Why are women always interested in how much their boyfriend/husband earn? I'm not in a relationship now and when am in a stable relationship, i don't think it's healthy for me to disclose how much i earn to my GF/WIFE. Wait a minute, you have to trust before you can love and if i can't disclose how much i earn to my GF/WIFE, does it mean i don't trust her? Which also equates to me not loving her? I'm just thinking though. Actually i love with my head, i don't love with my pocket. Because you can't read a woman's mind. But me, the other way round, i would like to know how much my GF/WIFE earns and i don't think am being selfish about it Helooo!!! Afterall am the head, am the leader. I pity men who operate joint accounts with their wife claiming it is love. What as love got to do with money Guys would you disclose how much you earn to your spouse?

bennyraz: Why are women always interested in how much their boyfriend/husband earn? I'm not in a relationship now and when am in a stable relationship, i don't think it's healthy for me to disclose how much i earn to my GF/WIFE. Wait a minute, you have to trust before you can love and if i can't disclose how much i earn to my GF/WIFE, does it mean i don't trust her? Which also equates to me not loving her? I'm just thinking though. Actually i love with my head, i don't love with my pocket. Because you can't read a woman's mind. But me, the other way round, i would like to know how much my GF/WIFE earns and i don't think am being selfish about it Helooo!!! Afterall am the head, am the leader. I pity men who operate joint accounts with their wife claiming it is love. What as love got to do with money Guys would you disclose how much you earn to your spouse?

If you're married of course, what's yours is hers.

Talk about these things before u walk down that aisle,Know how much info u can disclose to each other so that it doesn't cause friction.
some don't disclose yet they live happily together.Others are open books but they never agree on anything.

SAFO:

If you're married of course, what's yours is hers.

ok. But some women like to know what you earn before they marry you. They say its for security. While others will make sure that you don't save a kobo when you are married and you disclose this to them. They keep looking for things you would exhaust you money on & they want to keep buying unneccesary buys.

pendo89:
Talk about these things before u walk down that aisle,Know how much info u can disclose to each other so that it doesn't cause friction.
some don't disclose yet they live happily together.Others are open books but they never agree on anything.

have you asked your spouse the question? Has he asked you? What was his reaction? What was your own reaction?