The number one cause of stress among humans is relationships. Husband not getting along with wife, wife not getting along with husband. Children can't bear parents, parents don't understand children. Boss can't stand subordinate, Subordinate is exasperated with boss. Citizen not getting along with politician, politician don't understand want citizen wants. The list goes on.

The key to succesful relationships is knowledge, read proverbs 24:3. Solomon said the key to a successful relationship is not kissing, holding hands, sex or love. The key is knowledge, wisdom and understanding most people get divorced because they don't know how to live with each other. Not because they don't love each other.

counsellor: Do you love him?

wife: Yes.

counsellor: Then why are you divorcing him?

wife: He's a beast!

counsellor: But you love him?

wife: Yes.

.......................................

counsellor: Do you love her?

husband: Yes I do.

counsellor: Then why are you divorcing her?

husband: She's crazy.

counsellor: But you love her?

husband: Yes.

So you see, its not that they don't love each other. They just can't live with each other.

These days people think marriage is the solution to all their singleness problems, you got it so wrong.

Marriage will massively manifest your defects. Some people don't love themselves, how do you expect me to love you?

If you don't love yourself, why should I?

Here's a question for you. Would you marry you, if you knew you, the way you knew you? Think about that.

How does your breath smell in the morning? You want me to live with that huh?

How about the smell of your feet in the evening? Hmmmmm

Would you marry you, if you knew you, the way you knew you?

Marriage will manifest your defects, marriage will expose defects you never knew you had.

The loneliest place in the world is when you are married and not getting along.[color=#000099]The number one cause of stress among humans is relationships. Husband not getting along with wife, wife not getting along with husband. Children can't bear parents, parents don't understand children. Boss can't stand subordinate, Subordinate is exasperated with boss. Citizen not getting along with politician, politician don't understand want citizen wants. The list goes on.

Concentrate more on adding value to your life, disciplining yourself, educating yourself etc. so you will be a blessing to your spouse and not a curse.

Peace out folks.

ok.

A prolix post on communication alone? SMH

ArQueBusieR: A prolix post on communication alone? SMH

You probably can't look beyond the obvious errors, these write-up is not even close to being classified as prolix *SMH* At how myopic you are.

Killz.:

I'll be colossally damned if i read this [i]s[/i]hit!

Bloke, you already are.

Killz.:

I'll be colossally damned if i read this [i]s[/i]hit!

Bloke, you already are.

Risky_mallam: You probably can't look beyond the obvious errors, these write-up is not even close to being classified as prolix *SMH* At how myopic you are.

Especially from a nihilarian's POV. SMH

ArQueBusieR:
Especially from a nihilarian's POV. SMH

It takes a silly nihilarian to spot another nihilarian..

Most of people's suspicion of others stems from what they do on their own.

Hence, you are obviously the bigger nihilarian, with your nihilistic and unfounded views.

I laugh at you dude.. *spits sideways*

Risky_mallam:

It takes a silly nihilarian to spot another nihilarian..

Most of people's suspicion of others stems from what they do on their own.

Hence, you are obviously the bigger nihilarian, with your nihilistic and unfounded views.

I laugh at you dude.. *spits sideways*

Are you crying already? Wait for the artillery barrage, sucker!

ArQueBusieR:
Are you crying already? Wait for the artillery barrage, sucker!

Hahaha Punk, that obviously made you cry and think twice. Ooooh, I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings kiddo. , Anyways, where's the artillery? Oh you mean your outdated and inane vocabulary? Your ish is just a dud man . Ha! You've got your hands full. Now run along kiddo! I've got better things to do.

Risky_mallam:

Hahaha Punk, that obviously made you cry and think twice. Ooooh, I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings kiddo. , Anyways, where's the artillery? Oh you mean your outdated and inane vocabulary? Your ish is just a dud man . Ha! You've got your hands full. Now run along kiddo! I've got better things to do.

Hahaha! This guy must be Rowan Atkinson!! Huhuhu!!!

ArQueBusieR:
Hahaha! This guy must be Rowan Atkinson!! Huhuhu!!!

*yawns* Awwww, come on man. You showed a lot of potential earlier. Its getting Very dry, You've lost steam dude.

@ OP. I found this very interesting. Human relations is a very interesting subject. And it is true that people need to know and love themselves first.

Risky_mallam:

*yawns* Awwww, come on man. You showed a lot of potential earlier. Its getting Very dry, You've lost steam dude.

This is your field, apparently. I'm a novice. Haha!

yawns

khukhi: @ OP. I found this very interesting. Human relations is a very interesting subject. And it is true that people need to know and love themselves first.

Yeah, I'm glad you did. Human relationship is essential, hence the saying:
"One of the most important relationship in the world is not inter-personal relationship, rather it is intra-personal relationship" - Danny Myles Munroe

In other words, how do you relate with yourself? Don't answer that .

ArQueBusieR:
This is your field, apparently. I'm a novice. Haha!

So the OP actually expects anyone to read that? He is on a long thing oooo

Mynd_44: So the OP actually expects anyone to read that? He is on a long thing oooo

Honestly we can never know , but don't you think the world would be such a boring place if everyone reacted to this post the way you did ? Just saying .

The thing you are sitting on is "longer" than mine ..

Risky_mallam:

Honestly we can never know , but don't you think the world would be such a boring place if everyone reacted to this post the way you did ? Just saying .

The thing you are sitting on is "longer" than mine ..

By the grace of god we are different!

khukhi:

By the grace of god we are different!

Thank God o, if not ... ..

khukhi:

By the grace of god we are different!

Yeah thank God , if not ....

Risky_mallam:

Honestly we can never know , but don't you think the world would be such a boring place if everyone reacted to this post the way you did ? Just saying .

The thing you are sitting on is "longer" than mine ..

I am sitting on a bench that is barely three foot long. Compare it with yours

Mynd_44:
I am sitting on a bench that is barely three foot long. Compare it with yours

I'm sitting on a stool

Risky_mallam:

I'm sitting on a stool

lolz

#Yawns# boring piece of shit NEXT!!!

cindyrella: #Yawns# boring piece of shit NEXT!!!

How very candid of you Milady