That something only they can answer.

Thank you.

let truth be told pls, THIS CANT WORK in the long run! surely this boy must grow up one day and move on with his life. Maybe you are spoiling him with money..pls save ursef the headache you must surely find yourslef in future and find a good husband for yourself. Make hey while the sun shine!

Leave that kid alone to get a life first!

Igbo man for that matter...mmmh the mama no go even gree..

Moremi... Great reply.
Keep it up dear. You have developed urself over the years.

udoka2: let truth be told pls, THIS CANT WORK in the long run! surely this boy must grow up one day and move on with his life. Maybe you are spoiling him with money..pls save ursef the headache you must surely find yourslef in future and find a good husband for yourself. Make hey while the sun shine!

Leave that kid alone to get a life first!

Igbo man for that matter...mmmh the mama no go even gree..

well he has more money than me. And he's more exposed than me.

Whatever dear, it wont work in future...save yourself the headache now.

It won't work so stop making excuses or coming up with excuses. You are an igbo girl so you should know better. That boy is too young to know what he wan ts in this life and by the time he discovers himself, he is walking.

idprincess: well he has more money than me. And he's more exposed than me.

Nne, he may indeed have more money than you; in fact, he may even be more streetwise than you (if that's what you mean by 'more exposed than me') but I very much doubt a 23 year old boy is operating on or near the same mental level of a 30 year old woman.

Don't let family/social pressure push you into a wrong move.

"Love is blind, but marriage is an eye opener".

In our cultural, egoistically charged up environment like Nigeria, it will take great patience and hardwork for this kind of relationship to stand the test of time.
Because every demon in hell will be set loose on the marriage.
@ Mazaje, gave a vivid explanation of what could happen in such relationship.

Both parties will have to be very dedicated to each other and be prepared to overcome a lot of things.

idprincess: well he has more money than me. And he's more exposed than me.

OK Marry him and deal with whatever happens

jennykadry: It won't work so stop making excuses or coming up with excuses. You are an igbo girl so you should know better. That boy is too young to know what he wan ts in this life and by the time he discovers himself, he is walking.

True dat!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ Poster it is better you don't deceive yourself and look for another man. there is no point in a relationship that the ratio of it's survival is 1:9, and don't even think that yours will be in that '1'....it might, don't get me wrong, but the odds are against you.

idprincess: well he has more money than me. And he's more exposed than me.

Madam stop deluding yourself and wasting your time, go and look for a man that is ready, no need seeing trouble and walking right into it. . .By the time he will be 30 you will be 37 hope you know what that means? Save your self all the drama. . .

@op the age difference is too much trust me. If he is up to 27yrs, that would have been different. A time will come when you will start picking offence unnecessarily. If he sends you on an errand, demands for food, sex etc u may end up start comparing him to your younger brother and start challenging him. When the break up happens (pls am not saying it will), everyone will be on his side.