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| Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by lorenzos1: 2:15pm On Apr 16, 2012 |
Dear friends, I met this gal while serving abt 3yrs ago I approached her and expressed my intentions to start a relationship wit her..she didn't giv me any response and started avoiding me until she was posted out of lag for service..we lost contact, but after service we stumbled @ eachother again we found ourselves atttending same church.so we got talking I made my intentions known again but this time she told me she already had someone and that we should remain as just friends. I felt very bad cause I really loved her, I had just got a fantastic job and career was really blossoming, all that was left was the virtuous wife.I decided to let her be, but after a while she won't let my fone rest wit cals and somehow she got me visiting her place she introduced to her parents and I was warmly welcomed we reallyy got close and my emotions came again. She told me she has someone even though I hear receive calls, all the while am with her I never met anyone... Sometime last week my laptop crashed and I really had to do some office work, so she borrowed me hers, while I was going through I came across d supposed bfs CV we read same course at different universities but I finished wit a 2.1 and he wwit a 3rd class and was stil an applicant....I was better than him wit every thing saw his pic and dressing...the whole thing got me mad cos it kept me wonderinng why she would chose him over me..even though I was d one spending time and money on her...I told her I didn't want to be friends again and that it was best we part ways before anyone really gets hurt..Now she claims that am just being jealous and immature... She says she values our friendship and doesn't want it to end like that..please I need advice..is it really possible to be jst friends with a gal u luv... |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by obotia: 2:25pm On Apr 16, 2012 |
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| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by lorenzos1: 3:22pm On Apr 16, 2012 |
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| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by Killz1(m): 3:26pm On Apr 16, 2012 |
It's possibility depends on the level of your maturity. . . From your story, you cant handle it, so end the friendship as You'll only get more hurt. |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by MoneyRule(m): 3:43pm On Apr 16, 2012 |
Same old story with ladies; wanting to have one and keep anoda. Was in dsame dilemma a few months back n i've got to say, being frnds with d lady u love while she loves anoda is rocket science(very,very hard). I think u should weigh the whole situation n really ask urself if u can handle jst being frnds, if u can, good if nt ask her 4 d very last time promising dat u won't ask again and letting her know dat u don't know if u'll b or nt b her frnd afta a -ve answer cos u don't know how u'll react to finally losing her cos at d moment all u can think of is being with her. If d answer is -ve jst try to move on & find sum1 else and give her as much time as evry oda tin in ur life lets u. OR Total Withdrawal works for some pple though(ur choice). I used d 1st one n it worked 4 me(answer was positive) bt dat's for my own situation. Sort out urs. Wish u d best! |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by slimyem: 3:48pm On Apr 16, 2012 |
obotia: Hello readers,WTF is this nonsense? |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by slimyem: 3:52pm On Apr 16, 2012 |
Killz.:Bingo! This is all you need! |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Apr 16, 2012 |
How can you 'love' a girl you're not in a relationship with?  |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by adl(f): 4:06pm On Apr 16, 2012 |
Its very possible to be friends with a babe you love but in this case, I think you shld continue to be her friend, overtyme she will fail in love with you. Been in a just friends rltnship with a guy and ended up failing in love with the guy or if you can't be patient, you can use this old trick on her. Withdraw your friendship and attention from her for a week or 2 weeks so that she misses you. When she comes begging or smth throw your proposal back at her, most tymes if she has been very dependent on your friendship, she can't say no again cos she will think she might loss you forever. |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by kpolli(m): 7:17pm On Apr 16, 2012 |
Truth is, she is enjoying ur money and ur time. . . Prolly dump u when her bf gets a good job. . . Speaking from experience here brov. . . Move on |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by Killz1(m): 9:12pm On Apr 16, 2012 |
shymmex: How can you 'love' a girl you're not in a relationship with?Ode. You don't love her after proposing to her. You love her prior to starting a relationship. It's that love that propels you to propose a relationship. . . 1 Like |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by smudge2079(m): 1:51pm On Apr 17, 2012 |
men, she's nt worth it. Move on wit ur lyf and am sure u will find sm1 betta. I had a case similar 2 urs months ago. .. Dere was dis gal i was crazy about, i did all 4 her, even to my last dime hoping i wud b able 2 convince her wit luv and care. She said we shd jst continue as friends dat she has a boy friend .I said ok. I later found out dat d boy she was crazy about wasnt even sending her 1 bit. I av stopd calling or picking her calls till date. I still like her til date but av moved on bro. u cant always have thinz ur way and av accepted dat, do same bro! |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Apr 18, 2012 |
move on son, she aint worth it, and never settle for second best |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by Nobody: 3:39am On Apr 19, 2012 |
I tink she got dat feelin 4 u 2,bt d unfortunate tin is dat shes alrday comitted 2 sm1 else b4 she met u again...it cud hav bin d other way round 2,so pls dnt blame her.I dnt se d reasön y u claim 2 luv sm1 bt stil wana stay away frm dem,wish her wel and stil stick arnd as her frnd(dats maturity).Put ur self in her shoes n visualiz hw u wil feel if ur gf dumps u,jst becos she tinks shes falin 4 an old frnd dat jst came out of d blue..my advc..maintain d frndshp bt get ur sf a gf,it wil help u 4get abt her |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by Exponental(m): 8:58am On Apr 19, 2012 |
If she breaks with d guy, do u mind having her shortly n losing her afterwards 2 anoda guy? Dont offer wat u cant take man! |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by sweetcocoa(f): 9:10am On Apr 19, 2012 |
obotia: Hello readers,  ,chei which pattern will these yahoo boys not use? Kai see format,abeg how much will you pay us for thanking him? Reply abeg let me know how to compose my own "thank you" letter on your behalf to him, oloriburuku  ,no go learn vulcanizing take dey manage your life,dey there dey wait for "thank you" letters  . |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by Nobody: 9:11am On Apr 19, 2012 |
I just think u shd let her be. Its so obvious she doesnt luv u, she doesnt intend 2 build a future wt u. 4m d way i see it, she's toying wt ur feelings and emotions. Bottom line is get d luv u have 4 her out of ur head nw b4 it proves difficult |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by sweetcocoa(f): 9:21am On Apr 19, 2012 |
OP I advice you move on with your life cos obviously you can't handle being"just friends" with her. I've been in that place where one of my very good friends was in love with me but i couldn't reciprocate cos i was into someone else,after a while i noticed he was growing cold towards me,i asked him what the ish was? and he said,he couldn't take being that close cos it was killing him slowly,i had no option but to let him go. I even noticed his love for me was interfering in most of what he did for me and that wasn't just fair cos it was as if i was taking advantage of his love for me,all that contributed to my letting him go,i missed and still miss him but hey it was for the best. See the truth is that you can never be" just friends" with her as your love for her will always get in the way of that,you won't be able to treat her like you would an ordinary friend,so just let go and you just may find your own love when you ain't even looking. Cheers. |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by slimyem: 9:26am On Apr 19, 2012 |
Killz.:seriously? Did you type this with your left foot? What happens to liking someone and then proposing a relationship? So now you have to LOVE before proposing a relationship? Huh? Smh! |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by Okontami: 9:34am On Apr 19, 2012 |
Guys, all these rub.b.ish happens when you are a kid or growing up. When you are grown, you will understand a fact of life " There is no friendship between a man and a woman" Its either u guys stay as Colleagues , etc. Once that stu..pid friendship comes in you guys are surely going to be banging your selves. You can tell me am wrong, but i know what am saying |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by Killz3(m): 10:04am On Apr 19, 2012 |
slimyem: seriously?If i love you, do i necessarily need to tell you "I love you" before i know i do? |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by apache77(m): 12:18pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
So, u looked at the other guy's pictures and he wasnt up to u? so u r wondering why she should chose him over you. You are very foolish..dat you've got a better paying job than her boyfriend wont make her love you more. What if you are spending time and money on her? go sidon..you be her mayee naa. You think its all girls that worry about money? maybe you simply dont connect with her core, she sees you aint soul mates, she doesnt necessarrily enjoy being with you with all your 'money'. Maybe you re too boring. maybe her shabby looking boyfriend makes her laugh more than you do, makes her happier with his personality, even though he is an applicant. So you can imagine how happy she will be with him if he had your money. You do not excite her enough. look for another girl with your personality fit.. Its not always about money, dude |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by NerdyPoet(m): 12:32pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
apache77: So, u looked at the other guy's pictures and he wasnt up to u? so u r wondering why she should chose him over you. You are very foolish..dat you've got a better paying job than her boyfriend wont make her love you more. What if you are spending time and money on her? go sidon..you be her mayee naa. You think its all girls that worry about money? maybe you simply dont connect with her core, she sees you aint soul mates, she doesnt necessarrily enjoy being with you with all your 'money'. Maybe you re too boring.#Gbam...you hit the nail right on the skull... ( •̃͡-̮•̃͡) |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by slimyem: 2:43pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
~Killz~:no,you don't have to but saying 'its love that propels you to propose a relatinship' is worth smhing at! Doesnt make sense! |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by Nobody: 3:29pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
I hav to say u r really fortunate cos u kno abt d oda guy. Most girls won't tell u abt anoda guy since u hav a good job and u r generous to her. Now Dat u kno every, I wonder wat u still doing with her. I kno it's a hard call to make Buh u gotta forget dis babe. It's typical of girls to hav someone they love truly and Kip a magga. In dis case u r d magga. Pls move on bro. She ain't worth shit. U gotta Bliv someone else is for u. There has got to be someone for u. U can Neva kno d heart of a woman. U might stay wit her hoping Buh someday she will say she is ready to date u whereas her heart is still with anoda. Move on Ooo. Dnt lemme see dis post again. |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by Killz3(m): 3:56pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
slimyem: no,you don't have to but saying 'its love that propels you to propose a relatinship' is worth smhing at!Helloooooo if i don't love you, i won't propose a relationship. The only difference is that i may not tell you "i love you", but that does not mean i don't love you!  |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by slimyem: 4:04pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
~Killz~:then speak for yourself bro! YOU love first before proposing a relationship-fine! But some people actually LIKE,PROPOSE then LOVE in the course of the relationship! |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by Killz3(m): 4:08pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
slimyem: then speak for yourself bro!Not in the OP's case though. . . It depends on how you meet. If i meet you at a party, then i may like, propose and then love. Even at that, if there's no love for you in my genes, i won't bother proposing to you. But the OP has already already liked, proposed and he really loves her, so what the hell are you blabbing about? Anyway sha, www.nayousabi.co.uk. |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by slimyem: 4:19pm On Apr 19, 2012 |
~Killz~:why your body dey hot? You chop winch? My counter was in relation to your generalized post below not the op! Killz.:anyway sha,www.naonlyuunderstandyourgibberish.com |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by kpolli(m): 9:52am On Apr 20, 2012 |
apache77: So, u looked at the other guy's pictures and he wasnt up to u? so u r wondering why she should chose him over you. You are very foolish..dat you've got a better paying job than her boyfriend wont make her love you more. What if you are spending time and money on her? go sidon..you be her mayee naa. You think its all girls that worry about money? maybe you simply dont connect with her core, she sees you aint soul mates, she doesnt necessarrily enjoy being with you with all your 'money'. Maybe you re too boring. Very wrong, the bf might not even be communicating with her and makes her cry. . . Its a woman we are talking about here, she might be happy with the poster but just have one stupid attachment to the BF. . . So don't make it look as if the poster is doing something wrong. . . . Cos as the poster said, when he tried to leave. . . she didn't want him to. . . . Cos no woman values a boring friendship. . . But about him just being her maga, I agree |
| Re: Guys Please...is It Really Possible To Be Just Friends Wit A Gal U Really Luv ? by Dyt(f): 9:59am On Apr 20, 2012 |
^ he loves me n we r frnds |
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