.

It's possible your man have squatted with them at one time or the other in the past so you'd have to apply wisdom here.

Btw,is it that you don't want the guest or u detest his smoking habit?Tell your husband that the guests smoking disturbs you and ask him again when the guest intends leaving.Insist on a date and remind your husband 1 week to the day so he can as well remind his friend.

If everything else fails,invite your mom for a 1 week visit.That should do the trick.
Patience,my dear.Patience.

@jennykadry,Thank you.Mr do good indeed,i wonder if my company is not enough.
@ifyalways thank you 2 for ur advice,i will be patience like you said,but won;t stop talking about it to him until he adjust himslf.inviting my mum means his whole family will start coming one after another without leaving since they don;t ve anything important doing where they are.whereas any member of my family that will come can never spend more than 2wks before they go back,so i don;t think thats a good idea if i don't want heart attack.