Mr. Follow Follow...This is when a guy tries to monitor or restrict the movement of his girfriend so as to prevent her from cheating on him, flirting or straying a little. such a guy is just wasting his time. cos you cant stop a girl who wants to 'stray' from doing so, no matter the level of monitoring or restrictions placed on her. Cos if a girl wants to cheat on you, she would do it, and also do it gladly without giving a hoot. Same thing applies to a girl who monitors her boyfriend. most guys are flirts naturally, and cant be prevented from going after girls. even if you tie them to a tree, they'll still find a way to go after girls. Chasing/dating girls is like a tonic to some guys. a day without going after a girl, is like not having their favourite toy or pecriptions. So, whenever i see a girl checking her boyfriend's handset for msgs from secret lovers, or clothes and closets for any info/details of his secret affairs with other women, the thing dey tire me. cos, if a guy wants to cheat on you, he go do am well well. if you like monitor am from now till december. the same thing with a girl. you can't monitor a girl. Anytime she goes out, she will surely meet alot of men, either at the office, in school or at the markert. or when walking on the street. even if you like, seize her phone or keep her inside ur house, lock the door and go with the keys. All na waste of time. cos she'd still find a way of communicating/seeing any secret lover. and with the emergence of technology and the internet, cheating and flirting has now become very easy and interesting (to some people).cos a guy or a girl can be at home and be communicating and cheating on his/her partner on the internet. especially on facebook or twitter, whenever his or her partner is not around. Do you know how many guys and girls cheat on their partners on facebook or twitter. with all their lies and pretence online. luring, seducing and deceiving many guys and girls online, when they are already in a relationship (whether open or serious). So, there's nothing one can do to prevent his or her partner from cheating on him/her or straying a little. Even couples are also in the same dilemma. A man can't because he wants to monitor his wife, now abandon his work or business. except he also wants to become a full time house husband. even at that, all na waste of time. and a wife too can't monitor her husband. you wan follow am go work, or accompany him whenever he's going on a business trip? doing that wont stop a philandeering husband from still cheating on his wife. if he wan do am, he go still do am, even under her nose. the best thing to do, is to just leave everything to God. And make sure he's protected. There are some girls who are not even bothered if their boyfriend is cheating on them. Cos they know they cant do anything about it. it's only guys who stress themselves over such issues. Abeg, let her be. give her some space and also cut him some slack. Cos life na jeje!