ftmom: Yes, I would . . . . . He doesn't have a six pack, he's no handyman, he doesn't know how to really cook, he's no billionaire, he doesn't give audience to my bad moods and and we don't watch the same shows BUT he's the quintessential Mr Clean, he loves me and the kids without reservation, he always puts us first, he's a great provider, a talented lover, trusts me completely in everything and every way and he is my best friend. I have never wanted another and would still marry him again. We are each other's complement. Love you, Darl

Busy_body: Yes I will over and over and over and over again. What is there not to love. He is intelligent, tall, brooding, reserved, mature, dark, deep, has a good sene of humour, caring, loving, handsome but only cos I take eye go market oh nothing to do with his good genes at all at all, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera

But I bet if asked if he feels the same way about lil modest Godfearing angelic me, he will carry his shoes on his head and run a mile

taryour:


ha ha BB, na so u bad reach

Busy_body:

Err. . .gulps. . . Aunty mi. . . erm. . .let us just thank God for God and His unrelenting love for us His creation - I am now a new creature in Christ, old things have passed away/are passing away and all things have become new/are being renewed. . . And now I understand the "special patience and gift of the spirit" God has bestowed on people like you to make sure not only you, but your Hubby and children make Heaven too.

taryour:

my dear God bless u and ur home,May God continue to give u d grace to keep ur home and be a VIRTOUS WOMAN in ur home and ur environment. And may u and i reap d fruits of our labour over our children and husbands IJN,, AMEN..

agiboma: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Busy_body: Yes I will over and over and over and over again. What is there not to love. He is intelligent, tall, brooding, reserved, mature, dark, deep, has a good sene of humour, caring, loving, handsome but only cos I take eye go market oh nothing to do with his good genes at all at all, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera

But I bet if asked if he feels the same way about lil modest Godfearing angelic me, he will carry his shoes on his head and run a mile

Busy_body:

Amen, amen, amen IJN. Thanks for the heads up. May your fountain of unconventional wisdom never run dry IJN.




Agy, that was his past. You are in this already so you are his future. The manuscript is in your hands. His salvation rests upon you as long as you are man and wife. Asides from the longsuffering ish, are you aware that Christians are not supposed to rely on or utilise the world's Court system, but instead seek the Elders in Church to mediate on such affairs, just as the Muslims have their Sharia Courts, etc too And your guess about what these Elder's judgemet would be is as good as mine.

agiboma:

BB you are right as usually, i was only being my usually naughty self.

TechRev: I WILL. i will marry her, marry her, marry her, over and over and over and over and over till eternity. I agree i dont love her as i do one of my former girlfriend. But I cant imagine marrying any other woman than my wife should i do it again a million times. I will marry her over and over she is the other half i always wanted.

justsmile:

in as much as i applaud ur sincerity of loving ur Ex more than ur wife, but don't ur think that shouldn't be so?! just asking o!

matriach: I am not sure! I have thought about it several times and with what i know now I cant say.I am reasonably happy in my marriage and have no plans of it ever breaking up so dont get me wrong.But there are definitely somecharacteristics that he has that i would rather not have had to face. The major one being his attitude to money, he works hard but is always in debt. No savings, no investments nothing to show. Luckily I work and earn a decent salary and most of all I save. Unfortunately now I have to hide my savings from him cos he has borrowed from me soo many times and never repayed. The last straw was when I fell ill and my parents had to foot my hospital bill cos I had emptied my account for him and he had no money.
He has his good points but this particular bad one makes me wonder if I would do it all over again. As for now, i have laid my bed so I am making it as comfortable as possible so I can lie in it.

taryour: Yes yes yes and yes. I would marry him allover again and again if given d 3rd,4th,5th till forever.... We simply just cant leave without eachoder. Still loving each other like we just meet. He is d best man ever created by God,d best hubby,father and friend. He is unique and he is my WORLDSGREATEST....

Sisi_Kill: WARNING - IF YOU ARE GOING TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION HONESTLY, MAKE SURE YOUR SPOUSE DOES NOT. . .I REPEAT DOES NOT KNOW YOUR NL USERNAME.

You are now free to open Pandora's box.

Thank you!!

Lol. He sure knows mine and will post his soon...

adaphic: e.

Sadly, I'm in a r/ship with a man who wants to marry me by all means, but I don't believe he deserves me.
Infact, to cut d long story short, he's a TYRANT, OVERBEARING, TOO INSECURED, AGGRESSIVE, HOT-TEMPERED n more.

ftmom: Yes, I would . . . . . He doesn't have a six pack, he's no handyman, he doesn't know how to really cook, he's no billionaire, he doesn't give audience to my bad moods and and we don't watch the same shows BUT he's the quintessential Mr Clean, he loves me and the kids without reservation, he always puts us first, he's a great provider, a talented lover, trusts me completely in everything and every way and he is my best friend. I have never wanted another and would still marry him again. We are each other's complement. Love you, Darl

annoymous: I saw a similar thread but it was directed at the guys only.
Given the opportunity, will u marry your present spouse all over again?

adaphic: *deep breathe*
Well, with sm of the experiences here, I can say I'm glad I'm not married yet. Its a pointer that i should be very very careful, so I don't make a disaster of my peaceful life.


Sadly, I'm in a r/ship with a man who wants to marry me by all means, but I don't believe he deserves me.
Infact, to cut d long story short, he's a TYRANT, OVERBEARING, TOO INSECURED, AGGRESSIVE, HOT-TEMPERED n more.


was my hubby but d height of it was violence nd battery which made me take a walk before i find myslf six feet below

adaphic: *deep breathe*
Well, with sm of the experiences here, I can say I'm glad I'm not married yet. Its a pointer that i should be very very careful, so I don't make a disaster of my peaceful life.


Sadly, I'm in a r/ship with a man who wants to marry me by all means, but I don't believe he deserves me.
Infact, to cut d long story short, he's a TYRANT, OVERBEARING, TOO INSECURED, AGGRESSIVE, HOT-TEMPERED

I pray that God wld have mercy on me n deliver frm such a doom n lead me to a man that deserves me. So that in future I can be amongst those bragging abt their spouses, IJN. Amen. This, I also pray for all odas in my shoe.

matriach: I am not sure! I have thought about it several times and with what i know now I cant say.I am reasonably happy in my marriage and have no plans of it ever breaking up so dont get me wrong.But there are definitely somecharacteristics that he has that i would rather not have had to face. The major one being his attitude to money, he works hard but is always in debt. No savings, no investments nothing to show. Luckily I work and earn a decent salary and most of all I save. Unfortunately now I have to hide my savings from him cos he has borrowed from me soo many times and never repayed. The last straw was when I fell ill and my parents had to foot my hospital bill cos I had emptied my account for him and he had no money.
He has his good points but this particular bad one makes me wonder if I would do it all over again. As for now, i have laid my bed so I am making it as comfortable as possible so I can lie in it.