Am a 21years guy thats in love with 23years old girl we have been dating for almost 2years now.she live in lagos but i live in canada but we have decided to get marry sometimes dis year but am scared
am i too young to get married?
is she too old for me?
am i taking things too fast?
i need ur advice i don't know what do i just wanna get married to her n be with n start family.

Why are you so desperate to get married?
Do you work or school? Can both of you afford a family? I'm guessing she will move to Canada with you after marriage. Can you afford to do so at this age? Do you have plans to further your education?

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What happened to your car business in Lagos?

Not too early if u have d money to take care of ur family.age is d problem do wat u think is d best.wish u luck

yeah am in school and am working and i have my main business but i don't think getting married is gonna stop any of dis and also she is gonna be working too.
about she moving to Canada when we get married am not sure yet cuz she dont wanna live in Canada she wanted me to move to Nigeria so mostly likely am gonna move to Nigeria cuz i have always wanna move there anyways

nothing happened to my car business in lagos y?>

Do you think you can afford to take care of a family now? And again, whats really your reason for rushing into it? Sex?

yeh i think i am n i dont really feel like am rushing it i just wanna be with her thats it n not sex lol

kunlery911: yeah am in school and am working and i have my main business but i don't think getting married is gonna stop any of dis and also she is gonna be working too.
about she moving to Canada when we get married am not sure yet cuz she dont wanna live in Canada she wanted me to move to Nigeria so mostly likely am gonna move to Nigeria cuz i have always wanna move there anyways

am worried about the age difference, you may not be able to handle it as u get mature. Think wisely with God's help.DO NOT RUSH.

age is just a no and d difference is not much. Go on if u truly love her. Pls call me or flash then i will call back i want 2 conferm somtin frm u in canada. My no 2348066692485

yeah i really love her n i wanna marry n also the age thing i don't really think about it cuz it doesn't show at all cuz we really free to each other

It's sweet that you are feeling all that lovey dovey but at that age such sweet feelings may swoon one into making unsound decisions. It's also sweet you innocently love her like that and just want to make a home with her but like others have asked "Can you really handle having a family now?"----your answers sounds like you may.

I will suggest that you give the relationship more time to be sure that this is what you really want to do.
The decision to relocate and be with her is a big one too, think seriously about it before making the leap. Make good decisions for the two of you okay. The 2 years age difference ain't nothing to me.

your post alone shows you are not confident enough to handle this. you sound apprehensive already and that's a red flag. just take it slow - that's my plain advice.

pato405: your post alone shows you are not confident enough to handle this. you sound apprehensive already and that's a red flag. just take it slow - that's my plain advice.

seconded,but why d rush?it is beta 2 be married at 30 n be ready 4 d ups n downs dan 2 be married at 21 n at 30 ur luk bak 2 ask ursev why did i make dis discision.