Yomieluv: This might look like a scene from Nollywood film,but its actually happenin to me now..there is this girl of mine that we are into active relationship,havin unprotected sex.,and later she got pregnant for me,and all attempt to get rid of it proved impossible,as in we tried removing it thrice,and it kind of still there(i mean the pregnancy).we've used all method,drugs,injection,and even D&C,it didnt all worked.and the pregnancy is now visible to everyone,even the parents are now aware,and all fingers are pointin to me as the owner..last week,she called me,and told me that i'm not responsible for it,that she was raped at O.A.U. By a student when she went for postume,i was surprised that she kept such from me till this moment,considerin my effort on terminanting it,and all i've spent..naturally,my attitude changed toward her,and now she goes about telling people that i pregnanted her,and ran away..pls note that she didnt mention my name to her parents that i'm responsible earlier,but she's threating to do so now.i'm confused on what to do..advice please..no insults.

kambili190: no child should be called bastard. a child is innocent.

you don't want to be insulted, why are you throwing insults at a child?

well, I guess as you're old enough to have sex, you're old enough to know that babies come from UNPROTECTED sex. you will have to live with the consequence now. what you should do? behave in a way that is best for the child. you will have to find out if it'S really yours and if it is then you will have to take responsibility, one way or another, and make sure the INNOCENT child is allright and can grow up properly.

judging from your post, I doubt that you're mature and wise enough to do so and I feel so pity for this child!!!

Yomieluv: This might look like a scene from Nollywood film,but its actually happenin to me now..there is this girl of mine that we are into active relationship,havin unprotected sex.,and later she got pregnant for me,and all attempt to get rid of it proved impossible,as in we tried removing it thrice,and it kind of still there(i mean the pregnancy).we've used all method,drugs,injection,and even D&C,it didnt all worked.and the pregnancy is now visible to everyone,even the parents are now aware,and all fingers are pointin to me as the owner..last week,she called me,and told me that i'm not responsible for it,that she was raped at O.A.U. By a student when she went for postume,i was surprised that she kept such from me till this moment,considerin my effort on terminanting it,and all i've spent..naturally,my attitude changed toward her,and now she goes about telling people that i pregnanted her,and ran away..pls note that she didnt mention my name to her parents that i'm responsible earlier,but she's threating to do so now.i'm confused on what to do..advice please..no insults.

Goldieluks:


You are responsible, until the baby comes out and you two go for a DNA paternity test, brov. take heart!

denzel2009: If that baby should come out deformed peren, both of you would be in trouble..

rhemal: u shd take responsibity 4 d pregnancy&stop crying wolf.afterall when engaging in unprotectd sex u shd ve known what 2 expect.stop blaming d girl cos it takes two 2 tangle.didnt u read that i wrote that she was despoil.d.?.

Yomieluv: This might look like a scene from Nollywood film,but its actually happenin to me now..there is this girl of mine that we are into active relationship,havin unprotected sex.,and later she got pregnant for me,and all attempt to get rid of it proved impossible,as in we tried removing it thrice,and it kind of still there(i mean the pregnancy).we've used all method,drugs,injection,and even D&C,it didnt all worked.and the pregnancy is now visible to everyone,even the parents are now aware,and all fingers are pointin to me as the owner..last week,she called me,and told me that i'm not responsible for it,that she was raped at O.A.U. By a student when she went for postume,i was surprised that she kept such from me till this moment,considerin my effort on terminanting it,and all i've spent..naturally,my attitude changed toward her,and now she goes about telling people that i pregnanted her,and ran away..pls note that she didnt mention my name to her parents that i'm responsible earlier,but she's threating to do so now.i'm confused on what to do..advice please..no insults.

Yomieluv: This might look like a scene from Nollywood film,but its actually happenin to me now..there is this girl of mine that we are into active relationship,havin unprotected sex.,and later she got pregnant for me,and all attempt to get rid of it proved impossible,as in we tried removing it thrice,and it kind of still there(i mean the pregnancy).we've used all method,drugs,injection,and even D&C,it didnt all worked.and the pregnancy is now visible to everyone,even the parents are now aware,and all fingers are pointin to me as the owner..last week,she called me,and told me that i'm not responsible for it,that she was raped at O.A.U. By a student when she went for postume,i was surprised that she kept such from me till this moment,considerin my effort on terminanting it,and all i've spent..naturally,my attitude changed toward her,and now she goes about telling people that i pregnanted her,and ran away..pls note that she didnt mention my name to her parents that i'm responsible earlier,but she's threating to do so now.i'm confused on what to do..advice please..no insults.

Yomieluv: This might look like a scene from Nollywood film,but its actually happenin to me now..there is this girl of mine that we are into active relationship,havin unprotected sex.,and later she got pregnant for me,and all attempt to get rid of it proved impossible,as in we tried removing it thrice,and it kind of still there(i mean the pregnancy).we've used all method,drugs,injection,and even D&C,it didnt all worked.and the pregnancy is now visible to everyone,even the parents are now aware,and all fingers are pointin to me as the owner..last week,she called me,and told me that i'm not responsible for it,that she was raped at O.A.U. By a student when she went for postume,i was surprised that she kept such from me till this moment,considerin my effort on terminanting it,and all i've spent..naturally,my attitude changed toward her,and now she goes about telling people that i pregnanted her,and ran away..pls note that she didnt mention my name to her parents that i'm responsible earlier,but she's threating to do so now.i'm confused on what to do..advice please..no insults.