I know Men say they like to still be free after marriage but, didnt they make those promises infront of the pastor to stay by their woman for better or for worse. Why is it that once the wife is pregnant they start looking at the next thing in a skirt(Man or Women).If the roles were reversed you expect the woman to sit with you and possibly feed you soup to get you better.

Isnt the Woman carrying the baby that you both planted in her....STOP being selfish and PLS if you have to play out of Marriage, put a rubber on it...Dnt pass on some random disease on ur wife because you want some 5mins fun....

you don talk your own but does it make sense to them?
No!
Dont sweat it!

Honestly i think that behavior calls for divorce. I dont care what stupid traditions are in place. sleep with another woman= UNACCEPTABLE and then bring back something = HEAVEN FORBID. thats the day i kick you out

busybee24: Honestly i think that behavior calls for divorce. I dont care what stupid traditions are in place. sleep with another woman= UNACCEPTABLE and then bring back something = HEAVEN FORBID. thats the day i kick you
out

just kick him out
Good luck single mom

luckgames:

just kick him out
Good luck single mom

Ill rather be a single mum than an idiot whose dying of an STD or have an unfaithful husband.. guess choosing life and good health makes me a fool... God save us from ignorance

slimyem: you don talk your own but does it make sense to them?
No!
Dont sweat it!

Liv am make she dey frus,her husy dey Iyana ipaja dey price punnie

Oshisko!

busybee24:

Ill rather be a single mum than an idiot whose dying of an STD or have an unfaithful husband.. guess choosing life and good health makes me a fool... God save us from ignorance

Nobody is ignorant
Real life real issues
You are going to deal with issues the best way you know
Some time there are logical ways to deal with issue
You can go with emotion or common sense

luckgames:

Nobody is ignorant
Real life real issues
You are going to deal with issues the best way you know
Some time there are logical ways to deal with issue
You can go with emotion and common sense

It must be a slow day for me... so essentially you are saying emotion would be to leave a cheating husband as opposed to common sense.

busybee24:

It must be a slow day for me... so essentially you are saying emotion would be to leave a cheating husband as opposed to common sense.

Sorry, I am not in a position to tell you what to do
You have to look at the whole story, (the type of man)
There is a ten step process
Eg 1,----Did he love you? 2--Did he make a mistake 3 Good man, 4 Good provider etc.

Idowuogbo:
Liv am make she dey frus,her husy dey Iyana ipaja dey price punnie

Oshisko!

This is very funny, got me laughing out loud.



@OP
If a woman marries a man that she knows will definitely cheat on her, that's her cross to bear not mine.
Men don't change after marriage, what you see is what you'll get. It's hillarious when some women marry bad boys, hoping they'll change later .

silentlywild: I know Men say they like to still be free after marriage but, didnt they make those promises infront of the pastor to stay by their woman for better or for worse. Why is it that once the wife is pregnant they start looking at the next thing in a skirt(Man or Women).If the roles were reversed you expect the woman to sit with you and possibly feed you soup to get you better.

Isnt the Woman carrying the baby that you both planted in her....STOP being selfish and PLS if you have to play out of Marriage, put a rubber on it...Dnt pass on some random disease on ur wife because you want some 5mins fun....

blame GEJ

All these tough talking ladies aren't real! For me, I can only give my all to that humble and quite lady. Will be by her for better for worse. Can actually die for her! But for these over-sabi chicks, I feel no remorse hurting them! They shout heluva of hell over this and that and goes out to do worse of what they accuse men of! Fake-ass ladies! Mtchew!

La Parisienne:

This is very funny, got me laughing out loud.



@OP
If a woman marries a man that she knows will definitely cheat on her, that's her cross to bear not mine.
Men don't change after marriage, what you see is what you'll get. It's hillarious when some women marry bad boys, hoping they'll change later .

Good luck
Please keep looking for man that will not cheat
Don't let any man disrespect you by cheating and putting it in the community or your face
Man cheat period , very few man that don't cheat out of 10 men just 1
So stop play like I tell my friend
Girl look at the secret Service Agents, the case in U.S they are going to loss their clearance and job
I am not going to tell you what to do but play it smart and be happy

Please keep looking for man that will not cheat
Don't let any man disrespect you by cheating and putting it in the community or your face
Man cheat period , very few man that don't cheat out of 10 men just 1
So stop play like I tell my friend
Girl look at the secret Service Agents, the case in U.S they are going to loss their clearance and job
I am not going to tell you what to do but play it smart and be happy
[/quote][b[b]]that is so correct

All these tough talking ladies aren't real! For me, I can only give my all to that humble and quite lady. Will be by her for better for worse.[img]http://www.crzxy.info/abs[/img]

silentlywild: I know Men say they like to still be free after marriage but, didnt they make those promises infront of the pastor to stay by their woman for better or for worse. Why is it that once the wife is pregnant they start looking at the next thing in a skirt(Man or Women).If the roles were reversed you expect the woman to sit with you and possibly feed you soup to get you better.

Isnt the Woman carrying the baby that you both planted in her....STOP being selfish and PLS if you have to play out of Marriage, put a rubber on it...Dnt pass on some random disease on ur wife because you want some 5mins fun....

I personally dont blame such men. Im not saying its right but I understand why they do what they do.
U waste time and resources courting one chic who will do hard 2 get.
U play along believing she is some angel or she will colour ur life somehow
U get married and u realize there's nothing special. the sex is the high point and nothing else. After all the time wasting and money spending

Tell me why he shouldnt play ball elsewhere?

silentlywild: I know Men say they like to still be free after marriage but, didnt they make those promises infront of the pastor to stay by their woman for better or for worse. Why is it that once the wife is pregnant they start looking at the next thing in a skirt(Man or Women).If the roles were reversed you expect the woman to sit with you and possibly feed you soup to get you better.

Isnt the Woman carrying the baby that you both planted in her....STOP being selfish and PLS if you have to play out of Marriage, put a rubber on it...Dnt pass on some random disease on ur wife because you want some 5mins fun....

I personally dont blame such men. Im not saying its right but I understand why they do what they do.
U waste time and resources courting one chic who will do hard 2 get.
U play along believing she is some angel or she will colour ur life somehow
U get married and u realize there's nothing special. the sex is the high point and nothing else. After all the time wasting and money spending

Tell me why he shouldnt play ball elsewhere?

La Parisienne:

This is very funny, got me laughing out loud.



@OP
If a woman marries a man that she knows will definitely cheat on her, that's her cross to bear not mine.
Men don't change after marriage, what you see is what you'll get. It's hillarious when some women marry bad boys, hoping they'll change later .

Ha ha ha!

Dtz man's nature! 95% of married men cheat, even those that stand on the alter. The diff is that some cheat 'irresponsibly', while some close their tracks professionally. So make una manage us so, as una say make we no marry more than 1...

I was about 10 weeks pregnant when I stumbled on my hubby kissing and smooching another babe at a car pack. Information got to me from the security men that my hubby has been doing that for about a week. They said, he locks his office doors sometimes.

I was very hurt. I didn't sleep at home tht night. The worse was tht he initially did nt apologize & tried to deny it. I moved back home the next day & pretended that nothing had happened.

2 days after, he came begging, tht he was terribly sorry. He cried & wept like a baby. He said, he did nt know what came over him. He said, with my throwing up & newly developed moodiness he felt a repulse & sort comfort in the hands of his colleague. He is very much a xtian oh! If he fell, then any man can fall too.

Well, I forgave him & we are very happy.

Ladies, its easier to say u wld divorce the man immediately. I also said so, but when it happened to me, I remembered all the gd times we had had together, i remembered how we had bought suffered and conquered. I did nt want to get defeated & let another woman ruin my home. I chose to forgive him.

I learnt that as women, we are stronger than men when it comes to keeping ourselves. Men can get easily distracted, they love us their wife but at the same time, they want to have quick flings. Also, I noticed the single ladies go to any length seducing young married men! They tend to develop feelings to married men after their wife have brushed them up!

Ladies, please always pray for your hubby as they actually go through a lot of temptation. They are easily moved by what they see!

Nawa o

Kedu ihe ndi a n'ako here?

mogbomoya: I was about 10 weeks pregnant when I stumbled on my hubby kissing and smooching another babe at a car pack. Information got to me from the security men that my hubby has been doing that for about a week. They said, he locks his office doors sometimes.

I was very hurt. I didn't sleep at home tht night. The worse was tht he initially did nt apologize & tried to deny it. I moved back home the next day & pretended that nothing had happened.

2 days after, he came begging, tht he was terribly sorry. He cried & wept like a baby. He said, he did nt know what came over him. He said, with my throwing up & newly developed moodiness he felt a repulse & sort comfort in the hands of his colleague. He is very much a xtian oh! If he fell, then any man can fall too.

Well, I forgave him & we are very happy.

Ladies, its easier to say u wld divorce the man immediately. I also said so, but when it happened to me, I remembered all the gd times we had had together, i remembered how we had bought suffered and conquered. I did nt want to get defeated & let another woman ruin my home. I chose to forgive him.

I learnt that as women, we are stronger than men when it comes to keeping ourselves. Men can get easily distracted, they love us their wife but at the same time, they want to have quick flings. Also, I noticed the single ladies go to any length seducing young married men! They tend to develop feelings to married men after their wife have brushed them up!

Ladies, please always pray for your hubby as they actually go through a lot of temptation. They are easily moved by what they see!

You are indeed one of the reasonable ladies I have come across on the medium!!

More wisdom to your age I pray; and may God continue to bless you and your household.

Even Hilary didnt divorce Clinton

But all these 21yr old girls keep yelling divorce

Go ahead

Whatever.
I don't see the big deal in being a single mom, it seems like fun to me.seeing as how I am rich and everything. But you ladies that wish to remain in marriages where your husbands treat you like crap can do so. Whatever works for you.

I wonder wen we women ll realise dese men cheat naturally
Gosh, let it b

mogbomoya:


2 days after, he came begging, tht he was terribly sorry. He cried & wept like a baby. He said, he did nt know what came over him. He said, with my throwing up & newly developed moodiness he felt a repulse & sort comfort in the hands of his colleague. He is very much a xtian oh! If he fell, then any man can fall too.
Ladies, please always pray for your hubby as they actually go through a lot of temptation. They are easily moved by what they see!

@bolded,
So after swearing 'for better and for worse' he still decides to 'sort comfort' elsewhere simply because you were throwing up?
Some Christian.

fellis:
@bolded,
So after swearing 'for better and for worse' he still decides to 'sort comfort' elsewhere simply because you were throwing up?
Some Christian.

very good question!

poor man, needed to console himself because his wife is carrying his baby.
what a nonsense.

it's up to every wife or husband to decide what he / she is ready to forgive but the exuse is ridiculous.

fellis:
@bolded,
So after swearing 'for better and for worse' he still decides to 'sort comfort' elsewhere simply because you were throwing up?
Some Christian.

very good question!

poor man, needed to console himself because his wife is carrying his baby.
what a nonsense.

it's up to every wife or husband to decide what he / she is ready to forgive but the excuse is ridiculous.

mogbomoya: I was about 10 weeks pregnant when I stumbled on my hubby kissing and smooching another babe at a car pack. Information got to me from the security men that my hubby has been doing that for about a week. They said, he locks his office doors sometimes.

I was very hurt. I didn't sleep at home tht night. The worse was tht he initially did nt apologize & tried to deny it. I moved back home the next day & pretended that nothing had happened.

2 days after, he came begging, tht he was terribly sorry. He cried & wept like a baby. He said, he did nt know what came over him. He said, with my throwing up & newly developed moodiness he felt a repulse & sort comfort in the hands of his colleague. He is very much a xtian oh! If he fell, then any man can fall too.

Well, I forgave him & we are very happy.

Ladies, its easier to say u wld divorce the man immediately. I also said so, but when it happened to me, I remembered all the gd times we had had together, i remembered how we had bought suffered and conquered. I did nt want to get defeated & let another woman ruin my home. I chose to forgive him.

I learnt that as women, we are stronger than men when it comes to keeping ourselves. Men can get easily distracted, they love us their wife but at the same time, they want to have quick flings. Also, I noticed the single ladies go to any length seducing young married men! They tend to develop feelings to married men after their wife have brushed them up!

Ladies, please always pray for your hubby as they actually go through a lot of temptation. They are easily moved by what they see!

+1000 Quite apt to marital life. You are a woman of every man's dream.

The bottom line is as a wise lady you don't completely rule out the cheating tendency of your husband, but be prepared to handle it maturely if it happens. If you allow emotion to re-enforce your believe that your husband is all yours, no other woman but you becos you are married, you are however living in denial of reality.

mogbomoya: I was about 10 weeks pregnant when I stumbled on my hubby kissing and smooching another babe at a car pack. Information got to me from the security men that my hubby has been doing that for about a week. They said, he locks his office doors sometimes.

I was very hurt. I didn't sleep at home tht night. The worse was tht he initially did nt apologize & tried to deny it. I moved back home the next day & pretended that nothing had happened.

2 days after, he came begging, tht he was terribly sorry. He cried & wept like a baby. He said, he did nt know what came over him. He said, with my throwing up & newly developed moodiness he felt a repulse & sort comfort in the hands of his colleague. He is very much a xtian oh! If he fell, then any man can fall too.

Well, I forgave him & we are very happy.

Ladies, its easier to say u wld divorce the man immediately. I also said so, but when it happened to me, I remembered all the gd times we had had together, i remembered how we had bought suffered and conquered. I did nt want to get defeated & let another woman ruin my home. I chose to forgive him.

I learnt that as women, we are stronger than men when it comes to keeping ourselves. Men can get easily distracted, they love us their wife but at the same time, they want to have quick flings. Also, I noticed the single ladies go to any length seducing young married men! They tend to develop feelings to married men after their wife have brushed them up!

Ladies, please always pray for your hubby as they actually go through a lot of temptation. They are easily moved by what they see!

your marriage, your decision. but not the other woman betrayed, it was your husband! and be ready to see him doing it again. his excuses are ridiculous.

wondering why men would never listen to such s.illy excuses.