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Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Nobody: 5:34pm On May 18, 2012 |
adonisgold: Your point? |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by adonisgold: 5:49pm On May 18, 2012 |
femi4: You are very wicked, what you did was more like "paying her back" for rejecting you when you were poor. Don't mind him jare! When he went to see the father what did he expect? She was dancing around him , is he a masquerade? She came for youth meeting in your house, what's wrong with that? Is she not a youth? Marry her! |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by adonisgold: 6:04pm On May 18, 2012 |
omega25red: Are you for real? It's the posters fault that he didn't set the parameters of what they had going on and now since he has money he wants to bang every girl he sees. |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by jezzmik(m): 6:14pm On May 18, 2012 |
If na man say make u marry her let him marry her by him self or if na woman let her marry her for her son or her famly member or even another church member if na by forc to marry the mumu so that the can play thier noncens games in thier fullsh church. Ur free to move to another church god na god. Shoooo the dey crazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz wit big tits |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by DukeNija(m): 7:15pm On May 18, 2012 |
@poster You are the kind of guy Nigerian whimps should look up to as a role model. You too gbaski, omo yagbayaski. You are a sharp guy. I wish all those fools coming to Nairaland with swollen tear filled eyes could take a cue from you, maybe relationships would be taken much more serious. If you marry that babe, e no go better for you. Bloody Gold-digger. Go find one better, correct, hot, 21st century working class belle abeg. Your level don rocketeer. |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by DukeNija(m): 7:16pm On May 18, 2012 |
adonisgold:Are you sure you are Ok? |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by dubem3(m): 7:31pm On May 18, 2012 |
this is a very straight foward story. and some peeps can't stop amazing me here. why do we indulge in all these plenty self righteousness? apart from the sin of fornication which they are both guilty of there is nothing else i'ld blame the poster for. he already made it clear that he had feelings for the girl. any plans of settling down with the girl he had, was murdered by the singular act of her rejecting him when she forgot he had potentials and judged his social status on facial assessment. why didn't the girl seek a proper definition of whatever she was going into when she became interested. thats cos she focused too much on the very same potentials she ignored earlier. its the same reason the guy did not did not seek to give her any explanations cos what beckoned him initially was calling him again WHO TELLS A GIRL JUST BEFORE THEY GET DOWN,'I NO GO MARRY YOU OH?' abeg joor spare him the plenty blames he was just being human |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by no1madman(m): 7:33pm On May 18, 2012 |
fuckin opportunist!Pass her 2 me make i use her clean mouth and i go pass her around. .since she don equate money with qualities of a good man then we go . . . |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Nobody: 7:39pm On May 18, 2012 |
Shd got wat she wantd,..even if shes pregnant,be responsible 4 d child bt dnt marry her.I dnt knw y a maturd lady wunt define her relatnship b4 openin up her leg,n d worst of it al is telin her parents even while d both of u neva discusd it...i blame u both shaa 1 Like |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by no1madman(m): 8:13pm On May 18, 2012 |
Alternatively, tell her God say,if she no give u her anus chop,then she no qualified 2 be ur wife or go ahead with d traditional marriage and on d D-Day,represent a cow or He-goat as her fuckin Bridegroom. . . |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by vokalguy(m): 8:56pm On May 18, 2012 |
buJu-234: I agree with everything you typed! |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by neyostica: 9:22pm On May 18, 2012 |
Op, you are nt wicked, d gal wanted to play smart bt got served 1 Like |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by lekkie073(m): 11:32pm On May 18, 2012 |
U r not guilty in any ramification. Since u no send her message to open her shop for u. Abeg find anotheer church sharply |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Odunnu: 3:27am On May 19, 2012 |
bennyraz: At poster! Don't marry the girl, she's a gold digger. And again, [b]make sure you serve your punishment at the church before you leave. [/b]Shekena. . .when you are done serving, you may leave. But dont you ever marry that girl (or any girl) because of pressure 1 Like |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Ghydyon(m): 5:05am On May 19, 2012 |
oluface: It is sin to say such thing in a open forum..some are perishing because d are ignorant and lack knowledge.How can GOD 4give one sins wen u dint open up 2 confess....Bro pls read ur bible very wel |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Nobody: 9:59am On May 19, 2012 |
favinvest: My story goes like this:- |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Nobody: 10:00am On May 19, 2012 |
favinvest: My story goes like this:- well i dont blame the girl, i too wont date a broke ass from personal experience. nigerian guys only stick with a particular girl wen they hv no money becos the particular girl they want wont give them eye now becos they hv no cash. this issue could hv happened also like this she acceptd ur proposal 2yrs ago, u get a job,then u get rich and u dump her,then she starts crying. Personally u are at fault, u should hv not slept with her. its God who needs to clear ur conscience not NL. 1 Like |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Nobody: 10:02am On May 19, 2012 |
and i think u are hiding some parts of the story. am sure u had been giving her green light, thats why she hopped back. |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Booty4me: 10:22am On May 19, 2012 |
I hate it when someone sit in front of his laptop..copy and paste sum stories then grabs his popcorn and watch nl rocking. Where is the op? |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by cindyrella(f): 10:39am On May 19, 2012 |
Guy you no try at all, you for tell the babe say na only s.ex you want now.. Choi na wah for some girls self.. smh |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Skyloloprince(m): 1:20pm On May 19, 2012 |
My dear no mind dis frudstars..... D girl doesn't lov u, she loves wt she is seein,,, IE wt u ve got nw, a girl who loves u wil stick to u , accept u and even make u her hero wen u cnt kil on ant,,,, d girl na job... Run 4 ur life |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by achi4u(m): 1:56pm On May 19, 2012 |
@op maybe she under-performed during xes i know ur fear...that that what if ur ATM machine stop dispensing cash for u at a certain time,she may abandon u? dude run for ur dear life |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Nobody: 2:39pm On May 19, 2012 |
op. . .pls dont feel guilty at all...you're so on point. . .the greedy bi.t..ch did.nt give you a chance when you were nobody and now she wants to have you by all means. ..it simply means she'll hop onto someone else if you ever get broke. . Pls drop the bi..t..ch like a bag of beans and if the church continue disturbing you move on to another church cuz its not by force to serve God in a particular church 2 Likes |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Tinynita(f): 10:26am On May 20, 2012 |
@poster u r nt wicked. U proposed 2 her & she said she has prayed about it...dat u r nt d right man 4 her....so hw cum u r nw d right man 4 her? Since u dnt luv her, then dnt marry her. Dnt marry out of pity coz dat is d worst tin u can do 2 urself. If d church wana give u suspension coz u commited fornication, let them go ahead wit it bt they should also remember 2 suspend her also coz she also commited fornication. Bt make sure u complete ur suspension even if u wana leave d church. If she is nt suspended wit u 4 fornication, then my advice 2 u is 4 u 2 leave dat church 4 gud. My Pastor usually says '' if ur church can not change u, then change ur church". Dnt allow them 2 intimidate u or compel u 2 do wat u dnt want. Marriage is 4eva until death cums btw d partners. Even d bible said dat God hates divorce. Dnt b intimidated by any1. Dat gal doesn't luv u...she luvs ur moni. If d moni is nt there, she would neva have allowed u even peck her 1 Like |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by 677ano(m): 11:49am On May 20, 2012 |
No you dont have to marry her You cant reject a man when he is poor then scheme back into his life when he is now affluent Believe me this same woman will run from you as soon as the minute you run into hardship Move on it is not about love for her it is about what you have now |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Beync(f): 12:54pm On May 20, 2012 |
U should have rejected her wen she started coming, but u were enjoying the pleasur. What have gained from this pay back? becos that exactly what u did. |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by greedie1(f): 12:57pm On May 20, 2012 |
All these brother muonso si na i ga anu m church sef.... So dey feel its ok to suspend u alone, didnt d girl willfully have sex wit u? since u obviously dont love d girl, u shouldnt marry her... Let dem suspend u if dey ll or u can leave d church all together but u shouldnt ve led d poor girl on wen u had no plans 4 her, i knw u wanted to get back at her 4 rejecting u wen u had nothing,next tym, try to leave revenge to God k |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by osajojo(m): 1:02pm On May 20, 2012 |
I sent this story as a broadcast message on my bbm and every responded and said u shud leave d church and don't allow any gold digger into ur life 1 Like |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Excellent7(m): 1:20pm On May 20, 2012 |
Hello OP, I do not see you as wicked, but you should not have slept with her. That was a mistake! Your proposal I guess expired when she rejected it on the premise that " you dont look like what she was asking for". Pray when did you now become God's will, I guess when u got a job and nice bunk? Maybe tommorrow if you don't have these she will hear again. I detest adults ( especially "religious" folks)not taking their decisions and accepting the outcomes instead of blaming the devil or misrepresenting God. I think the girl is playing smart with you. To me I see the whole thing as a snare Marry the babe to your peril.You should not be blackmailed or boxed into marriage. Granted nobody likes poverty but marriage should be based on things like trust, love and faith in better future. Even if the girl is pregnant you don't have to marry her if you do not have convictions. Do not let "petty people" use God and church to ruin you. Serve your "suspension" and I hope its two of u that are suspended, and then plot your future. Never ever eat shit out of respect!! Any young man talking about marriage or involved in marriage talks is no linger a boy. Put your foot down and do what you are cool with. |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by greedie1(f): 1:25pm On May 20, 2012 |
Tinynita:would ur pastor be Lazarus Muoka of Lords Chosen? |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Password77(m): 2:33pm On May 20, 2012 |
If she couldn't date u wen u had nothing why should she come to u nw?... @poster, u're not wicked, u just took ur pound of flesh which she actually enjoyed. End of story! |
Re: Plz Judge Me; AM I WICKED? by Tedpgrass: 3:04pm On May 20, 2012 |
Need to deal with this from a matured viewpoint. Yes, the lady is at fault having vocalized what a lot of 9ja women will do. They are both guilty of the sin of fornication. Remember y'all, they're workers in a religious body and so are liable to the in-house rules n laws. So no secular perspectives here. He's guilty of having her under false pretence..... knowing their history. Though happy to serve his punishment, letting a matured elder or pastor know his tale might bring some balance to the scenario which is heavily biased against him. With this dealt maturedly, in-house guidance may be given to the youth in the organization regarding choice of life partners and relationship decorum, to hopefully avoid a repeat. 1 Like |
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