eeyah, I pray that God take control of the union and bring you and her healing--physically, spiritually, and mentally.  May the God of joy bring you both joy everlasting.

Seun couldn't have said what he said better. Take his advice.

just another fricking attention seeker

his latest posts:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=64700;sa=showPosts

specific quotes:

jamyle:

My girlfriend told me she was proud of me last night, I was happy and felt loved. I love her though. Has your girlfriend or boyfriend ever told you he/she is proud of you?

from jamyle-November 05, 2006, 12:46 AM]
Hello Guys Jamyle is my name i live in Ikeja lagos, I need you guys to please help me on what to do about my girlfriend, To start with some weeks back i and my girl were in my house she ask me a question she said" Jamyle have you ever fell inlove with a girl at first site?? I said no it happens but not to me" I suspected that question and i was like Jenny u don trip for somebody abi, she said nooo i say okay oo, The following week we were in my room she took my phone flashed a number and deleted it immediately, the number called back and say"u flash me just now, i said noo this is a wrong number the guy hung up so i asked my girl did u flash any number she said yes i asked who was that she told me a friend of hers(i suspected her ever since i felt like this girl is cheating on me i've always had that instings i began to keep a close watch on her, [b]Where i am driving at is that today 4th nov 06 when she came to my house she to me jamil give me some money to call my mum i said ok i gave her 500 naira i followed her to the call center meanwhile i left while i was talking with a friend i suspect that she wasnt talking to her mum as she told me was i rushed to her grab the phone saw the number she was calling i found at that it was the same number that she flashed on my phone i said to her Jenny why?? You have been cheating on me right she no i said to her why u calling this guy this was the same guy that u called with my p[/b]hone she told me jamil he's just a friend, i said if he's just a friend you shouldnt hide to talk to him in my presence she couldnt talk, She has been doing lots of stuffs like this but i kept getting it over me because i love her, i've given her the freedom to my house i gave her all she wanted now it seems like i am not good for her anymore when i found out that she was calling another guy with my money i was mad at her i left there with annoyance she called me i shouted at her the last word she said to me was ""jamil i've told u i am dating that guy he's just a friend if that is the reason why u want to leave me then ""*********If u ask me do i still love her i will say yes but i always feel like she is cheating on me , Really i am confused.PLEASE GUYS I AM IN A DILEMA WHAT SHOULD I DO?

(( Guys make una no vex for the wrong wrong grammer wey dey for my story una sabi this thing no our mother tongue na learn we dey learn so we sabi pass ourselves, But really i want make una tell me wetin i go asap)

i thot u married your wife in 2005?

this brown eyed fella don't look like hes in any atlanta for that matter

as to treatment for schizophrenia causing paralysis in kids -

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schizophrenia#Medication

nothing about such side effects.

Am going to be candid with you here,

If i were to judge by your tone,i think its quite obvious that you really do not love that woman cause sorry dude even i feel no LOVE in the way you refer to her- dat na 1

Since you both are now MARRIED and if am correct,the priest in the church still reads "FOR BETTER FOR WORSE" in churches, well son, you gats to stick by herside through thick and thing.Don't come running in here thinking you are gonna get an excuse or reason to leave her cause your butt is married to her and you gats to help her through this difficult time which she's passing through in her life right now aiight.

, well as omo Niger if you take off from her side and dissappear ,NO BE TODAY NOW, its obvious you used her white ass to get your papers. So don't come in here pretending to care for her.Lets call a spade a spade,if you want a safe house where you can run to,i can tell you where to hide your ugly black ass in Kansas aiight.


                TILL DEATH DO YOU BOTH PATH OMO NIGER

@poster

I really hope that you'll take time to read through all the answers to your post, its not often that nairalanders can be this helpful!!! Better still you should print out all the suggestions  carefully go through them.

Its good for you that you are in the US, schizophrenia can be managed and most times with the right drugs (which are readily available in your location) it can be managed!!

However, i want you to note that the relapse could be due to the fear of losing you once you get to know of her condition. This could have put her under severe mental stress which triggered off the onset of the symptoms again, therefore i believe her cure and future is in your hands.

Let her know that you are there for her and you will not abandon her (i assume that is the case since you are here looking for a solution to her problem). This will reduce her mental stress give her the chance to live a relatively normal life.

Get her into a healthcare program, its not a stigma in America to have a personal "shrink", in fact its an accepted  fact we all have our quirks and bent, this will help both of you a lot.

And as par kids, yeah, you can adopt but it is also my considered opinion that if she remains stable for 5 years (the freudian school postulates even less) then nothings stops her from giving birth to a child normally. IF AND ONLY IF SHE HAS A SUPPORTIVE HUSBAND!!!

So you see, its all in your hands, you could choose to walk away and start a life with someone else again------if you can live with your conscience, OR you could decide to stop thinking about yourself and help another human being whose sanity depends on you get a fresh handle on life-----


Peace!!!

And if you are here to just waste my time--------Thunder fire you and your family

Oyibo marriage!

I bet if you had met her on the internet and she told you she was residing in Somalia, you will not agree to the marriage.

The lure was not just the woman, the lure was also America!

I must say that you were feeling damn lucky to have landed 'love' in America.

I must say you are an opportunist but underestimated the bad side. _{OYIBO WEY NO SEE LOVE FOR AMERICA, NA NIGERIA E COME SEE AM.}

Bros, I do not pity you.

That lady brought you to yankee _{YOU NO FLY REACH THERE.}

Cater for her and love her. _{MARRIAGE NA FOR BETTER FOR WORSE.}

Only pray she does not blow your head off one day. _{AND NEVER ABANDON HER.}

wow this is a tough one, that illness is rather serious, also known as the illness of the young. hmm well here is the problem, as nigerians we arent brought up to understand or deal with these type of things. Just an american friend telling me they are depressed or insomniacs, nad have to take medication for that freaks me out. Nna i wish u the best of luck i honestly dont know what i would do in your position, but i pray no one gets too hurt in the end, regardless someone will.

I guess its a good thing that she is in the Us, nad not nigeria where by they will leave her and say she is a crazy woman.

When I first read your piece seriously what crossed my mind was YAHOO WEDDING. But after going through the replies I began to feel for you. All the same the likes of Seun and the second poster have said it all, So Americana-husband you are now in America, try and educate yourself with all the materials you find helpful,  I'm still not sure if I pity you sha cos the WIFEY mention DEPRESSION na you come decide (as per sey U be in-house-Doctor) sey no be serious ailment (my mind still de insist se na America interest U pass the woman),

Sorry

@ poster,

congratulats u r in usa!!!!!!!!!!!

who cares if u married a pscyo wife who may neva give birth?the most important thing is thing you r in usa

so wat if she warned u,just marry her get here an discharge.


but wait a min,r u complain?

@poster
You did not tell us if you loved your wife? If you do then you have to help her through this, if you hooked up with her to get to the US, then you can encourage her not to take her medications and when her behaviour gets to bad have her committed. That way you keep the property and can get an undamaged woman.Even if they do not commit her permanently she can still spend most of her time in a mental hospital. To start life with such a liability is not to be considered, Afterall you did not cause her madness. Admit you made a mistake and move on.

i've got got the sentence for u

'either u are suffering from a mild amnesia or u r just a pure gold-digger'

this is a lesson to yahoo lovers, be wear of psychs.

medaura:

this is a lesson to yahoo lovers, be wear of psychs.

Wonders will never end.  The day this woman does not take her medication, she might just turn into one kind "Jim Iyke" like this.  Hmmmmmmm!  Say God spoke to her.

@Poster
Are you a Nigerian?
Is your wife a Nigerian?

This might shed more light on the nature of your intentions about going into this union. I am trying to find out what you guys had in common before you decided to run over to America and get married. I smell a Yahoozee something here.

Hey!!! You wanted a Visa to the US?
You got one ***Kolomental***

Further Advice; Still have brothers who want to live in Us? Let her the ***Kolomental*** spare her remaining sisters. By the time you will notice, you and your family members will be living and transported to the US for free.

^singing O O O oooo Kolomental

But wait a min are you sure you're really ok? Read your previous posts

Quote
  from jamyle-November 05, 2006, 12:46 AM]
Hello Guys Jamyle is my name i live in Ikeja lagos, I need you guys to please help me on what to do about my girlfriend, To start with some weeks back i and my girl were in my house she ask me a question she said" Jamyle have you ever fell inlove with a girl at first site?? I said no it happens but not to me" I suspected that question and i was like Jenny u don trip for somebody abi,  she said nooo i say okay oo, The  following week we were in my room she took my phone flashed a number and deleted it immediately, the number called back and say"u flash me just now, i said noo this is a wrong number the guy hung up so i asked my girl did u flash any number she said yes i asked who was that she told me a friend of hers(i suspected her ever since i felt like this girl is cheating on me i've always had that instings i began to  keep a close watch on her, Where i am driving at is that today 4th nov 06 when she came to my house she to me jamil give me some money to call my mum i said ok i gave  her 500 naira i followed her to the call center meanwhile i left while i was talking with a friend i suspect that she wasnt talking to her mum as she told me was i rushed to her grab the phone saw the number she was calling i found at that it was the same number that she flashed on my phone i said to her Jenny why?? You have been cheating on me right she no i said to her why u calling this guy this was the same guy that u called with my phone she told me jamil he's just a friend, i said if he's just a friend you shouldnt hide to talk to him in my presence she couldnt talk, She has been doing lots of stuffs like this but i kept getting it over me because i love her, i've given her the freedom to my house i gave her all she wanted now it seems like i am not good for her anymore when  i found out that she was calling another guy with my money i was mad at her i left there with annoyance she called me i shouted at her the last word she said to me was ""jamil i've told u i am dating that guy he's just a friend if that is the reason why u want to leave me then ""*********If u ask me do i still love her i will say  yes but i always feel like she is cheating on me , Really i am confused.PLEASE GUYS I AM IN A DILEMA WHAT SHOULD I DO?

(( Guys make una no vex for the wrong wrong grammer wey dey for my story una sabi this thing no our mother tongue na learn we dey learn so we sabi pass ourselves, But really i want make una tell me wetin i go asap)

@Poster,

If this your story is really true, I suggest you seek the face of God and do not lean on your own understanding. Seek God in prayer and he will guide you on what next step to take. Good Luck.

My dear bro,. I understand what u are going thru.Pls mail me 4 a private discussion ndt364@yahoo.com
Dont despair there is hope

@ oyb and coleslove


Na wah for una investigations oh!

Obviously have figured the poster out.

I think what you need is serious prayers,you know when science fails and it seems that all hope is lost,then that is the right time to turn to God.I will personally recommend the Healing School of Christ Embassy either in Nigeria or South Africa. They are about starting the session in Nigeria.Good luck

according to faze,this one na real mental case.i suggest to you take her to the healing school of christembassy for healing or you become a partner with the healing school. i promise you that you will see changes in a jiffy,schiz, is a very bad mental disorder that makes people to hallucinate when it get to the higher stage i bet you might not cope with her again.so make hay while the sun last.peace .

people no get eyes at all. Dem still dey advice person wey dey Ikeja dey lie?

The bright side of your story is that you're in US now. People like that are usually chained and maltreated in naija.

Depression is not the same as schizophrenia, but could occur together.

If you're in GA, NY, or NJ I could refer you to some colleagues of mine in pyschiatry, if you don't already have one.

Good luck, and be strong.

ol'boy,
you better start preparing your grave cos she'll just wake up on e morning and stab you.
she'll claim insanity and go scot free.besides its her country.
i guess she's MADLY in love with you

Beloved bro,
Your wife will not continue to be drug adict all the days of her life. And from ur feeliings, u are really in digust.
Pls PRAYER is the best solution to this kind of problem. Take HER FOR DELIVERANCE, wat she is passing thru is a torment frm evil spirit.
She is possessed.
so with prayers, she will be deliveered from the power of darkness.
may the Good Lord strenghten u.
Never be discouraged bc the the Lord can make her well.
All the best.

x

@davidylan

me sef i tire

simple comprehension

THE POSTER IS FAKE SO IS HIS STORY

OKAY

STOP GIVING HIM ADVICE

_{[s]NL and all these celebrity posters i'm sure he copied the story from punch or city ppl mag[/s]}

na wa for nairaland oh, so you mean someone can just bring one super story for us to be discussing and giving advice?

@ poster
Bros, take it easy oh, if it is true, then take it for 'its all right' but if na joke, abeg its too expensive oh.

it is well , just make sure she tks her meds and she will feel more better