Been dating this girl over 6yrs, we dated for like 2-3yrs n I got tired of her die-hard-love, she makes me feel like I'm a prisoner. After d first 2-3yrs d rest is a story. She still do d calling till date, she's a perfect wife material but does things like a house wife which I dnt wana put ma head in yet. Think she got a new guy (not sure) but we both can deny it that we're connected and can't really do without each other. Now we're jes like friends. Is it fair if I get her back from whoever she's dating? I'm confused!

if you know you are not ready to fix the things that weren't right the first time or make compromises needed in a relationship,then don't ask her back!
You'll only be wasting more of her time and planning for another future heartbreak!

free the babe jor

@slimyem; no heartbreaks in d first place. She's jes a perfect wife material but not a long term dating babe. All her tinz r best applicable when she's married. She was my first n I was her first. She can't stand talking more than 2mins on phone talkless of seeing me. We r jes too connected

As u don get ur own babe and she don get her own guy, why not
free her, but if na me I go still dey do parol with her o, on a coded level

@skii; I believe! I can always look out for anoda babe but someones u feel someone is d best you ever met. Had no serious babe cos I am not rili ready 4 one ni. Now I can't watch her go


@phish; I don't av a girl of ma own after her, + she's not dat kinda girl u think.

ok den.... I blive dat if u try to get her back and u succeed, u won't have time for her, and girls like dat need guys dat dey will spend much of dere time with

Skii: you see now, when my junior brother ask me to explain "what is the meaning of 'you don't know what you have until you have lost it?'
I will say, "go and ask uncle sunboy"

Skii: you see now, when my junior brother ask me to explain "what is the meaning of 'you don't know what you have until you have lost it?'
I will say, "go and ask uncle sunboy"

hahahaha, lol, now that was funny, but you are so on point, how ¤tragic¤

if I guess right the connection u talking abt is s3x yet u don't want to go even thou u r not ready for any serious business with her. isn't that selfish?

sunboy: Been dating this girl over 6yrs, we dated for like 2-3yrs n I got tired of her die-hard-love, she makes me feel like I'm a prisoner. After d first 2-3yrs d rest is a story. She still do d calling till date, she's a perfect wife material but does things like a house wife which I dnt wana put ma head in yet. Think she got a new guy (not sure) but we both can deny it that we're connected and can't really do without each other. Now we're jes like friends. Is it fair if I get her back from whoever she's dating? I'm confused!

this is why sometimes i think my mom is right when she says "[b]D[/b]o NOT invest in serious relationships while in your twenties. Men do NOT know what they want until they are mature. That is usually around their early to mid 30s!!"

I believe it more and more each day. What is the point in investing so much time in a woman only to tell her you're not ready to take it to the next level? Granted you two have been having s3xual relations which NO WOMAN would "give in" without some sort of feelings being involved. (They can say what they want to but as a woman I know better!)

You guys need to start explaining your true feelings and wants BEFORE the months and years pass on. Wasting a gals time, breaking it off and then getting "sad" and "lovey" when she is ready to move on is not cool.

A beg leave her alone. You didn't want her when you had her so let her do her thing without you.

exactly

Beync: if I guess right the connection u talking abt is s3x yet u don't want to go even thou u r not ready for any serious business with her. isn't that selfish?

No you got it wrong, its never sex. I never made her a sex machine because of what happened NO!

K, but u know u have all the time before u'l be ready to wife her. like u said, she is a wife material and she need to get the job doing since u r not ready.