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Poll: Can you forgive your spouse if you get to find out he/she has been involved in an extra marital affair?

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After An Affair by RonniesWorld(f): 3:10pm On Mar 25, 2012
In a marriage, extra marital affairs is one thing dat is difficult to overcome especially for the party who is at d receiving end. Question is: how does one get over the hurt of an affair by one's spouse and rebuild d trust dat once used to be in d marriage. How easy or hard is it to forgive? Hard but achievable. Comments pls
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 3:30pm On Mar 25, 2012
Ronnie's World:
In a marriage, extra marital affairs is one thing dat is difficult to overcome especially for the party who is at d receiving end. Question is: how does one get over the hurt of an affair by one's spouse and rebuild d trust dat once used to be in d marriage. How easy or hard is it to forgive? Hard but achievable. Comments pls
Re: After An Affair by Nobody: 1:05am On Mar 26, 2012
Ronnie's:
Question is: how does one get over the hurt of an affair by one's spouse and rebuild d trust dat once used to be in d marriage.

TIME, TIME and MORE TIME again, thats what it will take someone to get over the pain/hurt of being cheated on. as for the TRUST, i doubt you can fully trust someone again, as there will always be the memory of what he did in the back of your mind. you would eventually forgive but probably never forget what that person did.

How easy or hard is it to forgive?


forgiving is the easy part, what you do afterwards is the important point. the fact that you forgave someone doesnt mean you have to stay with them. some people never forgive their partner and still stay with them, for the rest of their lives, while others forgive and divorce their partner while wishing them a happy future life.

one thing is sure, living your life carrying negative emotions (forever) towards someone that is potentially worthless is wrong.
Re: After An Affair by luckgames(m): 5:50pm On Mar 27, 2012
Ronnie's World:
In a marriage, extra marital affairs is one thing dat is difficult to overcome especially for the party who is at d receiving end. Question is: how does one get over the hurt of an affair by one's spouse and rebuild d trust dat once used to be in d marriage. How easy or hard is it to forgive? Hard but achievable. Comments pls
The evil has be done
Look at the man/ Woman has a whole
List 10 things you want from a marriage
See If you have 7 things keep you marriage, below 3 things
You need to really think hard, Don't stay in a marriage for the kids
If he/she is a good provider
The grass isn't greener on the other side
If you are calling it off
Get yourself together to put yourself in the market
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Re: After An Affair by LSkooker: 7:52pm On Mar 27, 2012
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TIME, TIME and MORE TIME again, thats what it will take someone to get over the pain/hurt of being cheated on. as for the TRUST, i doubt you can fully trust someone again, as there will always be the memory of what he did in the back of your mind. you would eventually forgive but probably never forget what that person did.



It is true in a marriage, extra marital affairs is one thing dat is difficult to overcome as said by some one,

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