Our ladies are too ambitious. They put their eyes the "big" money. They will not accept a nice guy and build up a home together with him. Many of them keep turning down proposals. Their mind is on "any handsome dude with a lot of money, that will buy even what they may never need".

As a result some of them get used and dumped by some men. Because they know these ladies are just after the money and love is not in the equation.

So after finding out that life really does not go that way and that time is flying away, they will then start getting desperate, attending churches for special prayers, looking for any proportion of love at all and may even invest their "resources" if called upon or they believe it may hasten the possibility to get married.

Some others, just for the fun of it - believe they can do whatever come to their mind for now. Hoping that at any time they decide to give it up, every other thing about settling down will just fall in line - My dear you are not God. Life, time, events and chance does not work in your dictates!