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Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by maclatunji: 10:47am On May 02, 2012
The woman is not a worthy wife, the husband is not a worthy husband. Looking at it logically, she cheated on her husband with her husband even if in her heart she was doing it with another man.

Hmmm... If the husband thinks she was being naïve and stupid, he should give her the word-lashing of her life. Then observe her demeanour, if she is truly truly sorrow, he can spare her (Wow, is this my evil twin typing?). I think they deserve each other.

I think the husband wants a divorce because she probably lied about her marital status whilst chatting with him, that is unforgiveable and if true he should get a divorce.

Many of the women we have nowadays are so immature, we have 25-30 year olds behaving like 17-year olds.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by OAM4J: 4:41am On May 03, 2012
Wahala!

The guy got what he deserves and the woman was foolish for cheating and more foolish for cheating with a stranger.

Guess the story is a fiction: 'This Life' series undecided
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by ektbear: 10:00am On May 03, 2012
both of 'em screwed up
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by gegee(m): 10:04am On May 03, 2012
tah! which kind fake story be this !
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by amosy007: 10:06am On May 03, 2012
The man is not doing is duty very well.. Thats why d woman fell easily.. Talkin 4rm expirience
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by bittyend(m): 10:07am On May 03, 2012
Women are so cheap nowadays - sending nude pix to a stranger is ridiculous. But hey, most women think like kids, behind the facade of what you see on the outside - once money is involved..

"Bytches will be bytches - as I ride in my chevy" - Dogg Pound!!

Never make a LovePeddler a housewife - and marriage is for su/ckers.. undecided

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Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by emmiesky(m): 10:10am On May 03, 2012
I recommend outright DIVORCE. The woman is a green snake in a green grass. Tomorrow she will do worse. So much for technological advancement. angryI recommend outright DIVORCE. The woman is a green snake in a green grass. Tomorrow she will do worse. So much for technological advancement.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by KINGwax(m): 10:15am On May 03, 2012
Outstrip: Actually both of them should stay together. He is no better honestly. He is also scum. Why should they separate and then go and be other peoples wahala.
nonsense! Since when has it become a sin to test loyalty? The girl is a b¡tch, she'll cheat regardless if it wasn't a test anyway
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by jaybee3(m): 10:21am On May 03, 2012
Recycled story
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by steve13(m): 10:24am On May 03, 2012
Not real, U̶̲̥̅̊ mean they never spoke on the phone?what re U̶̲̥̅̊ telling me?how can U̶̲̥̅̊ send (nude)pix to some one that never spoke to you over the phone? Re they chating on BB or which meduim? Or are U̶̲̥̅̊ telling me its only on FB?
Nice STORY!
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by EARLYBIRDS: 10:26am On May 03, 2012
THE MAN NEVER HAD A WIFE. WHAT HE HAD WAS A LIVE-IN LOVER. UNFORTUNATELY THAT IS WHAT AN INCREASING NUMBER OF TODAY'S MARRIAGES ARE. WE KEEP SAYING THAT THE MORALS OF TODAY IS A SHAME BUT THEY SAY WE ARE NOT MODERN. BAD MORALS BEFORE MARRIAGE WILL NOT TRANSFORM BECAUSE YOU SIGNED THE DOTTED LINES. THIS STORY IS A MIRROR OF OUR PRESENT DEPLORABLE VALUES(THANKS TO THE ORIGINATOR). I DONT BLAME THIS SO CALLED WIFE. THE BLAME GOES TO A PERMISSIVE SOCIETY AND THAT IS YOU AND I. ARE WE READY TO CHANGE? NO! WE LOVE FREEDOM! SO WHY CRY? !

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Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by inspirizu(m): 10:31am On May 03, 2012
I have had about this story before........ Bur its not real its just sumones imagination. I bet d op doesn't own d story because so many people av sent it to me earlier.
Its just a wild imagination to generate discussion. Shikenah
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Trimia(f): 10:32am On May 03, 2012
Truth is the man was wrong, his fictional character possess the same personalities he does which made his wife fall for him in the first place. Very indecent of her to send her nude pics though, but if they took a second to think about it, they'll see that his actions have made the woman fall for him all over again, and that would spice up the marriage
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by nerodenero: 10:36am On May 03, 2012
Negro_Ntns: They are both wrong!

The man knowingly lured her into the temptation. If he was doing his duties correctly she would not be in such a vulnerable situation to go online seeking affection from strangers.
Are you so sure he wasnt doing his duties as a husband?Will it be right to permit such excuse in any marriage regardless of who is involved?D babe Bleep up joo
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by i1: 10:42am On May 03, 2012
Unfortunately the man will not be granted ɑ̤̈̊ divorce by the court because the lady never commit the offence. He will be seen as a fool. He should just go home and tell her he is no longer interested i̅n the marriage
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by elchux: 10:43am On May 03, 2012
I luv the gist but it never happened. You can't create a fake facebk acc today and be able to have good number of friends. She ought to check out who your friends/ mutual friends are , women are not that dummies.

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Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by mikron(m): 10:53am On May 03, 2012
Na wetin all these social sites dey cause be dat. It works either way. The man might be the culprit too. But the woman 4ck up
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by omoghana22: 11:02am On May 03, 2012
the man is responsible for this issue. women are liable to fall 85% to temptations. no matter how good , educated, or loyal a woman is......she still need guidance from a man. he wouldn't have gone has far to that....he should have corrected the wife since he found out her weakness. correcting her with this evident will make her more mature.

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Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Sagamite(m): 11:07am On May 03, 2012
I will not condemn the woman because I am robustly confident majority of women will do the same or similar given the right circumstances and scenario.

I am enlightened enough and don't think women are that innocent. I am not a Real Man.

"Women are what they are, you have to accept it and manage it as best as you can" is my philosophy.

That said, it is imperative he dumps her and move on. As one of my friend's uncle (Uncle Joe) once told us impulsely while holding a can of beer, on our way out clubbing when we were teenagers: "Bwoy, fck love. Have some fun!"
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by jice(m): 11:08am On May 03, 2012
she is really irresponsible.
this is a choice difficult to make for anyone especially for husband and wife.
It might be her turning point if you can forgive her but trust has to be re-earned.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by LesbianBoy(m): 11:08am On May 03, 2012
elchux:
She ought to check out who your friends/ mutual friends are , women are not that dummies.
Womens are dummies o.....especially the NIGERIANS ones! (No offenseise)
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 11:08am On May 03, 2012
Its funny how people are saying what the man did was wrong. Theres nothing wrong about what he did.. At least now he knows the truth! Only God knows all the men she wld probably ve slept with, and the poor man wouldnt know.. Sending nude pictures of u thats meant for only ur husbands eyes? Imajine living with a lying wife..?

At least now he knows who he married.

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Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 11:11am On May 03, 2012
elchux: I luv the gist but it never happened. You can't create a fake facebk acc today and be able to have good number of friends. She ought to check out who your friends/ mutual friends are , women are not that dummies.

i quite disagree with you on that as you can create a facebook account today and add as many people as u want, some peeps ADD unknown "friends" with practically no mutual friend. that might av been d case

@ OP, i feel so sad when married ladies cheat on their husbands,after all the crooked runs u did before settling down finally,u no dey tire?

Seriously now,he oughta divorce her coz even the holy bible frowns at infidelity.

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Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Oddy1983: 11:12am On May 03, 2012
D man caused d trash. What eyes did not see will not disturb the mind. Ohun oju ko ri kii bokan je. Oddy truth sad
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by joanana(f): 11:14am On May 03, 2012
Negro_Ntns: They are both wrong!

The man knowingly lured her into the temptation. If he was doing his duties correctly she would not be in such a vulnerable situation to go online seeking affection from strangers.


My point exactly!!!!! grin
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Sagamite(m): 11:15am On May 03, 2012
BlueBarbie: Its funny how people are saying what the man did was wrong. Theres nothing wrong about what he did.. At least now he knows the truth! Only God knows all the men she wld probably ve slept with, and the poor man wouldnt know.. Sending nude pictures of u thats meant for only ur husbands eyes? Imajine living with a lying wife..?

At least now he knows who he married.


So fcking well said!

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Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by joanana(f): 11:22am On May 03, 2012
you dont except to give a dog a clean delicious meat shocked n he will simply ignore it? never.. the hubby got what he deserves but i detest the act of sending nude pics to a total stranger !!! come on!!!!!
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by solomon111(m): 11:27am On May 03, 2012
taryour:

lol. How does dice her into cubes n serve her to d vampires sound like divorce. She should be punished not divorced.
NONSENSE!
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Nobody: 11:32am On May 03, 2012
Both were wrong. more so the MAN. Morally speaking, it is easy to crucify the wife but I wonder if the man put the same level of effort and diligence into wooing his wife (and making her fall for him continually) as he had put into tempting her.

One foremost killer of mariages is that we (men) usually stop toasting (wooing) our wife after marriage. Don't forget - your wife's neglected womanliness is a stranger/playa's potential brand new, "tear rubber" discovery. Take care of what you've got.

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Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by honeric01(m): 11:33am On May 03, 2012
Well while others are condemming the woman totally, i'd say she should be condemned partially because she only fell for the man, obviously same way/words the husband told her during courtship that made her fell for him must have been used during these periods, but the only issue i have with the woman is SENDING YOUR PRIVATE PICTURES OVER THE INTERNET. that's plain wrong.

one more thing, how come the woman never noticed any similarities in the way the "e-husband" chatted and lured her and the real-husband? maybe she had it in mind to cheat too? hmmm but then this is just not good for both sides.

Conclusively, maybe the way was trying to spark up something in his wife in his absence, trying to see if she was going to be able to deduct that he was the one.

I use to change my voice when talking to my girl, sometimes she falls for the voice by not knowing i was the one, but once the words start getting longer, she detects some "words" traits and resembles mine, that's when she always comes back "to life' lol.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Sagamite(m): 11:35am On May 03, 2012
joanana: you dont except to give a dog a clean delicious meat shocked n he will simply ignore it? never.. the hubby got what he deserves but i detest the act of sending nude pics to a total stranger !!! come on!!!!!

That is why the hubby is entitled to go and get himself a clean delicious meat with brokortor arse and succulent bre[i]a[/i]sts.
Re: He Reveals His True Identity And Wants A Divorce by Orikinla(m): 11:36am On May 03, 2012
His wife is a PRO -STI-TUTE.

Nigerian girls and women are the cheapest layabouts on planet earth.

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