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Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Nobody: 9:48pm On May 26, 2012 |
I saw this question on a German forum and saw the respective answers given by women there. Am kinda curious what answers Nigerian women would give to the same question, so I pose it hear again. Make it easy and be polite. Question: Sometimes we see a girl we like while shopping or going on the street, wherever. We pass. Then later we start regretting why we didn't strike up a conversation or chat her up. Now, am quite interested in what ladies think about being chatted up now and again, or whether this would be unpleasant to them. I don't mean a rash approach, but say a decent invitation to drink in a bar just to get to know each other. What do ladies think about this? Original question
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Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Nobody: 9:54pm On May 26, 2012 |
I dont see anything wrong with that as long as its tastefully done. You could possibly miss out on a great relationship, if you are afraid to approach the person. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Nobody: 9:56pm On May 26, 2012 |
talina: I dont see anything wrong with that as long as its tastefully done. You could possibly miss out on a great relationship, if you are afraid to approach the person.Good one. Does "tastefully" not vary from woman to woman? how can one know "tastefully" anywyz? |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by pendo89(f): 10:01pm On May 26, 2012 |
talina: I dont see anything wrong with that as long as its tastefully done. You could possibly miss out on a great relationship, if you are afraid to approach the person. true true pardon me talina am still laughing sauer: Now that is subjective. I know for sure that if one poster tried chatting me up dressed the way he is I wouldn't give him a chance. Taste starts from outward appearance. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Nobody: 10:06pm On May 26, 2012 |
sauer:I suppose it would vary for each woman. Hmmm,Id say, tastefully as in,not feeling stalked. That he is genuine in his interest and is confident in himself. Or even kinda shy but not too shy to approach. Really,just be yourself , staight forward and friendly. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Nobody: 10:07pm On May 26, 2012 |
pendo89: |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by pendo89(f): 10:13pm On May 26, 2012 |
talina: |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Nobody: 10:17pm On May 26, 2012 |
pendo89: Ahh,yes, thank you! |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Mynd44: 10:28pm On May 26, 2012 |
Different strokes for different folks |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by slimyem: 10:32pm On May 26, 2012 |
being chatted up is cool but the who is doing the chatting up and how its being done that determines a lady response at any point in time... |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Rocktation(f): 10:35pm On May 26, 2012 |
Hmmmn...idk. I mean, why not just ask for my digits first off and get going already? You're supposed to be random, remember? |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Mynd44: 10:48pm On May 26, 2012 |
Rocktation: Hmmmn...idk. I mean, why not just ask for my digits first off and get going already? You're supposed to be random, remember?How about you give me yours |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Rocktation(f): 10:59pm On May 26, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Nice try The thing is, you're worse than random right now. Why! I don't even know what you look like. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Mynd44: 11:07pm On May 26, 2012 |
Rocktation:Okay lets see, I have two hands, ten fingers, a pair of legs and ten toes. I have a head with hair on it on that head, I have a nose with two nostrils, two ears a mouth two eyes and a mouth with 32 teethand one tongue inside. Now you have an idea of what I look like |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Rocktation(f): 11:10pm On May 26, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Yeah...Osama Bin Laden had thesame features 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Mynd44: 11:43pm On May 26, 2012 |
Rocktation:I did not mention that I had a beard did I? |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by kilimanjaro(m): 12:00am On May 27, 2012 |
Rocktation: |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by kilimanjaro(m): 12:02am On May 27, 2012 |
Rocktation:He look like a telephone pole with a wide fore-head 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Mynd44: 7:14am On May 27, 2012 |
kilimanjaro:Nobody asked you to describe yourself na 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Nobody: 7:16am On May 27, 2012 |
I usually just pretend deaf. I do not like being "chatted up" by potential kidnappers, thank you. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Mynd44: 7:36am On May 27, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI:That will explain the signature |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Nobody: 7:37am On May 27, 2012 |
Mynd_44: And ppl still ignore it. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Mynd44: 7:44am On May 27, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI:They probably think it's a joke |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Nobody: 7:46am On May 27, 2012 |
pendo89:xup, pendo!? So dressing = taste? And I thought someone used to say not all that glitters is gold? Rocktation: Hmmmn...idk. I mean, why not just ask for my digits first off and get going already? You're supposed to be random, remember?Someone did have this kind of answer on the same forum, but isn't it just weirder asking for digits when there is no getting-to-know-each-other just yet? Ileke-IdI:Now, that's a Nigerian woman's answer! |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Nobody: 7:48am On May 27, 2012 |
That, I am. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Nobody: 7:48am On May 27, 2012 |
Mynd_44:Ekiti women do not joke, we're dead serious. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Mynd44: 7:56am On May 27, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI:I have seen that first hand. Don't ask me where |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Nobody: 7:57am On May 27, 2012 |
"Where else" is the real question. Glad you recognized. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Mynd44: 8:00am On May 27, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI:I plead the FIFTH amendment |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Rocktation(f): 8:49am On May 27, 2012 |
sauer: Yeah, it'd be awkward in both instances. But to a lesser degree if he just asks for my number....after a little bit of chatting up though. That's the least of the tasks that any supposedly suave enough man can manage. I mean, what hope will there be for a good conversation-over-tea, if you cannot wring my digits out of me? |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by queensmith: 9:01am On May 27, 2012 |
sauer: I saw this question on a German forum and saw the respective answers given by women there. Am kinda curious what answers Nigerian women would give to the same question, so I pose it hear again. Make it easy and be polite. Some women like attention, I hate it. I don't think a respectable man with depth and decent character will decide to pick up women on the road. Very common for black men, women you don't know, you don't know where she comes from where she has been, you have just gone after a pretty face. I don't appreciate it, and I don't like giving my details to strangers. But if you are both shooting the signals at each other ooo then I guess it's different. |
Re: Ladies, What Do You Think About Being Chatted Up Now And Again? by Mynd44: 9:01am On May 27, 2012 |
Rocktation:Why can't you just skip Tea and give him the number? |
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